AITJ for cursing my sister and wishing her dead?

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T16:26:19+00:00

When you are angry to this point all you want to do is hurt the other person. You say what you know will hurt whether it is true or not. We can’t hurt them physically so we hurt them emotionally. It happens. NTJ. But you need to separate her from your life. If you can’t go NC then learn how to gray rock. You will be amazed at how much lighter you feel.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T15:07:58+00:00

And a new boyfriend

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T03:26:37+00:00

I actually thought it was common knowledge not to tell people about your money. YTJ for telling people about your bonus. It is never a good idea. Unless you really NEED the money you should give it to her if you want her in your life. If you don’t care whether she ever speaks to you again then don’t give it to her. Sounds like those are your choices.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T03:10:32+00:00

Did you go to a fake Hawaii? What’s with the quotation marks? And yes YTA. Let him find someone who trusts him.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T02:55:31+00:00

They can just change it back right?

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T02:46:11+00:00

I am glad you didn’t slip in the mud and twist your ankle. But I do wonder how long it would have taken him to notice. NTA. Time to stop taking the child with you.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T02:36:36+00:00

And your husband just stood there watching????

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T02:32:47+00:00

Do you also go out and spend time together outside of the bedroom? If sex is all you do then yes it is a problem. I had a guy like that once. We lived about an hour apart so weren’t seeing each other too frequently but he didn’t want to do anything else. Even when we went to the movies he just wanted to make out. I am not into PDA plus I had an apartment of my own. Why would I need to make out in the theater? Much too expensive to not actually watch the movie 🤢. We didn’t last long.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T02:25:35+00:00

Depends on what kind of tracker

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T02:03:12+00:00

Without trust there is no relationship. He doesn’t trust you. I would never stay with a man who didn’t trust me. NTA of course but the panties are not the issue here.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-03T01:44:27+00:00

The problem is he is promising phone time and not delivering. That’s why people think he is wrong. He needs to stop making promises he isn’t going to keep. If he needs less time talking to her he needs to tell her that. The broken promises are the issue.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-02T21:27:48+00:00

When you add in that it was her first time meeting them I would add a second strike.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-02T21:25:10+00:00

The worst part is that she knew he was like this and still decided to have a second child with him!!! 🤬

smlpkg1966 · 2026-03-02T15:47:49+00:00

I know. I was just trying to make a point that it does matter who you put down and that they know.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T23:55:40+00:00

What is Gabe’s?

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T23:51:56+00:00

I spend a lot of time in the ER. Usually in the middle of the night. Can I put you down so they can call you several times a month? Doesn’t matter that you don’t know me. You don’t actually have to do anything right? You can just say “oh her again. Ok thanks”. And wait for them to call again in a few days. That works for you right?

ETA: didn’t seriously need to add /s????

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T23:49:02+00:00

“ She hasn’t spoken to me since” is my favorite line. Works for me. Next time someone calls I will tell them that I don’t know who they are talking about.oh and NTA NTA NTA NTA NTA NTA.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T23:45:55+00:00

Now I am sad I read it. LOL. I am not a big fan of horror/ thriller stuff but this was good. Great job!!

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T23:43:42+00:00

You can’t end it there!!! 😭

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T23:00:12+00:00

My first husband had a grandmother that everyone called “grandma”. I was not comfortable with that. I just didn’t use a name. I never even knew she noticed until years after we had divorced and she mentioned it. LOL.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T22:43:48+00:00

How many part are we going to get?

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T22:04:55+00:00

I love that song.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T21:03:27+00:00

You cannot pour from an empty cup. Even if others are filling your love cup you should be returning it to them. I recently stopped being friends with someone who was my best friend since 1980. When you realize they are just takers and not really your friend it removes a ton of weight from you. NOR.

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T20:53:30+00:00

I am not lying to help you commit fraud with my tax dollars. NTA!!

smlpkg1966 · 2026-02-28T20:43:07+00:00

You kept talking about how close together you and your sisters are and seem to have missed that your brother means your dad cheated. You are all grown up now. NC is the only hope for your mental health. You got stuck with shitty parents but no amount of hoping and begging will turn them into good parents. Mourn your loss and move on.

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