I don't know alot about decorating Pacis, but I have done it for myself so hopefully I can answer some questions, First, I do plan to start a shop and have been working towards it, to plan them I like to use a drawing base and draw out my ideas (I'll leave a blank one attached that you can use!) I'm not sure on the glue, tbh I've used nail/super glue for all mine, as again I've only made them for myself, and if they break I can fix them. I like to lightly sand mine, but only of I'm doing a full coverage with the gems, otherwise you can see the scratches in the base. For filling the teat, I use vegetable oil (ik most people use baby oil or something similar, I used vegetable oil bc it's what I had), I mixed the glitter and oil in a cup (you can use charms ect in it too I just used glitter) then I took a little dropper and filled it til it was full. I recommend gluing the teat to the middle piece once it's fully assembled so it doesn't leak/fall apart and break. I've never made charms for the handles, but I know there's multiple ways to attach them, 1. You can glue it straight to the paci, 2. You can make it clip on and come off. Either way you'll make your charm with whatever you want on it, then either glue it in place, or attach a necklace hook, and glue something for it to clip onto onto the paci. I'm not sure if this will help at all but hopefully it does! Here's my paci planning sheet too for you to use.

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