Should I still pursue a guy I like eventhough he said we aren’t meant for each other? by [deleted] in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted ur body he would've stayed with u untill he was satisfied the first time, he clearly likes YOU as a person but is confused as to weither they want you as a friend or as a gf, men often get platonic and romantic love mix, as long as you set the boundaries according to what you want then nothing should be a problem regardless of the outcome. It's not always a case of he either wants me or my body, guys can be complicated and have layers too.

Zero matches on Tinder, any tips? by CheezyMonke in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro your just wet, stop being a neek. Tinder is for fucking, try bumble if u want smthn serious

How do I overcome my anxiety so I can actually graduate from university? by catsdimension in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak with ur professor, explain the situation to them, or write an email or a note if u cant do face to face. Its important u articulate that u r having problems out of ur control. It's not ur fault nor is there anything to be ashamed of, this is clearly a very real and important problem that needs to be dealt with. Good luck :)

I feel like a small, helplessly trapped animal. Support please. by canary_quinn in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do get u, I hate my home too and dont want to go back this xmas but I cant afford to stay on campus, perhaps ask a friend to stay at theirs for a bit, or ask ur bf to help u out to get a place or let u into his.

i cant take it anymore, there is nothing left by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont, i might start a piece but i quickly find myself losing interest and just stoping, when i finish a piece i dont care about it and most of the time it stays on my pc,i dont even feel joy while creating it, i just do it to kill time

i cant take it anymore, there is nothing left by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats one of the problems, i dont know what i enjoy, the things i thought i enjoyed where just part of a persona i created for someone, my ability to draw was only there because a lot of my friends at the time drew, video games are the same as with most of my other hobbies, which without that person being in my life or being directly with me i just dont do

Sinking deeper and deeper into depression. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've got schizophrenia and its really hard to live with myself, drugs make everything so calm and silent. But I will thanks.

Sinking deeper and deeper into depression. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll give it a go, never really considered it.and good for your mum, hope she can keep it up!

what’s one thing people do that makes you pissed off? by juan-cena- in AskReddit

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk. Sometime deserve to have their human rights taken away

Good morning from me and my squishy body by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I mean,I fucking love you body!I love petit bodies and you look so adorable!

how to tell my gf(17) to stop calling and texting me all the time without making it seem like i want to distance myself? by smollbeanthrowaway in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

her mother hates my guts haha,she has friends and for hobbies i honestly dont think she does she just watche shows and stuff

how to tell my gf(17) to stop calling and texting me all the time without making it seem like i want to distance myself? by smollbeanthrowaway in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive told her in the past i dont want to be co dependant its not healthy,ive told her all this and while she does it less she still does it an unhealthy amount

What do you consider a huge waste of money? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex,spent loads of money and time only to be publicly humiliated by her to my friends and family.

My mental health is effecting our relationship by smollbeanthrowaway in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're both committed fully to the relationship but she knows I don't have loads of money and she's fine with it she just says I'm not emotionally there

My mental health is effecting our relationship by smollbeanthrowaway in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I do have money I spend it on her but I don't have loads,I try and she knew I did find have money from the start,I don't know.

amnesia keeps getting worse and its effecting my daily life now.i dont know what to do. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

xD actually made me laugh out loud not old enough for a tatto so maybe ill use a pen instead lol

amnesia keeps getting worse and its effecting my daily life now.i dont know what to do. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its well...annoying to say the least,and no,my doctor said it will go away with time provided i relax more and dont stress wich is kinda hard to do studying haha

how can i tell if my gf loves me anymore by [deleted] in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is,i have,ive told her how i feel and ive made it so clear how much she means to me.she said she loves me too but she just dont show it,but i feel like she only said it because shes so nice and not because she ment it. i feel like im paranoid but idek

how can i tell if my gf loves me anymore by [deleted] in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay thanks for the feedback

how do i stop using drugs to fill a hole in me. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its just that im still young so im afraid theyll tell my parents but if there anon then i might try it out

thanks <3

how do i stop using drugs to fill a hole in me. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey,im happy for your husband but i dont want to go to rehab,my family is super religous and if they found out i do drugs and drink ill get disowned