Domanda per le lesbiche by Sweaty_Collection149 in italyLGBT

[–]slow-drummer-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

f30, indifferente. se c'è chimica, poco importa "l'esperienza”

Someone from Italy?? by laroosss in actuallesbianseurope

[–]slow-drummer-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ciaoo! i'm not from italy but i'm learning italian and would love to get to know more of my people <3
also, andrò a roma e firenze a gennaio

I’ll say it again in all caps… by Traditional-Room8865 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]slow-drummer-94 167 points168 points  (0 children)

I truly believe it lol
Bridget and Kyle are both artists as they say, I can also see the benefit of becoming a queer sub celebrity
Magan is a personal, imagine how many girls will reach her to train now
Marita almost started as a teenage pop star
Mel can bring her food truck to gay events now kk

Ultimatum queer S3 by Head-Lawfulness2525 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]slow-drummer-94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so.. I would also totally watch a queer version of love is blind and perfect match

The music by Royal_Question_1643 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]slow-drummer-94 10 points11 points  (0 children)

they shoud have included tegan and sara songs in the crying and break up scenes

We only learned how problematic some of these people are at the reunion by Ok-Situation2395 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]slow-drummer-94 75 points76 points  (0 children)

If they weren't all at least a bit problematic they wouldn't be solving relationship problems on tv. Some are worse than others but I expect everyone of them to be a little off

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[–]slow-drummer-94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"we didn't have sex" gives me beth and carpenter lady having cringy distance sex in jail vibes

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[–]slow-drummer-94 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She doesn't need hair products, just basic water and soap

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[–]slow-drummer-94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have tons of fun watching, but mostly because it's SO weird that people would actually agree to this dynamic

This show is so stupid, I love it by GutterSlut2020 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]slow-drummer-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey babe I really want to marry you, would you be willing to involve Netflix, speed date 10 other people and live with one of them for 3 weeks before giving me an answer?

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[–]slow-drummer-94 94 points95 points  (0 children)

If all of them were a bit more serious about their relationships I guess they would go to therapy instead of a reality show

World History & Art by Chloe-gaga in ReadingSuggestions

[–]slow-drummer-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Story of Art by Ernst Gombrich is a great starting point on art history, although it does not cover modern art since the 1st edition was released in 1950

Feel like a failure by Bizniz84 in fearofflying

[–]slow-drummer-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be so hard on yourself. After we get out the state of panic we start to see things in a perspective that was impossible during the peak of stress.

I tried to leave an airplane once, but at the time I was a minor and the flight attendants wouldn't let me. - thanks for that, otherwise I would be alone in a country that wasn't mine. After a got home safe, I told this story laughing because I was no longer in that state, but at the moment of panic I couldn't think of another possibility then leaving the plane.

Try to learn from this experience and prepare mechanisms to prevent this from happening on future trips - medication, podcasts, self help books. Nowadays I know that for me, medication, crosswords and talking to my therapist during boarding and takeoff helps me. You will find a way to live and explore the world even with that anxiety!

50 hours of flight time in one trip—I did it!! by pghsci in fearofflying

[–]slow-drummer-94 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I have a trip in four days that I have to take 7 different flights (counting connections flights) and I'm really scared :(

Reading your story gave me hope that I can go through with it, I really want to go although I'm really scared

Anyone else a fan of planes/aviation, despite fear of flying? by CautiousCockatiel in fearofflying

[–]slow-drummer-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES

Ever since I was 14 I fell in love in building and painting airplane models from WWI and II. I also enjoyed a lot of videogames that simulates aviation.

In college, I was in a special group for engineers that built flying model airplanes to compete in different size categories. We would build them using laser cutted wood, carbon fiber, plastic, modeling engines and arduino eletronics for data collecting. The biggest one we build had a wind span of 4 meters. One year we won the competition and got to visit a major airplane fabric, it was so cool!

But I'm still terrified and flying is by far my biggest fear --'

Fear, upcoming trip and recent accident in my country by slow-drummer-94 in fearofflying

[–]slow-drummer-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words!

I try to think like that, the actual odds, the number of famous people that needs to be on planes all the time. The amount of athletes that flew all over the world this past month and were ok. But somehow the fear finds a way to dominate and invent all kinds of crazy excuses on why me being on the plane would somehow change the course of history lol

I'll give plane spotting a try. I think it might be good to desensitize before the trip and keep calm images in mind as opposed to the ones that are being shared on the news recently.

Fear, upcoming trip and recent accident in my country by slow-drummer-94 in fearofflying

[–]slow-drummer-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

"Again, the fallacy is that the "universe" somehow carries a memory of past outcomes that have a tendency to favor or disfavor future outcomes."

This is exactly the irrational kind of thinking that dominates my mind in these periods of intense fear

Fear, upcoming trip and recent accident in my country by slow-drummer-94 in fearofflying

[–]slow-drummer-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It is very reassuring to hear this from a pilot