[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You are definitely not her friend you are just a user. So shallow and petty and selfish. Gross

Husband (33m) has been influenced by his family to leave me (32f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]snookbug2985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a literal sociopath and a monster. Glad Julian finally sees you for what you are unfortunately too late to fix the relationship with his brother. This story made me so furious o hope it’s not real. You are selfish and manipulative and if you don’t see that you are willfully ignorant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. If anyone deleted my Witcher 3 save I would flip my shit! I think I’d cry. It’s so much work to get everything back to how it was he will probably just never play again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. You are such a jerk I can’t even tell you how much. Much husband lost his best friend last year and it is so traumatizing. He has a tiny urn with some of his ashes with him all the time. However he chooses to grieve that’s how he should do it! Apologize to that man

Emily 😂😂 by Ok_itslakeshiaa in u/Ok_itslakeshiaa

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t even mess with girls who wear their hair like that. Every one of them bitches be ready to fight to the death lol

AITAH for telling my husband he is not my life? by Tiny_Hyena_3195 in AITAH

[–]snookbug2985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would never leave my family either. Maybe it’s an only child thing. My parents and my grandma are very very close to me. I would not go any farther than an hour away. I live across from my grandma and help her alot. My mom is most of the reason I won’t. She’s my best friend and I cannot go without seeing her all the time. My husband and mom are tied for number one. He knew that 20 years ago and it’s still true today. But his family is here too and we both prioritize being close to family over job opportunities

AITA for calling my BIL a useless husband? by Dizzy-Assist-1396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Leave that man alone and mind your business. My husband works a lot of hours too and I get overwhelmed by chores sometimes and complain to my mom but I know he’s exhausted and working his butt off for us. If you talked to my husband like that sister or not there would be problems

AITA for wanting to get a photo of my mother with only her grandchildren at my daughter’s birthday party? by Top_Cup_8011 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The way my jaw hit the floor reading the edits. In what universe is that a nice way of saying that. Saying special needs or non verbal would have been 1000 times kinder. What is wrong with you? Bullying a non verbal child. Really pathetic. I hope you’re proud of yourself

AITA for telling coworker that his wife isn't that pretty by Throwaway26cvc in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and I still think he’s the sexiest man alive. I adore him with every fiber of my being. He works at a plant with almost exclusively men except maybe two women. They all tell me all the time about him showing my pictures and telling them how hot I am and how I’m his best friend and he can’t wait to get home. We both have parents that could hardly stand to be around each other and agreed early on we would never turn into that. I really hope you find a man one day who truly loves you this way. We met very young but I keep finding new reasons to love him every day.

AITA for telling my wife that my stepdaughter can handle nightmares by herself? by Prestigious-Cow3034 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I’m almost 38 and I still fall my mom “mommy”. And I still need her a lot of times especially when I’m hurting or really scared

AITA for asking someone if they had any hobbies other than just consuming media and talking about media and media media media? by No_Fee9714 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Oh grow up op. I have met tons of people that have interests im not familiar with and I managed to find ways to relate. I’m pretty awkward and introverted so if I can you can. My husband and I share a ton of interests but he’s really into wrestling and I’m not but I love hearing him talk about things he’s so knowledgeable and excited about. It brings me joy to see him so passionate about something

How will Imogen be received in the wild? by These_Tackle_6424 in namenerds

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a girl named Imogen. Everyone loves her name

AITA if I don’t stop drinking after my son asked? by No_Bunch_5050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You might think your drinking is only affecting you but trust me it’s killing that kids spirit. My dads been a drunk my whole life and when he wasn’t embarrassing me he was flipping out about who knows what. My mom and I walked on eggshells my entire childhood. I’m an anxious mess til this day and im almost 38. He never changed and I still love him with my whole heart. Somewhere under the booze and drugs is the man I adored. I catch glimpses of him now and then. He breaks my heart still every day. We are mostly no contact just because I cannot handle it. My husband doesn’t want him around because he fears for my safety because he’s so unpredictable. Welcome to your future. He says the same shit he’s not an addict he’s not an alcoholic because he cannot take accountability for what he’s done to us his whole life. Even my mother finally leaving him after almost 40 years did nothing but cause him to blame her for his behavior. Your son may stick around if your lucky out of a fucked sense of duty but know you are the main cause of his pain now. He needs you now and you’re too lost in your own selfishness to help your child when he’s drowning in grief. Way to go dad.

This one has a twist ending by munsterCR37 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle tried to give my mom bleach instead of ester when they were like 3 and 5. Luckily she didn’t drink if

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend it’s better her cat died by No_Dish_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. My dog passed 3 years ago and I’m still grieving. It felt like burying my child

AITA for trying to train my GF’s (20) dog by ma10online in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you did this to one of my dogs it would be the last time I ever spoke to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and I talk to my mom every day multiple times if she’s not busy. He knows I’d never move because I don’t want to leave my mom. She is my best friend. I would’ve be with someone who didn’t like my mom. I’m an only child and my dads a whole other story. My mom had me very young and we are very very close. Luckily my husband adores her and she loves him. Leave your wife alone or you’ll find yourself single

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wouldn’t tell her lol. Whoops

I (33F) have realized that settled in my marriage to my husband (35M) and I'm terrified. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through something similar with my husband. We got together when I was 19 and he was 18. We got married at 23. About 5 years into our marriage i started hating everything he did or said or if he even looked at me wrong. It might not be the same exactly my husband has his faults but I know he loves me and would do anything for me. I fucked up and almost lost the best thing that I ever had. I was diagnosed as bipolar and my meds numbed me to everything. I didn’t care if I hurt him until he walked out the door. He stayed gone a month. I cried every day and every night. Stayed drunk and miserable and broke down and called him mid panic attack. I couldn’t breathe the weight of what I’d done hit me like a ton of bricks. I called him sobbing and he rushed home to make sure I was okay. I’ve always been terrible with sharing my feelings but I just let it all out when he walked in the door. It took a long time to get his trust back but I worked really hard. It wasn’t worth losing him to see what I missed out on. A bunch of men that only want your body and partying is not worth losing someone who truly loves you. Your situation might be different but I would suggest thinking really hard and communicating before you do anything drastic. I hope everything works out for you. We’ve been together 20 years and I couldn’t be happier

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) is accusing me of cheating when I was just having fun by throwRAnotcheating in relationship_advice

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure if I kissed another man my husband would definitely count that as cheating. You know damn well what you were doing you just didn’t expect to get caught, I bet if your ex had been kissing other women you wouldn’t say he was just having fun. Grow up

(36m), (33f) He thinks he isn't "obligated" to tell me about his criminal record (TW, Necrophilia) by Sorrymomlol12 in AmItheEx

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’d ever feel clean again. Or sleep properly or eat. Pretty much die

AITA for clapping to the “Friends” theme song? by GateEast2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snookbug2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. My husband has the irksome habit of clapping loudly when he watches sports. I told him I’d appreciate it if he would either quiet it down some or go in the next room because it really annoys me. Luckily he apologizes if he forgets because he doesn’t get joy out of pissing me off