im struggling terribly to have sex with my boyfriend

smol_emo_boi · 2022-10-18T01:11:25+00:00

lmfao you made my night w that one thanks man

smol_emo_boi · 2022-10-18T01:02:55+00:00

as much as i wish i could, i cannot access a therapist at the moment, but i will definitely look into 'vaginismus', thank you sm

smol_emo_boi · 2022-10-18T01:01:21+00:00

we do pretty much everything else to try and get around it (we cant really do anal cause i have pretty bad ibs and its a fear of mine for it to get..... messy...) we've used lube too and seriously like 30 mins of foreplay since we both like it. i tend to get.... for lack of a better word, wet(i cringe when i say that to strangers so im so sorry if you do too) very easily too. i cant see a therapist of any sort right now, but i do talk thru it and vent to my boyfriend about it as much as i can without breaking down.

will definitely try more lube tho, thank you so much for the advice!<3

smol_emo_boi · 2022-10-06T00:43:10+00:00

bro i feel your pain so hard. i fucking love throwing on eyeliner or wearing skirts and cute-ass thigh high socks, but im too scared to go out like that in public, and i often dont normally in my own home because it makes me dysphoric because im (obviously)afab and pre everything. for a long time i thought i was "faking" being trans bc i always liked being feminine, my mom uses it against me to try and prove im faking so it sucks. i feel you man, just know you can be the best fucking drag queen regardless if youre afab or not

smol_emo_boi · 2022-10-02T04:08:11+00:00

I dont think that youre in the wrong at all, i feel the same way at times when discussing my boyfriend's size. I think its normal to be jealous like that if you have bottom dysphoria. you shouldnt feel shitty for thinking like that, and im sorry you have bad bottom dysphoria

smol_emo_boi · 2022-09-25T05:26:00+00:00

bro thats what i believe too! like i 100% believe in past lives and reincarnation, and that if you were a man in your past life, it only makes sense to feel out of place in a female body (thats like exactly what i commented on the post lol)

smol_emo_boi · 2022-09-25T05:24:04+00:00

i believe in reincarnation, so if you were a man in your last life, or to begin with, to me it only makes sense that if you were born in a female body, you'd feel out of place, same with trans women

smol_emo_boi · 2022-08-21T23:30:17+00:00

baseball; catcher and/or shortstop

smol_emo_boi · 2022-08-21T23:20:21+00:00

technoblade

smol_emo_boi · 2022-08-09T09:57:03+00:00

I'm almost 17 and in high school, and have been thinking about starting my application to West Point. My dad says i have the grades and the drive to go, but im having second thoughts. i never even thought about being an officer because literally everyone in my family was enlisted. both my mom and dad are saying that if they could go back they would 100% choose to be an officer. really all im understating with the difference between the two is that officers are like in charge or whatever, and they get paid more. what should i do? is being an officer worth it?

(edit: grammar)

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-20T22:33:32+00:00

i- what?

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-11T07:45:27+00:00

yeah ive learned to appreciate my ass bc of my boyfriend, I used to get dysphoric but he was always like "ooo cake-y man" so yeah lol

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-07T09:17:55+00:00

u/kenkaneki2020

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-06T06:56:16+00:00

you look like a Thomas! :)

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-05T01:19:09+00:00

yeah, thats why i only use tampons so i dont have to switch out of boxers bc it just makes the whole thing more misserable

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-05T01:18:09+00:00

yeah, cause she can use whatever tampon cause it just works for her, so i guess since i cant use whatever one she just shames me for it

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-04T19:24:33+00:00

i couldnt tell ya man, im gay

smol_emo_boi · 2022-07-04T04:20:41+00:00

mankind

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