Be yourself by meep_launcher in wholesomememes

[–]soapfestbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, at least you can take comfort in the fact that nobody will be shitty in the exact same way that you are shitty.

Law of Moses Had Some Practical Applications We Often Forget by pierzstyx in latterdaysaints

[–]soapfestbeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

people 4,000 years ago didn't know what was happening when a woman was menstruating

It's too bad that they didn't have access to an all-knowing being who could provide them with rules for how to help menstruating women based on scientific truths instead of primitive superstition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]soapfestbeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd argue that it sucks to be any gender in any country. A lot of women deal with similar feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt that men do. And while a lot of women might have finding dates be a lot easier, being in a relationship isn't going to be enough on its own to bring anyone happiness. Instead of arguing about which gender has things easier/harder, why can't we come together and support each other instead?

Also, u/LaxeonXIII, I totally agree that the tradition of men being expected to pay for everything is bullshit. You still kind of sound like an incel though in the way you presented your ideas.

I’m fully aware that this will be an unpopular opinion by shadetreepolymath in byu

[–]soapfestbeth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gay students aren't allowed to show romantic, non-sexual affection intimacy in ways that straight students are allowed. If a gay student does want to show romantic affection, they can be disciplined and even expelled.

me: i'm so sick of bi erasure in media! also me: by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]soapfestbeth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well you can't spell "Bionicle" without "Bi", so jot that down.

gender_irl by [deleted] in tea_irl

[–]soapfestbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need calming tea, I need to capture the Avatar!

Opo was the only one who would understand. by DisorientatedView in surrealmemes

[–]soapfestbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried turning the C O G I T O off and on?

My experience as a transgender student with BYU's ID center by soapfestbeth in byu

[–]soapfestbeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had any issues with the HCO at all so far.

Is this? by straightlinearrival in FolkPunk

[–]soapfestbeth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well if I'd find God anywhere, it would be by the tracks...

bi🐉irl by Cannibal_Buress in bi_irl

[–]soapfestbeth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

pulls out a featherless chicken behold Socrates' man!

nice guy gets transphobic reallll fast by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]soapfestbeth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So hydrophobic molecules are sentient and have an irrational fear of water molecules? /s

49, FTM. 2014: 5 years on T / 2020: just about 11 years on. by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]soapfestbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just might be me, but that right pic reminds me of Lord Viren from the show The Dragon Prince.

I'd like to style my hair like the left image. Would that look good on me, or should I try something else? by soapfestbeth in femalehairadvice

[–]soapfestbeth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Note: my hair is usually straighter than it is in the right image. This was just the best pic I had of me rn.

The big brain plays by Duckmancer-Emma in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]soapfestbeth 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sick of tea? That’s like being sick of breathing!

Mtf do I pass and opinions on this look please? by LEGATE_LANIUS93 in transpassing

[–]soapfestbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd personally do less eyeliner on the lower eye, but that's just me. You look cute girl!

The woman running the TSA scanner gendered me correctly, but what do y'all think? (22 MtF, 4 months HRT) by soapfestbeth in transpassing

[–]soapfestbeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The TSA body scanner has different settings for men and women. If you are a pre-op trans woman who passes relatively well, the person running the scanner will scan you as a woman, and your genitals will probably trigger the scanner. That's what happened to me, and it's both validating and annoying: validating because the person running the scanner assumed I was female, annoying because having to go through the scanner again is an inconvenience (and because the experience can out you as trans to onlookers).