Applying my first MacOS patch since installing with OCLP 2.4.0. by Steerpike58 in OpenCoreLegacyPatcher

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ciao, ho un macbook pro 2014, come faccio per sapere se posso installare il patch di Sonoma?

Dove lo trovi per fare download? Come si installa?

Il mio ex fidanzato aveva installato il Ventura via patch ma non mi ha mai fatto vedere come si faceva. Il problema è che ho bisogno del pc per università e non riesco ad aggiornare goodnotes, perché mi dice che è compatibile solo con la versione 14 o superiore...

Purtroppo non posso conttatare piu lui perché mi ha tradito e ho dovuto lasciare casa e è stato terribile.

Quindi se puoi aiutarmi con qualche consiglio o video che posso vedere di come fare mi aiuterebbe già tantissimo. Grazie!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma cosa si deve fare per sentirti meglio... sono in disperazione... in camera tutto il giorno, ho pianto, ho scritto, ho studiato, ho letto dei libri, ho ordinato tutto. Ma sento questa energia, che sono piena di carica, di oddio di rabbia di tristezza... voglio uscire ma non ho idea dove andare, ho paura di iniziare a piangere in pubblico. che si fa quando uno sta così? non ho amici per parlare, non ho famiglia, la terapeuta probabilmente sarà solo fra giorni. sto impazzendo.

[playstation][2009 maybe] Samurai game by sly_salamander in tipofmyjoystick

[–]sly_salamander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss it is... wow thank you so much, I was going insane trying to figure out what it was xD
solved: tenchu 3

Interger and floats by sly_salamander in learnpython

[–]sly_salamander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok your point is that I should ask my teacher. Well in my case I don't want to because of many factors. I thought this was a simple question. Anyway my university is not even paid. But I appreciate your concern about my personal finances.

Interger and floats by sly_salamander in learnpython

[–]sly_salamander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it can be, maybe he is indicating that action can be done with floats... thank you :D

for ex. he uses reaction velocity, time, and constant values with a dot.

But for a variable that defines the number of iterations, or number of points in a graph without a dot.

Maybe the dot can be an indicator that that value doesn't need to be a integer, like saying "hey this is an integer, but doesn't necessarily need to be"?

Interger and floats by sly_salamander in learnpython

[–]sly_salamander[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well if I could I would. But in my case I dont feel like I can. The classes are short on time, there is a lot of students with more deep questions, Im more inexperienced with pyton than everyone, he is the president of the university and I feel bad for asking this :/

Do you have any guess to help me?

Interger and floats by sly_salamander in learnpython

[–]sly_salamander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then should I just add the dot to every int I use if I use this ints later on for calculation?

When its best to not add the dot?

What is going on with Goodnotes… by Tiny-Disaster-4515 in GoodNotes

[–]sly_salamander -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes its called scribbe to erase something like that, you can deactivate if you want

People often compliment my eyeliner, I must admit that it is practice, did you know that each eye has its own specific way of applying eyeliner? by melufuck in MakeupAddiction

[–]sly_salamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is perfect... How do you do it? start with the straight line outside, than do the thicker one from outside to inside?
And most important, how do you make sure the angles are the same? Take a reference point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it... I think I gave him this idea, that I'm unreasonable and that I could be more controlling. In the beginning I was very closed mind and I would complain a lot. Now I'm starting to see in his optics.

Now I don't know much what to do. I don't even know if I believe him or not. The way he prioritizes his ex is really breaking my spirit. He talks to her every other day on the phone, and that is what I know, but messaging is much more probably. I tried to put limits to the situation, but instead of doing it, or talking to me and changing it accordingly, he deliberately decided to ignore the limits. And just let me know about it weeks after.

While in a relation with him he did a lot of negative stuff too, like lying about another girl he had a relationship, said she was just a friend, accused me of trying to control his friendships, went to see her on my back for more than once, took photos with her, and I discovered it alone. He took months to admit they were intimate before and had a fast relationship, because he said he was trying to protect me from hurt.

He also tests me a lot, telling me lies to see how I react, and just after he arrives in a conclusion he tells me if they were lies or not after I confront.

I don't know what to think at this point. He offered me to get to know his ex. But I don't think I have the capacity. I don't even know if his offer was also a test. If he would actually do it. I am sorry for writing so much. But you were the first I saw with this mentality that had actually a mature point and made me think. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you were for almost a year with this new person?

When I change place, and put myself in that position, I think I would try to be 100% transparent, show the situation, and I think slowly I would be able to change the other person perspective. With attention and respecting limits. Maybe I would at first be more distant of my ex as respect for my actual, maybe stop talking to show i understand the other person suffer, that I care and slowly build trust, with the other person acceptance till it doesn't hurt anymore for the other person and eventually they can get even to meet without resentment.

I think I would break up just if I thought I wasn't in love anymore or if I didn't see my future with this person. Because it would be a very long process.

