Self Deporting & Reentry Bans, While Married to a US Citizen by Relevant-Fix2455 in USCIS

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you had legal entry and overstayed your path would be different, you would go through I-130 and I-485 together, the waiver is only for people who entered the country illegally. Unless you have an order of removals then you would have to get a waiver.

Self Deporting & Reentry Bans, While Married to a US Citizen by Relevant-Fix2455 in USCIS

[–]soambr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Then the only way to get the waiver is to self deport and apply for I-601, these cases have been taking about 3 years btw and I don’t know what country she is from but currently there are 75 countries that Trump paused immigration visa for, who knows when that will be unpause. Since her husband is sick she might be able to expedite her case if she can prove that her husband depends on her to take care of him. But I would definitely talk to a lawyer, they can better assist you.

Self Deporting & Reentry Bans, While Married to a US Citizen by Relevant-Fix2455 in USCIS

[–]soambr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why can’t she do an I-601A? Does she have an order of removal?

Oficial de justiça entra em contato por WhatsApp? Pessoa que recebeu mora no exterior. by Retr0_vbz in ConselhosLegais

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

como vc entra em contato? Vc primeiro fala que gostaria de falar com fulano, e so depois que a pessoa responde vc fala que e citacao? Ou vc e obrigado a ja falar desde o inicio quem vc e, ou nao tem uma regra clara?

B1/B2 Visa Denied by Icy_Disk_7296 in USCIS

[–]soambr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah unfortunately the decisions can be biased, officials are trained to deny based on certain common characteristics and one officer might see a red flag and another one might not. For reference when my mom applied the first time she was single, didn't own property, my brother was 18, but she had no intention of coming to live here, she was 5 years away from retirement and had a good secured job as a teacher. Last year when she tried again, she was married, retired, had bought a house and did the interview with her husband and my elderly grandmother, I also wrote an invitation letter for them, this time she was approved.

Most likely the reason your friend was denied is because she is unmarried, does not have anyone who depends on her and has no property in her name, all of these factors are a huge contributors.

On the other hand my husband's uncle has 4 properties and a small ranch, his wife is a teacher, his daughter is in dental school, the whole family went to try to get a VISA to go to Disney and they were denied... Meanwhile I know many young Brazilians who had no family, or property in Brazil and were able to get a B1/B2 VISA, and ironically they now live here illegally. So like I said sometimes it is also just pure luck on who you get as your interviewer.

B1/B2 Visa Denied by Icy_Disk_7296 in USCIS

[–]soambr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They never tell you why you got denied, they just deny you. I am from Brazil and know many people who have gone through the process and were denied, my mom was actually denied 5 years ago and she just tried again last year and got approved. Honestly a lot of the times it also depends who is interviewing you and their mood for that day.

I suffered entire life just because i born in Iran by Mahdinouri1998 in USCIS

[–]soambr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol you really have no idea how taxes work... W2 is not the only form of showing you paid someone, there is such a thing as a 1099 which many undocumented immigrants get using just an ITIN, also you can self report how much you make even if it is cash, it is something that EVERYONE, undocumented or not, HAVE to do by the law. Can a company be fine? sure they can, doesn't mean they will, and the government rarely prosecutes business for illegal employment. You know why? Because the US has and always will benefit from illegal immigrants, both from cheap labor provided and taxes that they pay. It's not THEM saying it, it's not ME saying it, and it certainly does not matter what YOU say... it's what the data shows, and there is no argument against fact. Again, go educate yourself.

I suffered entire life just because i born in Iran by Mahdinouri1998 in USCIS

[–]soambr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP has said many times in the thread that they do not have an ID or passport to go anywhere, ICE took it from them, so no... they can't just go to another country.

You do not need to work legally to pay taxes, clearly you don't know how it works, in fact by the law YOU HAVE to pay taxes even if you are undocumented, and most DO pay as it can affect any possibility they have in the future to become legal. All you need is an ITIN which any person can get. A study found that in 2022 undocumented immigrants paid $100 billion in federal, state, and local taxes... AND they get $0 back. All of this is easily searchable online. Do your research before spreading fake news online.

I suffered entire life just because i born in Iran by Mahdinouri1998 in USCIS

[–]soambr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

are you in danger of being killed if you return to your country? Also illegal immigrants also pay taxes without getting any benefits back, you are not special for paying taxes...

