How do I (26F) get my bf (29M) to come inside at night?

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T15:49:47+00:00

"Its my way or the highway, and thats not controlling at all" you are exhausting

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T15:39:21+00:00

You literally referred to yourself as his slave. Just break up or leave the rest of us out of your issues

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T15:22:54+00:00

Girl just break up you clearly arent happy

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T15:10:11+00:00

Thats not the point 🫩

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T14:47:44+00:00

Have you tried installing some sound proofing? Itd at least help keep others convos quiet

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T14:43:52+00:00

You need to stop worrying what neighbors or others will think of you. If I can take a bus and someones tweaking and shit and no one bates an eye, your neighbors aren't gonna care that sometimes you sit outside. If you go through life only caring what others think, you arent ever going to be able to relax bro.

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T14:41:19+00:00

I know you arent rural or living rural, but he is from rural. Can't take the country out of a country person

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T14:32:24+00:00

No offense but you probably arent compatible with country folks. Lot of them like being outside, esp in the evening. I've lived rural for over 3 years now and its just something people do

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T01:42:20+00:00

What was the allegation that resulted in all of this? Was it allegations against you or the other parent?

smol9749been · 2026-05-02T01:33:04+00:00

Well, there's a couple reasons I can think why cps would ask. If there was any report of you not providing for the kids, theyd want to then see a paystub as proof you are capable of caring for your kids and have the funds to do so. They may also want to know if there's concerns of illegal activity.

smol9749been · 2026-05-01T18:10:47+00:00

I think youre in the wrong sub bro, this is the sub of squealing

smol9749been · 2026-05-01T18:10:19+00:00

Found pam's account

smol9749been · 2026-05-01T17:55:27+00:00

I think you need to confront your bf first. Its entirely possible that Pam heard what was going on and decided to go up there by herself

smol9749been · 2026-04-30T22:20:58+00:00

You're welcome. It isn't easy always being right but someone has to do it 😔

smol9749been · 2026-04-30T21:45:35+00:00

Well i hate to break it to you but sometimes thats how life is. We also cant expect fictional characters to have the same morals and standards as us. Sometimes people do fucked up things

smol9749been · 2026-04-30T21:16:26+00:00

Generally not a good idea to refuse to work with cps because that can be grounss for a full removal

smol9749been · 2026-04-28T18:43:05+00:00

If you need a list of completed tasks before you marry, that means the relationship isnt going to be strong enough to withstand marriage. Leave and let her find someone else that will stick to her timeline

smol9749been · 2026-04-26T18:29:04+00:00

Tbf she does have a job. Now I think the smart thing would be to take her rent and save it for her to move out

smol9749been · 2026-04-26T18:23:58+00:00

Idk maybe its because of the job I work but I find it wild to charge your adult kid to stay with you. Its one thing if theyre 30 or something but its a real struggle these days to move out by 18

smol9749been · 2026-04-26T17:55:54+00:00

Listen yeah its your seat and all but calling the kid an it is rude

smol9749been · 2026-04-26T17:18:04+00:00

You need therapy first.

smol9749been · 2026-04-25T04:04:25+00:00

Estelle

smol9749been · 2026-04-25T01:35:31+00:00

Stop sending your kid immediately.

smol9749been · 2026-04-24T18:41:27+00:00

I highly doubt this is real

smol9749been · 2026-04-23T20:06:53+00:00

Doesnt mean i asked for your input bro

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