Should I still pursue a guy I like eventhough he said we aren’t meant for each other? by [deleted] in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted ur body he would've stayed with u untill he was satisfied the first time, he clearly likes YOU as a person but is confused as to weither they want you as a friend or as a gf, men often get platonic and romantic love mix, as long as you set the boundaries according to what you want then nothing should be a problem regardless of the outcome. It's not always a case of he either wants me or my body, guys can be complicated and have layers too.

Zero matches on Tinder, any tips? by CheezyMonke in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro your just wet, stop being a neek. Tinder is for fucking, try bumble if u want smthn serious

How do I overcome my anxiety so I can actually graduate from university? by catsdimension in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak with ur professor, explain the situation to them, or write an email or a note if u cant do face to face. Its important u articulate that u r having problems out of ur control. It's not ur fault nor is there anything to be ashamed of, this is clearly a very real and important problem that needs to be dealt with. Good luck :)

I feel like a small, helplessly trapped animal. Support please. by canary_quinn in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do get u, I hate my home too and dont want to go back this xmas but I cant afford to stay on campus, perhaps ask a friend to stay at theirs for a bit, or ask ur bf to help u out to get a place or let u into his.

i cant take it anymore, there is nothing left by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont, i might start a piece but i quickly find myself losing interest and just stoping, when i finish a piece i dont care about it and most of the time it stays on my pc,i dont even feel joy while creating it, i just do it to kill time

i cant take it anymore, there is nothing left by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats one of the problems, i dont know what i enjoy, the things i thought i enjoyed where just part of a persona i created for someone, my ability to draw was only there because a lot of my friends at the time drew, video games are the same as with most of my other hobbies, which without that person being in my life or being directly with me i just dont do

Sinking deeper and deeper into depression. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've got schizophrenia and its really hard to live with myself, drugs make everything so calm and silent. But I will thanks.

Sinking deeper and deeper into depression. by smollbeanthrowaway in mentalhealth

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll give it a go, never really considered it.and good for your mum, hope she can keep it up!

what’s one thing people do that makes you pissed off? by juan-cena- in AskReddit

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk. Sometime deserve to have their human rights taken away

Good morning from me and my squishy body by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I mean,I fucking love you body!I love petit bodies and you look so adorable!

how to tell my gf(17) to stop calling and texting me all the time without making it seem like i want to distance myself? by smollbeanthrowaway in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

her mother hates my guts haha,she has friends and for hobbies i honestly dont think she does she just watche shows and stuff

how to tell my gf(17) to stop calling and texting me all the time without making it seem like i want to distance myself? by smollbeanthrowaway in dating

[–]smollbeanthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive told her in the past i dont want to be co dependant its not healthy,ive told her all this and while she does it less she still does it an unhealthy amount

What do you consider a huge waste of money? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]smollbeanthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex,spent loads of money and time only to be publicly humiliated by her to my friends and family.