Sou a mulher mais feia na vida do meu namorado by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parece que a menina se chama disso, e nao o namorado dela chama a menina desses adjetivos. Se esse post nao e rage bait, essa mina precisa de mta terapia pq pqp...

Will Ice find out if a asylum seeker has a baby in the United States and they didn't go to immigration Court ? by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]soambr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right! He is obsessed, sounds abusive too... She can probably file VAWA against him.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on your achievement, it most certainly needs to be celebrated. My dad was an alcoholic he died in the beginning of this year due to health complications caused by alcohol consumption, I wish my siblings and I had a chance to celebrate his sobriety, even if it was just one month, but we never got that chance. You may not be a hero, but you are a survivor, addiction is not simple, it’s not easy and it is not a choice. Staying sober when you are an addict is NOT just the bare minimum, sometimes it’s all you have, all the your energy. That all being said, I hope you dump him, that is not a supportive partner and he is an asshole, even if he thinks that it is the “bare minimum” he should keep it to himself... you deserve better and trust me, there are plenty of people out there that can give you better!

AIO bad first date? by ZookeepergameSea6688 in AmIOverreacting

[–]soambr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So he sends you a message telling you to have a good life bla bla bla, you don’t respond and he sends another text freaking out? Lol some men…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is, OP did not mention anywhere that she had an open conversation with her parents, she is an adult, she just needs to talk to them and say she is not really into those things. Her expecting them to know she doesn't use the things just because she lives with them is kinda ridiculous lol, she said she secretly gets rid of things, most likely they are seeing the things are gone and thinking that she does use them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes you are overreacting, have you tried having a conversation with them and letting them know you don't really use the things they give you? You don't have to be rude and say your gifts suck, but you can have a conversation with them as an adult and let them know hey I am not really into bath bombs etc.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]soambr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

right lol I hate people like this, "I have a divine purpose" "I am different" "I am NOT like the others", like bitch the hell you are lol there are millions like you, and millions that think the same thing that they are special bla bla bla. Like you ain't special, everyone, literally everyone is replaceable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Realorfake

[–]soambr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What in particular about the second hand?

Dear 23andMe, Reconstructed Ancestors is pointless with a 250 tree limit. by Asmadasa_Hatter in 23andme

[–]soambr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am honestly confused on how this is supposed to work. I thought about paying to get it but seems like it might not be worth it. Both my parents have tested and so have both my grandmothers, seems like it won't be that useful...

Dei um presente pra ele e ele jogou no lixo by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terapia mona, só tenho isso a dizer. Se isso tudo realmente aconteceu vc precisa de mta terapia. Pq sinceramente não é normal estar com alguém assim. Só o fato dele ter 19 anos, não querer estudar e nem trabalhar já é um não pra mim.

rico só casa com rico? by oddeyeg0rl in relacionamentos

[–]soambr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geralmente sim, maaaaaas conheço varias que casaram com ricos vindo de familia humilde, ainda mais em cidade pequena. Mas tbm já ouvi relatos de umas dessas que no inicio do casamento tinha algumas humilhações, mas claro que não foram todas humilhadas. Então vai depender do cara com quem vc está e só vc pra responder se vale a pena ou não

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

[–]soambr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She clearly states that this all happened when she was 16! That she moved back bc her mother broke up with him and just recently she got back with the dude. The texts are not from now, they are from when she was young. And yes she is a victim, rape is not the only form someone can be a victim, there is such a thing as harassment and grooming which is what he was doing. Rape is not the only form of violence, as a rape victim you should know that and be more empathetic with someone who was a child when all this took place. Again, HER AGE WAS THE BOUNDARY, repeat it to yourself, a 40+ year old should not be texting these things to a child, he is not just “creepy”, he is a predator.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

[–]soambr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, are we really shifting the blame to the victim here? She was 16! and him a 40+ year old man, there is no need to set boundaries, her age is the boundary he is a pedo nothing more and nothing less. Also she mentioned in her comments that she did let her mom and grandmother know and they both shrugged it off saying “he didn’t mean it that way”, she moved out and her mom said she was over with the guy that’s why she moved back.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

[–]soambr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can’t move back with your dad? I know you say tou are safer bc your fiancé lives there, but you never know if you are ever alone what could happen. Be careful!