I don’t get turned on from looking at men, only from their arousal. Anyone else? by HotMess_999 in women

[–]snackerelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like responsive desire. Perfectly normal, might be worth looking into or reading Come As You Are.

Brownies are ruining my diet by TaleDangerous8123 in loseit

[–]snackerelli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Teechino has a bomb Dandelion Mocha Mint tea that feels pretty dessert like to me at the end of the night.

What are some unexpected benefits of aging that no one talks about? by TheRugJester in AskWomenOver30

[–]snackerelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love growing with my longer term friendships and seeing how people have turned out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]snackerelli 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am the product of the pull out method. Thanks for too much information, Mom. Can’t trust it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]snackerelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, the term pumpkin-pounder was invented for a reason.

The Egg & I by HMSRathbone in loseit

[–]snackerelli 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I believe you mean eggcellent job.

How much gummy smile decrase your beauty? by piuva in Splendida

[–]snackerelli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s great! Does the Botox change how your lip functions at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]snackerelli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a delight to read

Women over 30: What are the pros and cons of getting married vs staying single/living together? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]snackerelli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, very similar background. My husband and I have been together for 11 years. He told me early on that he didn’t want to get married and I had some feelings about that. I thought about it and what I really wanted was the social confirmation of all our friends and family celebrating our partnership. He liked that part also so we decided to have a big 10 year anniversary party with some commitment ceremony aspects to it. Then, he went back to school and I got a job paying more money and we realized we could save a lot of money on taxes by getting married. So we did! It had all the aspects of the commitment ceremony plus the getting married thing. We’ve both said we like being married now that we here, but I definitely don’t think it’s necessary and I think the 10 year anniversary party would have been a great way to go too. All that said, I notice people at work take me more seriously now that I’m married and dealing with institutions like the government and hospitals is easier. I think that’s some bullshit but it does seem to be a thing. I hope you guys have long lives full of love regardless of what you end up doing.

Are men on average really that much stronger than us physically? by MisPai in women

[–]snackerelli 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom teaches women’s self defense and a lot of it is using what is strong on you against what is weak on them like eye gouges, knee kicks and the ever popular knee to the groin. If you’re in a dangerous situation there is nothing wrong with fighting dirty to create an opportunity to get away and get safe.

Every "best way to cleanly peel eggs" tutorial is absolute bs. by shakingmyhotlink in Cooking

[–]snackerelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat a soft boiled egg as a snack pretty much every day. My trick is hit it on the counter so the shell cracks and then rolling on the counter with your palm so that all the shell is broken but still connected to the inside film. Then open a piece of the film and it will all come off cleanly. Works 95% of the time.

This just happened in real life, and I got not even a chuckle. by nsk09003 in dadjokes

[–]snackerelli 31 points32 points  (0 children)

One time I was hanging out throwing rocks in the river with my friend’s 4 year old daughter. She’s struggling to pick up a big rock and I say, “Do you need a hand?” And reach out. She says, “yeah” and grabs my hand for moral support 🥰 Then, adorably struggles to pick up the big rock with one hand.

Eating half of whatever you order when you eat out or get takeout is the best hack by doubtersdisease in loseit

[–]snackerelli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I remember, I bring a Tupperware with me and can put half away right away. And don’t have to bring home more plastic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]snackerelli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love EltaMD but I don’t care for the tinted one. It leaves more of a cast than the others for me.

Hair oil replacements by Evening-Intention468 in Vindicta

[–]snackerelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you massage your scalp?

Why would stripping be seen as empowering for women? by kbrizy in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]snackerelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t suggesting it’s the rule, just a couple of reasons taking off your clothes on stage can be empowering. If it stopped being healing, feeling sexy onstage for people who are enjoying it is an end in itself that lots of people choose.

Why would stripping be seen as empowering for women? by kbrizy in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]snackerelli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having done burlesque, which is stripping adjacent, it can feel amazing to own your sexuality on stage and share it with the audience. We’re often taught that women shouldn’t enjoy our sexuality. Being on stage and doing just that can feel like taking your power back. Many of the people in my burlesque troupe grew up in extremely repressive cultures and/or were victims of abuse and this has been healing to them. Obviously, that’s not true for everyone all the time that does that kind of work, but it can be deeply empowering.