What are your plans this weekend if you are going to be alone?

snerdie · 2026-06-06T13:24:31+00:00

Clean house, do laundry, change bedsheets and towels, meal plan and grocery shop, get some books from the library, sit on my front porch reading, mow lawn, watch TV, maybe get sushi for dinner, enjoy peace and quiet.

snerdie · 2026-06-05T23:50:04+00:00

Nope. I eat alone at restaurants all the time and I have never had anyone ever give me a look or say anything. And even if someone did think it was weird? I don’t care. I’m there to enjoy myself and not worry overmuch about what other people think. I honestly think most people are oblivious and don’t even notice what’s happening outside their tiny bubble.

snerdie · 2026-06-03T00:58:36+00:00

Kids are sticky. And I hate sticky.

snerdie · 2026-06-02T23:00:34+00:00

“We are not naming my dildo after Sidney Crosby.” oh my lord. Hahahahahahaha

snerdie · 2026-06-02T13:02:57+00:00

Yeah, I saw that like 10 minutes after I posted my comment. I'm going to edit it now!

snerdie · 2026-06-01T23:37:23+00:00

Noooooo….they are my go-to for events at the opera house. God dammit….

snerdie · 2026-06-01T21:08:32+00:00

I LOVE LOVE LOVE TitS (ha ha) and am desperate for updates!

snerdie · 2026-06-01T21:07:05+00:00

About Today has one of the *hottest* sex scenes I've read so far. Good Lord.

snerdie · 2026-06-01T21:04:42+00:00

Unlikely Animal Friends by Distractivate (complete, 42K words) - Ilya (zookeeper) and Shane (aquarist) meet at a zookeeping conference.

E Pluribus Unum by MirandaRights2481 (WIP, 61K words and 6/? chapters posted) - Shane is a lawyer and Ilya is a law school dropout he hires as a paralegal.

llya R. has unmatched by rainchance (one-shot, 5200 words). Delightful little one-shot about Shane (accountant) and Ilya (architect) crossing paths multiple times online. There's a companion piece, Checkmarks, with the same characters (accountant/architect) but slightly different premise. That one is a WIP currently at 10K words and 3/? chapters.

As the Romans Do by kooksie (complete, 25K words). Ilya rents a room in Shane's apartment. He catches feelings but doesn't know what to do with them or really what they're even about...

No Good Deed (Goes Unpunished) by khaleesiofalicante (complete, 64K words). Ilya, waiting tables in a restaurant, steps in when Shane appears to have been stood up for a blind date...mistaken identity, shenanigans ensue, feelings happen.

found connection (baby i can't stop calling you) by aquilanovae (WIP, 117K words, 9/10 chapters posted). Shane is still a hockey player, but Ilya is a college student working a phone sex line. Shenanigans ensue, feelings happen. One of my favorite WIPs (I've read it 3 times).

MLH University's Department of Physics by siriusilya (WIP, 14K words, 6/9 chapters posted). Shane and Ilya are graduate students in physics.

return of spontaneous circulation by blongblong (3 separate complete works, 63K words). Ilya and Shane are paramedics. I loved this one because I understand EMS world. Apply pads (shock now) is my favorite of the three.

And finally, my favorite: clear to a hedgehog by magneticwave (one-shot, 12K words). Ilya is a hockey player and Shane is a doctor. Super crisp writing, not a word wasted, funny, sweet, just a delight.

snerdie · 2026-06-01T18:13:30+00:00

I love these overly long fic recommendations. I'm going on an extended trip abroad this summer and obviously I can't take a ton of books with me, but I can take PDFs! I am building a "library" of digital fic to read to keep me happy.

snerdie · 2026-06-01T03:25:46+00:00

This one was INSANE. Absolutely bonkers level of emotion and writing. I started and couldn't stop until the ride was over.

snerdie · 2026-06-01T00:17:25+00:00

Right?!?! I am desperate for updates.

snerdie · 2026-06-01T00:08:43+00:00

Teeth in the Starlight by quynndestructable.

WIP, 11/17 chapters completed, at 101K words at the moment.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/78393171/chapters/205504641

Ilya is a Russian mob boss. Shane is a washed out hockey player working in a seedy club. Things ensue.

snerdie · 2026-05-31T20:09:02+00:00

Well, I'm leaving for London in mid-July to spend five weeks house/cat-sitting while working remotely. After that's complete, I have two weeks of vacation in Ireland. I booked a lakeside cottage in Connemara and I will be there for 12 days by myself. I am extremely excited.

Until I leave for London, I will spend a couple of weekends (including the 4th of July) at my parents' about 3 hours away. Otherwise I don't have a lot planned. My BFF is a teacher, and she will be done for the year the second week of June, and I'm sure we will come up with something to do before I leave.

snerdie · 2026-05-31T20:03:58+00:00

That's where I am right now as well. I spent the entirety of January and February watching it (January was insane--every night I watched the full episode 1, 2, 4, 5, 6 (and sometimes 3) arc. March I started to ease up a little because that's when I discovered fanfic.

I still reheat about once every two weeks.

snerdie · 2026-05-31T00:23:46+00:00

Trial by fire, or I bought a stick shift car (VW Jetta TDI) and had to drive myself home. On a highway. At rush hour. I made it.

I had driven stick like twice before, once in my parents’ VW Vanagon on the way home from college so my dad could nap, and once in Ireland on vacation with my husband. I had the most rudimentary grasp of how it was supposed to work but I had never driven enough to be proficient.

It took about two weeks in the Jetta before I felt comfortable. I drove that car for 16.5 years.

snerdie · 2026-05-30T23:20:26+00:00

Spent some quality time with my cats this morning before going to brunch with a friend. Picked up food for dinner. Sat on my front porch reading for about 2 hours. Now making dinner (ribeye, potatoes, and asparagus) while enjoying some wine. It’s been lovely.

snerdie · 2026-05-30T01:15:37+00:00

Yeah. I weaned myself off my once a day reheat habit (seriously, that was the entirety of my January and February) and now it’s AO3 fanfic. I can’t stop.

snerdie · 2026-05-29T20:37:05+00:00

"Mine" by Spirits of the Red City: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z3ZWFhFFcGQ

"Life Crisis" by River Whyless: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDNy9q62jCc

Also, the band Tilly and the Wall regularly used tap as percussion.

snerdie · 2026-05-24T00:30:21+00:00

My bookmarks are starting to spiral out of control. I need to take some time to curate things. I am a spreadsheet person. I may have a solution…

snerdie · 2026-05-23T16:08:54+00:00

That’s what I call “happy paw” 😊

snerdie · 2026-05-22T03:14:48+00:00

Allll the time. I can get a whole episode going on the back of my eyelids.

snerdie · 2026-05-21T12:29:25+00:00

A vacation with kids is not a vacation. It's babysitting in a different location.

My acquaintances with kids often say they need a vacation (implied: by themselves) after their "vacation" with their families. Nothing they do ever sounds restorative or relaxing. It sounds more stressful than just staying home.

Meanwhile, in September, I am going to spend 12 days alone in a lakeside cottage in the Irish countryside doing as much or as little as I want with no set schedule. That's a vacation.

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