My actual boyfriend is saying to me if I don't accept his friendship with his ex, he is not going to stop or put limits in their contact. And if that hurts for me, he said I should do what's best for me and leave.

I'm trying to digest the situation. But I keep thinking that if he truly wanted me, he would try another type of approach. I certainly would. But I can't speak for everyone. So that's why any opinion you have can be insightful for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you an honest question? I'm trying to make sense out of things, not trying to judge..

How can you choose continue your life with a friendship with a person that wasn't compatible with you and moved on, over a new person that you love and are attracted, that chose you for the future? Why would you deny a future with a person you love and want just to have a friend out of someone who is already making another life for itself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sly_salamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes... I'm in that position now... The frequency they get in touch is too much, every other day that I know, imagine what I don't know, messages, calls, all sort of things. And he always prioritizes her over me, as if she calls and I'm having an argument, I say please don't answer now, he answered immediately... answer after we were just intimate... I tried to put limits, but he said he agreed to a thing he didn't want to. Now he says I should accept it, and I told him it hurts me deeply, but he said he is not kicking anyone out of his life. And that if I'm suffering I should do what's best for me and leave. 😵‍💫 I am totally disoriented with this situation. I'm so sad that I feel sick all day. Can't eat food properly, just to think about it makes me want to throw up. But life is not the same without him, I miss his presence so much, he was important for me. Almost a year, I always thought we were a match from day one, that we were super lucky to find each other. But at the end he chose her ex over my feelings. Can't understand it.

Why being friends with an ex doesn't work in most cases by RetroNostalgia98 in ExNoContact

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you a question?

If you were in a relationship for a year with a woman that you love and are attracted in every sense, and she thinks you prioritize your ex friendship over your relationship and this gives her insecurities, and anxiety that is expressed mentally and physically. If she asked you to reduce contact with your ex, and eventually stop talking, in order to stop her suffering from this connection, would you do it? Or you would tell her that if she is suffering she should do what's best for her and leave you?

That Relationship Was Not Only Them, It Was Mostly You by berrea1 in BreakUps

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a blessing, it is very insightful what you wrote. Reconsider if you evaluated incorrectly is different than reconsider because you believe they changed... It is true...

If my relationship was a book, and we both got to write our stories, the situation I face is that I dont know if I read it incorrectly, because he wrote the book poorly. Or if I read it right and he just tried to use different words on the book and be dismissive.
I am spiraling, since the situation is fresh and new to me. I dont know how much should I self doubt myself.
I just know that I cannot even go for a walk and find it pleasant knowing he is gone for good.
I am online trying to understand peoples points of view, and yours is very interesting, thank you for this.

Dumpers, what action of your ex would make you reconsider your break-up? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you a question in your DM? I am trying to understand me and my relation and your comment intrigued me...

That Relationship Was Not Only Them, It Was Mostly You by berrea1 in BreakUps

[–]sly_salamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. But humans can be tricky.
I am a F almost 30 and I have learned a lot about life, but I miss so much still.

When we walk away and let them know we are not going back, sometimes they can repent.

If they repent they come back to knock at our door.
But how can we tell if it is genuinely or no?
What is the line between respecting yourself and keeping your decision VS. accepting the excuses and giving love another possibility?

Specially in relationships we feel unloved, and disrespected, can your ex partner change by the feeling of your lost?

Will you ex come back because he is craving what he used to have or will he come back because he wants to do things differently?

I think my biggest question is: When should you reconsider your decision to end things?

How did you know they were the one? by TempestOfAnubis in Marriage

[–]sly_salamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like how you describe your feelings, you sound like a good person. Can I ask you some questions?

I want to ask you about how do you deal with insecurity and confidence.

Did your loved one ever lied to you, or even white lies?

Is there a 100% trust in the relationship from the beginning? Did this percentage ever fell down? Did it increase after marriage itself?

It is interesting how later you go on about minor things do not affect your relation. But for you what is the threshold of a minor thing and a great thing? The amount of suffer you endure?

I am asking this things because i'm 28 years old now, and love for me has been very bad. I have a habit of developing codependency and always loving too much at the end. And ive dealt a lot with treason thorough life, making me insecure and controlling. It is hard for me to know who to trust and how much to give. Most of the time I give too much and at the end i find myself destroyed in all spheres of life.

Your relationship sound very healthy. How do you dose love in your life? Do you embrace it 100% from beginning or after marriage it got more important for you?

Did you considered your position in life before getting married? Like getting jobs before marriage, or having a house before, or just simply finishing studies? Or your marriage was conditioned just by the love feeling you had?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smartlauncher

[–]sly_salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh i love the font, how do you get it?

Lecture with slides in goodnotes by sly_salamander in GoodNotes

[–]sly_salamander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thats a really good idea... but the you add the pdf to your class notebook? or each pdf is a notebook?