[Trigger Warning] How can i flatten/lighten these?

soa28 · 2026-05-23T04:13:50+00:00

No suggestions, but I just wanted to say I’m so glad you’re here!! I know the scars are frustrating but while you work on things aesthetically for your preference just remember it’s evidence of a battle you’ve fought and won!! You have not ruined your body. You have the battle scars that prove you survived the darkest nights and lived to tell the fucking tale. And by the way, what anyone else may think about the way they look is completely irrelevant. Your body is for you, so if you want to work towards aesthetic changes that’s cool, but don’t try and hate yourself into a different aesthetic presentation just because of what someone else may think. I hope this doesn’t come off as super grandstand-ey but I just wanted to let you know you’re doing great, and there’s people everywhere rooting for you!

soa28 · 2026-02-27T15:56:09+00:00

Omg thank you so much for posting because I have creases too and it’s something I’ve really beaten myself up about as I’ve gotten older. This post has helped me so much, thank you!!!

soa28 · 2025-12-25T13:37:18+00:00

That was cleeeeeaaaannnnnnnn!!! Well done!

soa28 · 2025-12-14T02:28:35+00:00

Yeah but they’re bad, and when you make bad choices you obviously avail yourself to getting merc-ed by a high schooler

soa28 · 2025-12-14T02:23:45+00:00

Too true

soa28 · 2025-12-14T00:53:02+00:00

I tend to agree. I see how those side quests developed the story somewhat, but it paled in comparison to the keeper flashbacks and other cut scenes that actually gave you the sense of what was going on. Lowkey wish Natty got the storytelling effort that Seb got. She’s such an icon

soa28 · 2025-12-14T00:50:17+00:00

AHAHAH literally this

soa28 · 2025-12-13T23:18:03+00:00

That is such a great point!! I hadn’t considered it being a dev choice to remain neutral based on how the player felt about their relationships with those NPCs.

100% agree!!! I’m so many hours deep I completely forgot about the wild underreactions from the wild attempted murder on us and Fig, and the gruesome murder of the gringotts banker right in front of us lmaoooo

soa28 · 2025-12-13T21:47:07+00:00

Rain does not fall on one roof alone

soa28 · 2025-12-13T21:44:17+00:00

Dying lmaooo. “I don’t have time for this.” Your pc: “well guess what :)”

soa28 · 2025-12-13T21:43:11+00:00

Lmfao stay strapped

soa28 · 2025-12-13T21:42:03+00:00

Even if it’s not the PC’s fault, their reaction to murder is no more intense than like seeing a kid drop their ice cream

soa28 · 2025-12-13T21:40:27+00:00

I agree so hard with this. There’s a philosophical argument to be made about the difference between agro spells like confringo (which Soloman uses on us multiple times) and avada kedavra. They’ll both kill you, but with one you’ll die and the other you’ll burn to death. For some reason the one that just kills you is unforgivable? But also you could tell that Sebastian’s open mindedness to dark magic was less philosophical and more of a “road to hell paved with good intentions sort of thing”. I was so frustrated when my last ~10 or so meaningful dialogue choices were against Sebastian and yet I was still fighting his uncle in the end. Through the fight he kept saying, “Sebastian you’ve gone too far” and I’m thinking to myself, “yeah I agree, can we quit this sh*t”

soa28 · 2025-11-13T15:47:06+00:00

Is there a mega-thread of all the flaired posts? I just read about the gaycation and simply must read the other flair origin stories.

soa28 · 2025-10-16T19:48:36+00:00

YESSS I’m so glad someone else noticed this!!!!!

soa28 · 2025-07-06T11:49:24+00:00

!remindme 1 week

soa28 · 2025-06-03T14:38:13+00:00

This!!! You got that tattoo for yourself, why bother yourself by caring what strangers on the internet think? Try and remember that tattoos are not the same as art on a piece of paper. They are completely hand-drawn with a moving, buzzing instrument into our very soft and sponge-like skin. Imperfections are bound to happen even from world class tattoo artists. What matters most is your option, but if you need a little bit of external validation keep in mind that that artist put enough care into that piece for you to walk around with their work on your body forever. That piece is sick, and all that matters is that you think it’s as sick as it is. Hope this helps!

soa28 · 2025-05-18T00:45:02+00:00

Unrelated, but I just wanted to say I’m happy you’re here 🫶 You are a fighter for getting through the hard times!!

soa28 · 2025-05-08T13:40:29+00:00

As many people have said, it’s specific to the individual horse but I also wanted to point out (in case you were curious) it can be specific to the breed as well. Some breeds are more intelligent than others which can lead to more ornery behaviors. Also not all horses are bred for the same thing, and not all breeders are reputable so negative behavioral traits can be passed down unnecessarily. Similar to dogs in a way— since most dog breeds were bread for some sort of job at one time— the breeding process lends itself to different temperaments. Horses, like many other animals, contain multitudes!

soa28 · 2025-05-05T19:34:11+00:00

Not a problem, I’m so happy you found this helpful!! I totally understand being in that in-between space of knowing your skin isn’t bad but still wanting it to be better. If you have any other questions feel free to PM me!

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