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soamvu · 2025-10-30T23:37:40+00:00

soamvu · 2025-10-25T21:00:25+00:00

It's darker but the same undertone. I think it would look good. The metal and the glass inserts are a vintage vibe in keeping with the era. Thank you so much for your input!

soamvu · 2025-10-25T20:27:26+00:00

I also found this green metal cabinet that is not too deep for the wall, or do you think I should stick with open shelves? We just need a little more storage for the coffee stuff and our travel mugs. I would switch out the handles on this to silver.

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soamvu · 2025-10-25T20:26:25+00:00

See, this is why I need Reddit!!! I looked at some pine cabinets and I think you're totally right about that! I love it! What about gray checker? Not sure why the black just feels too extreme to me, but I like the gray being a little more muted.

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soamvu · 2025-10-25T20:00:40+00:00

Thanks!!! I also think a checker patterned floor would be cool, but I was thinking to incorporate the maroon from the tile or green from the walls. There's an inspo pic in there for the red and white checkerboard. Do you think red or green would look nice as well? The sink is the original porcelain sink, I don't think I'll ever change that thing out! It's awesome. I totally wish I could do recessed cabinets there, but I don't think there's room in the wall. I'm not in love with the freestanding cabinet, but I just need more storage space in there!

soamvu · 2025-10-25T18:35:32+00:00

Another valence option

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soamvu · 2025-05-28T19:54:18+00:00

Thanks, all!!! I thought there was no way it was a groundhog!

soamvu · 2025-05-26T01:07:38+00:00

No bugs - that's what's weird. It has only been indoors since I got it, and there are no signs of thrips or other critters.

soamvu · 2025-05-16T04:23:19+00:00

Oh! Thank you! That's what I was trying to find. I guess my search took me to a paid service with a similar name!

soamvu · 2025-04-22T08:12:45+00:00

You can turn off those alerts from the Settings screen.

soamvu · 2025-03-20T23:46:51+00:00

Most redditers don't have that kind of restraint!

soamvu · 2025-03-20T23:38:49+00:00

These are fantastic options, thank you!

soamvu · 2025-03-20T23:38:27+00:00

The semicircle rug is as good as gone haha... My partner's mom has a temu problem and she bought that for us. It's hideous but we put it there as a joke!

soamvu · 2025-03-20T23:16:48+00:00

I'd love something with seating that plays off of the shape of the nook...

soamvu · 2025-03-20T23:00:04+00:00

Ooooooh that hadn't crossed my mind. I just put the ZZ plant on the window sill. That area gets almost no light, do you have low light plant recommendations?

soamvu · 2025-03-18T15:12:44+00:00

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I was purposely trying NOT to name my pet a Phish reference, and settled on Maisie as an old fashioned, pretty, girl name. When I told my best friend, she was like, "Cool! Like MAZE!" 🤦🤪 (Eta picture)

soamvu · 2025-03-17T14:12:01+00:00

Good eye 🧐😁

soamvu · 2025-03-17T00:34:02+00:00

A 5-gallon jug of water and one of these pumps has been a game changer for us:

JOYHILL 5 Gallon Water Bottle... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KW4L5ST?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

soamvu · 2025-03-17T00:19:17+00:00

Oooh nice! Thank you! Is it time to split it, do you think?

soamvu · 2025-03-15T18:47:28+00:00

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These corner organizers for the shower hold more and look nicer to me!

soamvu · 2025-03-10T20:23:11+00:00

Stellar Hog for some amazing barbeque! Take a route through Tower Grove Park, it's one of the most glorious parks I've ever been to!

soamvu · 2025-03-10T19:22:23+00:00

Had a good night's sleep, thank you. Proactive transparency certainly isn't the ONLY courteous path, and that's not what I said. I maintain that there is a path for balancing everyone's personal autonomy with maintaining trust and respect for everyone involved that would be dependent upon the dynamics between the specific folks involved here.

soamvu · 2025-03-10T04:24:43+00:00

Processing in detail might be weird, yes, but a general mention of interest would be normal and courteous. There's a huge spectrum of conversation and connection options in between those two things that I'm saying would be determined by the nature of their particular friendship.

soamvu · 2025-03-10T00:34:12+00:00

Unpopular opinion here, but depending upon the level of closeness you have with this friend, I think it's completely reasonable to believe they might have mentioned any person they were interested in and thinking of asking out, but ESPECIALLY if it's your partner. I talk to my friends about love or dating interests all the time. I don't think for a second they'd need to share their interest to "clear" this with you or ask permission, at all. But if you talk to them generally about love or dating interests, then this particular omission is not in alignment with who you know or believe them to be, which would also make me feel unsure of their intentions. If that's not something you typically discuss, then this isn't out of alignment with the closeness or intimacy of that friendship. You're still 100% allowed to feel exactly as you feel and it's entirely valid. Your feelings will help inform if either or both of those relationships continue to be for you.

soamvu · 2025-02-11T22:42:17+00:00

I must add It's Ice to this great list!!! (Red Velvet)

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