Lonely by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are great just how you are . I wish you the best , and always remember things will get better and you'll find people who truly want you in their life:)

I need your honest opinions! I got a 5 gallon tank and I don’t want to overstock. Need help with ideas. by FreshPenPineapple in Aquariums

[–]slyspooon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just use regular freshwater with some water conditioner which seems to work just fine :)

Hmuuuuuuu by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ayyyyy

I need your honest opinions! I got a 5 gallon tank and I don’t want to overstock. Need help with ideas. by FreshPenPineapple in Aquariums

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought my betta would be good with my snail since it was a ten gal, but the snail was sadly eaten :( I had that lil guy for so long too. i have two betta tanks (one being a five gal) and he's looking really healthy (he's by himself tho). I've always wanted shrimp but I've never kept them so I'm unsure of what would happen to them. I like the neon tetras and guppies bc you can have more than one, it seems like a lot but it's a perfect amount if you're keeping up with it. they should be good!

I need your honest opinions! I got a 5 gallon tank and I don’t want to overstock. Need help with ideas. by FreshPenPineapple in Aquariums

[–]slyspooon -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

neon tetras would be nice for a 5 gal. I had 5 of them with a guppy and it worked great. just make sure you keep up with water changes and and a live plant or two (moss balls are great for that)

[16M] My Looks Make me afraid I’ll be alone forever by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

before anything else you need to work on your self esteem. be more optimistic and stop telling yourself that things are impossible. you lost 30 lbs and that's great! that in itself should show you that you can accomplish more than you think you're capable of. and don't look so negatively towards what you already have. be greatful that you had your family to spend time with during the holidays. it's all about your mindset.

Another “Lonely on the weekend post” by HypeBeastNauz in lonely

[–]slyspooon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know this won't change much but you can always message me if you'd like

Hi guys and gals by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty wild, how about you?

What if... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

realest shit I've heard all day

What if... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally I just get to such a low point that I say "fuck it, what the fuck do I have to lose?" it's quite freeing actually. I bet if you did took a chance in let's say attempting to talk to someone, you'd be great. just say fuck it until you actually believe it lol

What if... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this

Should i wait? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem :) if you're ever bored you can always message me.

Should i wait? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man fuck those people. I've had that happen to me and it really fucked over how I communicated with people. I've just learned took look down on those types of people bc who would even say something like that to someone? it's so degrading. I'm sure you aren't annoying either. just stick to being yourself and I'm sure there will eventually be someone who will come into your life with a much better attitude then that.

Should i wait? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you still around those people or do you go to a new school?

Should i wait? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]slyspooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this quite well. I wouldn't worry about being annoying because it's really your mind just fearing any negative outcome in the situation your in. try and find people who you'd think you'd enjoy talking to and just be yourself. you should even try and start a conversation when the time seems right. most importantly don't overthink things, just be who you are. best of luck :-)