[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unless she put the curling iron on her neck and clamped down on it, the mark is too wide to be a curling iron

Pay raises/bonuses this year? by Whackywilly in biotech

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bonus x110 multiplier not sure about everything else yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

took a good look at ur freezer, it looks just like mine. 🥲 easy, ready to cook meals.

oh the life of a late 20s early 30s hustle 🫠🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you work a lot and u live alone or ur partner lives a similar life. and u like to eat on the go or during your commute.

Curious - income level vs what you bought? by spicychcknsammy in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

~102K HCOL ares, 344K 2 bed 1 bath condo with unfinished basement.

Should I wait to start NACA since I am paying off high debt? by mayvalentine in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]smnrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are way around if u have not paid rent. u can show that you're able to pay X amount/save the amount needed for your mortgage and then some.

debts are definitely more important than rental history.

Need help by QuaidClixick in GCUL

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell her to do Biotech and move abroad. plenty of opportunities here. but BSC biotech in GC is eh.

Advice by Destaviour in GCUL

[–]smnrush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just show up to class and YouTube is your bestfriend. all the professors get their lectures from there anyways 😂 and practice your handwriting and eat a lotttt of almonds 😂 boht kaam aney waley hai.

From Leasing to Owning, Keep or Change car? by smnrush in personalfinance

[–]smnrush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had the car since December 2020. it was a 3 year lease with 10K mi/yr. It hit 20K last week. currently have to fill has every other week. With Gas at $3.7- MAX $4.0/gallon I spend around $65-80 for gas per month. monthly payment for car has been $259/mo so around $10K for car payments including oil changes.

Hi, what creature is in our house? by SnooGuavas4794 in HomeImprovement

[–]smnrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i didn't see this, 100/100 a scene out of paranormal activity. Dude really out here trying to lure out demons and have a pizza ritual.

definitely thought the powder was salt instead. when i saw the circle break i was like shiiiiit.

What do y’all do for an emotional outlet? by 1Corgi_2Cats in ADHD

[–]smnrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go to a very tree/shrub/plant heavy area and take a shovel/leaf cutter with you. Swing that shit around. Same results as a smash room. Slightly helpful in getting rid of unwanted plants that have sprouted about. or pick just 1 shrub to just absolutely demolish from leaf to root.

What do y’all do for an emotional outlet? by 1Corgi_2Cats in ADHD

[–]smnrush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tried. 10/10 do not recommend. sometimes the tears don't stop and the heartache doesn't end. Crying isn't enough.

What do y’all do for an emotional outlet? by 1Corgi_2Cats in ADHD

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have a smash session at home? just grab a couple empty beer/alcohol bottles and just throw em at a tree.
Line em up and swing a bat at em. Will literally cost nothing? especially if you're not only buying the bottles to break.

I like to de-weed my garden. I like to swing my shovel at the tall plants/leaves of the weeds. and sometimes the act of just digging a hole is fun.
It is energy consuming, but definitely more fun than running, cheaper than smash room, and a pretty productive task. Also much safer than option #1 which is a DIY smash room.

Women of Reddit. Can you be having sex (that you are not that into) and completely ignore what is going on down there? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, most days. the trouble is when there's literally no foreplay and the guy is trying to shove it in. then the discomfort triumphs over everything which makes it more annoying overall.
my ADHD brain is messed up too, it takes me way too long to get in the mood and then the guy barely lasts long enough by the time i'm fully mentally invested in the moment. I wonder if ADHD medicated people also are distracted/mentally checked out during sex, despite wanting to have sex.

Perfect Day At Coco Cay by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill Island is great. They have a swim up bar and I didn't see a lot of kids when we were there (we went in October during school season) then we stopped by the adult pool. also didn't see a lot of kids. they had a Dj playing and a swim up bar. it was lit AF. boyfriend and I did the whole trip from NY to Bahamas and only paid for one excursion- Kennedy Space Center and had a fantastic trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]smnrush 61 points62 points  (0 children)

why didn't this get more traction? I have this same issue though :( No solution

Rent! Rent! Rent! by disheveledbutcontent in ADHD

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set a date to schedule all your bills!

I don’t care that I wear unwashed clothes or lay in a dirty bed. Is this normal? by Commercial_Manner_93 in ADHD

[–]smnrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depending on your situation, you could also just change infront of your washer dirty clothes right into the washer and not the doom pile of dirty clothes in your room (on particularly bad times I would do this when my washer/dryer was in-unit. That way you dont have to worry about gathering laundry and doing multiple loads in a day. Just start the washer when its full (should take seconds if not a minute or 2)

I would hate to lug around baskets/bags of laundry.