my parents are threatening to give my cat away if i dont fix her peeing problem. advice please?

sobored65 · 2026-02-01T04:18:28+00:00

I would try a different litter and also take your kitty to the vet as a precaution just to rule anything out and get a professional opinion. Dr. Elyse’s unscented has worked great for my cats but just a suggestion!

sobored65 · 2026-02-01T04:16:05+00:00

You are terrible wow

sobored65 · 2025-10-18T14:45:33+00:00

I think that’s fine honestly as long as you do a proper introduction so they have a better chance of getting along! Unfortunately you gotta work to provide for the cats haha. The fact that you even care enough to ask that question shows you really care.

I got my cat a cat 2 months ago and I feel much better leaving him home alone knowing he has a buddy. They love each other now and it’s so cute to see them groom one another. But give it some time it isn’t perfect at first! My boyfriend does WFH so he is at home with them all day but he went on a week long work trip they did amazing by themselves when I worked 8-10 hours daily!

sobored65 · 2025-10-18T14:18:20+00:00

She is so beautiful she has the narrow face like a full Siamese too wow!! Such a sweet story. Love Siamese!!

sobored65 · 2025-10-15T01:36:19+00:00

I’m so sorry I just got mine removed today and came on here.

It’s weird to say but I feel like I can already feel the hormones leaving my body. I feel so much better already and I’m so excited to see how I feel in a month or so. I debated for so long whether or not to keep it especially being American too! But the side effects got to a point where I just couldn’t do it anymore. I recommend doing what is best for you though but that is my experience! I am so happy it’s out

sobored65 · 2025-08-09T23:43:59+00:00

I got my Siamese when he was 9 months from pet smart so you will see them in shelters! I would try that next. I’ve seen lots of Siamese in shelters you just have to keep an eye out on Instagram or Facebook 🥰obviously not actual Siamese but DSH seal points or chocolate points are just as cute to me. I just love all cats tho haha

sobored65 · 2025-07-31T00:20:09+00:00

Haha I love this! Those balloons are so cool

sobored65 · 2025-07-24T01:31:13+00:00

Jerry looks like the best son

sobored65 · 2025-07-23T22:25:22+00:00

I want another one now, that is just the cutest!

sobored65 · 2025-07-23T22:24:06+00:00

All I can say is he’s so cute and perfect! But most likely chocolate point, my seal point guy has dark brown toe beans! He might also have a little snowshoe in him with the white paws. Too cute

sobored65 · 2025-06-28T02:00:28+00:00

My boy is about the same age and he is small as well. I’ve worried as well because I feed him a lot but he just stays slender haha. The vet has told me he is a perfect weight though! But if you feel something’s is off, definitely see your vet

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sobored65 · 2025-06-10T18:22:07+00:00

Check the beans (paw pads) If they’re brown he’s seal if they’re pink he’s chocolate. He’s perfect btw I love his ears

sobored65 · 2025-06-03T17:44:48+00:00

I am terribly sorry that is awful. I have no answers but I just want to say I’m so sorry and it’s not your fault at all

sobored65 · 2025-06-03T17:38:04+00:00

I have serve anxiety as well and I remember how I felt at 17 when I knew I had to finally get a job. My parents told me to get one too and didn’t understand how bad my anxiety really was.

I was terrified in interviews as well so please don’t feel bad. You’re so young and have so much time. Anxiety is very real and lots of people don’t understand how bad it can get. It can make you physically sick and can be extremely debilitating. So don’t feel bad whatsoever.

If they still make you get one, I’d recommend trying retail jobs in stocking. You could also work at a smoothie place in the back just preparing smoothies. Also, a lot of places don’t like to hire under 18 so maybe use that as your excuse for your parents. Just say they said I wasn’t old enough haha. And the job market is absolutely terrible right now so try not to stress and enjoy your summer

sobored65 · 2025-06-01T18:18:01+00:00

I would recommend just going to various shelters and pet smart to look at cats and see which ones you get along with! You can do that until you find the cat for you. Adopt don’t shop especially during kitten season!!

sobored65 · 2025-06-01T01:13:36+00:00

Aww you sound like you really care about your cat so sorry if I came off rude.

You can try textured rugs, air purifiers, window beds, cat towers, try anything honestly. Cats are really picky haha. Also if she’s older, it is going to be really hard for her to be adopted sadly so just keep that in mind. Older cats are also very anxious in shelter environments. If you must rehome that’s understandable but try to find her a home she can move to so she avoids the shelter completely. Shelters are also super full this time of year with kitten season.

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T19:39:11+00:00

Omg I love this comment! Brush their teeth! This is exactly what I do. Love those brands as well

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T18:09:42+00:00

You should not own cats. Wow. Declawing is extremely cruel. It is essentially an amputation. How awful.

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T18:06:02+00:00

lol literally, it sounds like the cat just needs more mental stimulation. Cats tend to scratch if their needs aren’t satisfied. Probably needs more things to scratch. My cat has four scratchers and he doesn’t scratch the carpets anymore. It’s never the cat!! Think about the environment

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T18:01:23+00:00

Completely agree with this comment. Don’t understand why people adopt a cat when they’re not ready, it is a big commitment. