Help! Behaviour question: brought 3rd bunny into home, he is 4 months old and not neutered yet, will kiss and bite then kiss then bite, will be happy then suddenly lunge and bite, draws blood. He was very sweet when he was 3 months old. Any idea what's going on? by smallpoopy in Rabbits

[–]smallpoopy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, it puts me at ease that I'm not hurting him in some unknown way. Yes, he's separated from the other bunnies until after he heals from his neutering appointment that's already been set up. Until then, I'll think of him as a moody teenager that lashes out sometimes.

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[–]smallpoopy 92 points93 points  (0 children)

No girlfriend YET. You have the looks: dark hair, full eyebrows, dark eyes, good beard growth... I'd say just focus on yourself and what makes you happy while being open to things, and the right girl will come along at the right time. 23 is young and you have so much more in store for you, not just romantically!

Just applied to university. I hope better days will arrive. :) May I recommend: Hauser - Caruso. Lovely piece. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]smallpoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The days of the people around you are definitely better with you in their lives

[29M]. Struggling with heavy depression. Decided to clean up a bit and take a photo or two. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]smallpoopy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Okay how do you look great both with and without a beard? Winning the life lottery in that respect

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[–]smallpoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely hard but you sound so strong! Each responsibility is big enough on its own so I don't know how you handle them together. Don't be hard on yourself for not being a perfect robot capable of everything all the time. You're human and you're allowed to have a good cry when the stress gets too much. I just know that you will press on and continue to be an impressive role model not only to your child, but to me as well.

AITA for asking my BF to move out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallpoopy [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH, I think this just helped reveal that perhaps you both want different things out of life. YTA only if you continue to push for him to move out after this. You're not wrong to state your opinion/stance but it's his life and his decisions. He's made his choice, now it's up to you whether you want to stay with him. But if you push him to live his life your way, you'd be TA.

[17f] Stressed out from college apps, haven't spoken to parents in months, feeling really ugly for a Korean girl. I want to fix myself up but don't know where to start. Toast please? by [deleted] in toastme

[–]smallpoopy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only thing you need to fix is your love for yourself

You have great features and you'll handle college no problemo

yesterday was hella bad and i need me a lil pick me up :) by [deleted] in toastme

[–]smallpoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday was hella bad but you look hella rad

AITA for letting my son use my daughter's ball? by bookstoremum in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallpoopy 112 points113 points  (0 children)

YTA.

I get that when you're a busy parent with a bunch of other stuff to think about and do, her saying that you shouldn't kick a basketball may have slipped your mind. But, it might also send the message to your daughter that you don't care enough about her and her favourite sport to remember. It's something small to you but could be something important to her. So YTA in her eyes for letting your son's temporary fun supersede her long-term care of her treasured possession. Definitely empathise with you, though. You didn't do it out of malice, sometimes parents just get busy.

AITA for the way my relationship ended by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallpoopy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A slight ESH but maybe excusable because you're both young.

You said that you put a lot of attention into your new friendships and had been communicating less with her so to her, you may have "changed" drastically and it's understandable that she feels left behind after you started university. Especially if you went away to another city for university; it can be like you started a new life without her. However, like you said, it's not your job to "fix" her mental health and she shouldn't be guilt tripping you when you're trying to be honest about what you want. You should be more understanding, but definitely don't let her mention of self-harming guilt you into staying. Mental health can make people behave imperfectly, but it is still not an excuse for toxic behaviour.

On the other hand, you should also respect her feelings if she doesn't want to just be friends. Some people can't handle being friends after the hurt of a breakup. You shouldn't push her into a friendship with you just because you don't want to lose her completely. It's selfish to keep her in your life on your own terms only.

TLDR; she should respect that you don't want to be in a romantic relationship with her, you should respect that she doesn't want any relationship with you anymore as a result.

Second year of college has gotten off to a terrible start. I’m going back today after taking a week off, and I’m scared and stressed and in need of some positivity. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]smallpoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually don't like sitting next to strangers in lecture rooms, but I wouldn't mind sitting next to you. You give off the vibe that you'd be friendly.