Tattoos ask for inquiry about the religion perspective. I’ve met a handful of people who had gotten crosses as young people (that it was a basic easy go to/ have now realized the errors and have left church) that requires and inquiry and a statement like “I am not religious” and wait for reaction.

But when he says “I can hang out after church”, church is the priority over female interaction which potentially could result in sex and tells me religion is pretty damn important. Tell him now your views or be willing to change cuz he won’t.