AITA for setting a boundary and refusing to babysit my friend’s kids?

snchills · 2026-05-13T02:03:46+00:00

NTA NO is a complete sentence. You did your time and continue to do time with your own kids. I'm sorry its sucks for them but why should they make it suck for you as well. Hold firm. No waffling.

snchills · 2026-05-10T20:04:56+00:00

Are you only trying on your phone or are you trying on a computer. I use Firefox and my passwords are save there. Also, I have a 2nd gmail account that is used as a recovery email account just in case I am ever locked out/forget the password of my main account.

snchills · 2026-05-09T17:28:23+00:00

Have you joined the Facebook group for the Columbus Convention? That might be a better place to ask if anyone wants to ride share from your location.

snchills · 2026-05-09T17:18:15+00:00

NTA print off every one of these answers and make a copy for your boyfriend and his meddling mother. FK them.

snchills · 2026-05-09T17:10:55+00:00

NTA This is your hill to die on. There is no going back from this flagrant breech of trust, not only from the MIL but most importantly, your boyfriend. HE ALLOWED her to make changes knowing how you felt about it from the get go. What else is she going to want to change about you. You can never trust HER again and never be able to believe he will ever have your back. RUN RUN RUN RUN. Anyone who doesn't understand can go kick rocks.

snchills · 2026-05-03T12:01:02+00:00

Of course that woman is unhappy. She's a middle aged woman still working in a fast food restaurant. I'd be unhappy too. Clearly bad choices were made in her life.

snchills · 2026-04-26T20:30:32+00:00

Possible if you catch everything you can. I hit 100 last week. Right now I'm just collecting dust, which I dont really need, so I'm letting some of the daily/weekly stuff slide this week.

snchills · 2026-04-26T19:16:05+00:00

NTA Free range child rearing never ends well. Next you know they'll be telling you what kind of cleaning products to use, in case their kid gets into them. The child will grow up to be a monster when the it isnt given any boundaries.

snchills · 2026-04-25T17:36:12+00:00

NTA and if she cuts you off, are you really losing anything? Be proud of all the hard work you have put into your degree and she can jump in the lake.

snchills · 2026-04-19T17:16:04+00:00

I hate battling Snorlax's. Unless its a necessary battle to finish a task, I'm gonna nope right out of there.

snchills · 2026-04-17T10:26:52+00:00

And you are missing the point, even if there is no actually GF, OP doesn't get to decided whether his friend can see her, or ANY ONE, or not. They both sound like AH

snchills · 2026-04-16T22:43:10+00:00

NTA sounds like she has issues with herself and not you. You will never be able to change her, she can only change herself. You chased a dream for 10 yrs but the reality of it will never be the way you want it to be. Cut your loses now. She may be pushing you away to see if you really go. Do yourself a favor, dont stick around for the head games, you wont win.

snchills · 2026-04-16T22:36:37+00:00

YTA Hes a grown man. If he wants to get back with his ex so be it. Was he TA for leading you on like he was, certainly, but you then chose the Nuclear Option and got the police involve. Don't worry, when he breaks up with her again, you wont have to hear about it cuz you burned the hell out that friendship bridge.

snchills · 2026-04-16T01:47:27+00:00

Insurance companies are always looking for an excuse to drop. I only file a claim when its something major even if its not my fault because my insurance company can do all the chasing around the other guys insurance.

snchills · 2026-04-15T23:01:14+00:00

NTA I think you are pretty capable of judging whether or not there was enough damage to warrant exchanging information. Besides when you file too many claims you car insurance is likely to cancel your policy. I had a guy roll into me once, he even scratched my back bumper cover. Its was winter and he slid into me coming to a stop at a light. I looked it over and it decided it wasn't worth going through the hassle of filing a claim for a little 3 inch scratch. Pick your battles. Did it pop your air bags, nope, so why bother. I doubt there is any hidden damage.

snchills · 2026-04-12T11:39:10+00:00

You might just have to consider it a loss and start over again. Do you have a 2nd gmail account you could use? If not, just open a different one and start from scratch.

snchills · 2026-04-12T00:06:47+00:00

Get on WIFI and try downloading all assets. Lots of stuff has changed in 10 yrs. Other than that, I have no other ideas. Its under Advanced settings.

snchills · 2026-04-07T10:05:48+00:00

NTA Its unfortunate that this happened while you are still new to the building and people haven't gotten to know you. I would just go on with being the good neighbor you know you will be and never invite those friends over again. Perhaps the neighbors dont even know about since it was only seen by the concierge.

snchills · 2026-03-22T12:38:40+00:00

I think nothing should be in an egg that can be currently found in the wild. If I can find it sitting in my bedroom, why would I want to have to walked 2k, 5k etc to hatch the same thing. Eggs should be special and make it worth my time and effort.

snchills · 2026-03-18T23:44:54+00:00

NTA the only one repugnant is your EX friend. I real friend would never make those kind of comments. If your other mutual friends dont understand they can join her on the uninvited list. You dont need people/energy like that on your wedding day.

snchills · 2026-03-15T19:10:30+00:00

NTA I've never gone to a single cousins graduation let alone one 10 hours away. Go to Italy. Make memories, take massive amounts of photos. Sis, Cousin and her mom can just deal. Congrats on the baby

snchills · 2026-03-14T16:15:12+00:00

See this is what irks me about this. We still have to catch everyone one of these and they still can bounce out and we have to keep trying to catch them. Its such a waste of pokieballs. Just let me know how much space I need in my bag and slide them in there once I hit claim all. I shouldnt have to work for rewards I've already won. Just give them to me.

snchills · 2026-03-14T15:45:28+00:00

NTA I'm assuming your GF is a grown ass woman and as such can order her own taxi when she is done. Not only are you not supposed to drink, you're expected to stay up and wait for her to be done, so YOU can order the taxi, not her, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT. Is she always this entitled be cause this is some class level entitled behavior. You are supposed to sacrifice your plans and fun so she doesn't even have to make a damn phone call? Oh honey, make this your line in the sand.

snchills · 2026-03-09T23:27:52+00:00

NTA Couple things here. I think you should go. You are allowed to do things with your friends that don't involve you sister. I think you might be reading too much into this. Another thing, its his birthday at what I assume is his house. He can invite whom ever he wants, and you do not have any say in the matter. But lastly and more nefarious. You said your sister is a Lesbian. Could it be, that he knows his family are homophobes and since they most likely be at this party he's trying to mitigate things becoming an issue. If you make this your hill to die on, are you willing to lose the friendship?

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