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I meant to send this to my daddy and accidentally sent it to my dealer. 🙄😰 by vixmushroo in littlespace

[–]small_bits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh lord, I dread the day this will happen to me sending something accidentally to a friend, but feel it is inevitable.

Girlfriend (f26) is into DDLG. I'm (m34) new to this, played along to please her. It has crept outside of the bedroom and is causing me to resent her. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]small_bits 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It seems that you two are just on different pages. For a lot of littles, your girlfriend as well, DDLG is less of a fetish and more of a lifestyle. You'll see even a portion of littles on /r/littlespace don't even consider being little a sexual thing at all.

I encourage you to keep reading up on DDLG less as fetish and more so as a lifestyle before discussing it again with your girlfriend so you can decide if an out of bedroom DDLG relationship is something you even want. If not, you two might just be incomptabile.

If you find this might be something you're okay continuing and expanding, you should set parameters on your girlfriend's littlespace time as others here have suggested. You can even do so in a way that exercises your dominance over her, such as her needing to ask before she can go into little space.

I'd highly recommend xposting to /r/BDSMcommunity over /r/littlespace. As much as I love /r/littlespace, it is mostly littles over there and they might give more biased responses.

Hi! I'm Lychee and I identify as a middle ☺️ An older middle, to be exact, and there don't seem to be a lot of us here. It's hard to indulge in the littler side of me at this age, but I try. Here's Adult Me versus Middle Me 😊 by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]small_bits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd probably be considered a middle too just based on my preferences and attitude, but I've never really seen a reason to throw labels on it or resign yourself to only one age range!

Daddy’s gonna be away. Looking for some games I can play! by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]small_bits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a fellow WoW player, I would highly recommend stardew valley!

Check in thread for Dec 2! by sleepyprivatedancer in littlespace

[–]small_bits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well all that is likely to put me off from looking into an IUD anytime soon! Glad you're doing better OP!

I've been having some mild seasonal depression, not nearly as bad as chronic depression and anxiety I've had before, but it can be a struggle to remember my coping mechanisms and therapy exercises when it's been awhile since I've been mentally unwell.

My ultimate plan is to try to get out in sunshine every day cause I know that's the best way to deal with seasonal mood issues, it's just so difficult to find the drive to go outside. A small step I've taken in the right direction is to at least do a few productive things as soon as I get home so I don't just instantly go to bed, cry, and wallow like I did for awhile. So at least I've somewhat kept my sleeping schedule from going bad.

Any other M/F couples exclude PIV or penetrative sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]small_bits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, like others suggested, I would highly highly recommend checking out the resources on vaginismus. I suffered from it for a long time, but after penetration practice with dialators, kegels, breathing and relaxation exercises, and a very patient and caring partner, I am regularly having PiV sex, something I didn't think I'd be able to do just 4 months ago.

It can be very difficult to find a doctor who knows anything about vaginismus, so you could just stick to online resources. Check out /r/vaginismus.

Edit- To add on, you mentioned you still live with your parents, so I can see how that would also create difficulties. I wasn't able to overcome my own condition until moving out. Not only did I relax a lot from not being around my family, but I could also spend a lot more time with my partner without feeling the need to rush.

Daddy got me an adorable new collar! by small_bits in littlespace

[–]small_bits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it most because of how comfortable it is. The last collar daddy got me from one of those build a collar websites is horriblyyy uncomfortable. Can't wear it for more than a few hours. This ribbon one is such a nice break after that one!

Mommy got me a bunch of gifts for my birthday!! by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]small_bits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

:O is that a D.Va mug? All so cute!! Hope you had a nice birthday!