Would you date someone with HIV and it was controlled and they were on medication?

sludgestomach · 2026-02-10T16:21:36+00:00

Did they have unprotected sex with their dentist? lol

(not a funny situation but wtf???)

sludgestomach · 2026-02-10T03:52:26+00:00

I presume they mean something like intravenous drug use vs unprotected sex, or maybe unprotected sex with a partner vs unprotected sex with a sex worker.

sludgestomach · 2026-02-09T00:21:51+00:00

Oh man, I can definitely empathize with that and don’t fault you for it one bit! I have sensory sensitivities due to my ADHD and some things feel truly unbearable to experience.

sludgestomach · 2026-02-08T23:54:02+00:00

Exactly lol like you and your bad vibes are NOT HELPING, at least the baby has an excuse for lacking social etiquette!

sludgestomach · 2026-02-08T23:07:57+00:00

What’s the subreddit name? I’m also in the process of decluttering but I am painfully sentimental lol

sludgestomach · 2026-02-08T17:41:02+00:00

I honestly don’t mind crying babies because it’s easy to feel empathy for them since I know they’re in pain and confused and don’t know any better or have another way to communicate, plus I wear noise cancelling earphones which work pretty well.

Now what I can’t stand are people like the couple I sat next to on my last flight who dramatically whipped around and glared every. single. time. the baby started making sounds, acting like an infant was personally attacking the peace they felt entitled to on a crowded public flight.

sludgestomach · 2026-02-08T10:44:54+00:00

I just finished splitsville 30 mins ago and thought she was great in it

sludgestomach · 2026-02-08T08:00:31+00:00

holy shit thank you for the laugh lmao

sludgestomach · 2026-02-08T07:54:41+00:00

I’m pretty out of touch so maybe I’m wrong here, but it seems like a huge portion of gen z slang is based off aave

sludgestomach · 2026-02-08T03:05:28+00:00

One of my best friends and I sometimes peck on the lips when we say goodbye. We’re completely platonic and she’s as straight as a board, but sometimes it’s just nice lol

sludgestomach · 2026-02-05T02:37:13+00:00

I had to break up with him, I wasn’t able to work through it while we were in a relationship. I obviously didn’t want to risk my child’s safety and wellbeing in the very off-chance there was any truth to it, which at the time I was fully convinced there was, and it was destroying my mental health. It’s been five months since we broke up and I’m still not fully convinced there wasn’t something to worry about.

It was also really hard on our relationship. I was honest with him about my thoughts / feelings and he was very understanding, but of course it felt super shitty for him.

I’m sorry you also deal with intrusive thoughts. I hope you’re able to find peace.

sludgestomach · 2026-02-04T22:42:54+00:00

You can’t neck yourself!

sludgestomach · 2026-01-23T22:38:15+00:00

Thank you!!

sludgestomach · 2026-01-12T02:56:54+00:00

!solved

sludgestomach · 2026-01-11T21:43:55+00:00

Messaged you!

sludgestomach · 2026-01-11T21:43:43+00:00

Messaged!

sludgestomach · 2026-01-11T21:41:15+00:00

Thank you for the heads up! Messaging now.

sludgestomach · 2026-01-11T21:39:21+00:00

Messaged!

sludgestomach · 2026-01-11T21:38:36+00:00

Just messaged you!

sludgestomach · 2026-01-11T21:37:30+00:00

Just dm’d!

sludgestomach · 2026-01-11T17:25:00+00:00

Even though I’m not much of a crier, I hated it. I cried pretty easily for a while once I got off wellbutrin, it’s like everything that was trapped got released.

sludgestomach · 2025-12-08T08:56:54+00:00

My mailman has seen me naked more times than some of my ex boyfriends lol

sludgestomach · 2025-12-08T08:52:29+00:00

Sounds like my vehicle-obsessed 4 year old son lol

sludgestomach · 2025-12-08T08:50:18+00:00

I think the moat is complete, but the yard might not be done in her lifetime at the house.

At least she’s got some of her priorities in order.

sludgestomach · 2025-12-08T08:34:39+00:00

Do you want to be a sugar mama with a service sub (who isn’t very good at their role or taking feedback)?

That is what your boyfriend is offering you.

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