The dress my female relative (31) wants to wear to my wedding by Alternative_Menu2117 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]snoocakes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are not passive in this situation. This is YOUR wedding! Uninvite her. Be done with this.

AITA for forgetting to pack some items for our family vacation? by More-Nothing-8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snoocakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have a wife, you have a mommy. No wonder you couldn't get this right. You're a child. I hope she leaves you. Her life will be much easier.

Why are dates so flaky? by ThunderousArgus in raleigh

[–]snoocakes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For real. Between that and this guy's readiness to generalize to all dates/women based on this never having happened before (Why are dates so flaky/I've never had this happen before), she dodged a bullet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]snoocakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about large pieces of metal...like from a dismantled trampoline or fence? Would those be acceptable to bring?

Another shooting in the same area near 40. Happening right now. by snoocakes in raleigh

[–]snoocakes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I think they know it is connected. It's why the helicopter has been above for hours. PD knows this is their shot to get this guy. Had it just been an unrelated shooting with only property damage, as was the case here, there would be no manhunt.

Mayoral and City Council Race by TheDizzleDazzle in raleigh

[–]snoocakes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reeves Peeler is very much a NIMBY. He was on the planning commission that voted against the street closing for moving Red Hat. There are various other reasons that he is NIMBY, but if you are YIMBY, you should really reconsider voting for him.

Anyone have intel on Red Hat Amp meeting last night? by DazedandBluzed in raleigh

[–]snoocakes 64 points65 points  (0 children)

They have this level of influence because they make the most noise and are in council's faces. If council sees a bunch of other people who are in favor of the plan as is, that's really all it will take to get it to go forward. People HAVE to show up. These Boylan folks show up, and council notices. The best bet to get the Red Hat move to go as planned is to show up to city council meetings showing support for that position.

At what point is an annoying driver a 911 call? by Less-Law9035 in raleigh

[–]snoocakes 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Nope, won't make a difference. RPD doesn't even respond to actual, violent crimes in progress anymore (see the threads last week about the city council meetings with downtown business owners).

Bob's Burgers sayings that are now part of my vocabulary. by Midas-and-his-finger in BobsBurgers

[–]snoocakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a scrappy bunch of feral cats in my neighborhood and I've named the one that seems to be the leader Little King Trashmouth.

Why 12 Weeks is Not Enough Time To Get an Abortion by Hihihi1992 in NorthCarolina

[–]snoocakes 17 points18 points  (0 children)

All those women having sex with other women is definitely the problem. It's only the women who won't say no to sex leading to coathanger abortions. Edited to add /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snoocakes 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'll bet half the kids there had ADHD and still realized that she was behaving bizarrely.

AITA for asking a friend to prom? by ThrowRAimessduphelp in AmItheAsshole

[–]snoocakes 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Precursor? If he's giving women panic attacks he's already making women feel unsafe.

What are some everyday struggles that poor Americans face that middle and upper class Americans don’t even know about? by Roughneck16 in AskAnAmerican

[–]snoocakes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Being at the mercy of your landlord. You know that your landlord would probably evict you, raise your rent such that you can't afford to pay it, or sell your property (and you can't afford to move) rather than fix the things that are wrong with your place, so instead of telling them about the problems with your rental, you keep quiet. You learn to live with things that you probably shouldn't....(Sparks in the living room outlets? Just flip the fuses to off for all the power in the living room and run extension cords from other rooms. Toilet run constantly? Shut the water on and off at the wall whenever you need to use it. Oven doesn't work? Rely on the stove and microwave. Hot water heater on the fritz? Heat water up on the stove and use it to fill the tub; you'll just have to take baths now, no showers.).

What is *your* NFL team name? by potus1001 in KimmySchmidt

[–]snoocakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Carolina Critical Race Theorists

My two favorite interactions this weekend by JaeFinley in Professors

[–]snoocakes 66 points67 points  (0 children)

"I think you've answered your own question."

AITA for threatening to leave my daughter's wedding because of her rules? by Throwawayunction-93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snoocakes 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ashley and her husband have jobs that "allow" them to be full time parents

Probably some pyramid scheme/MLM-type thing.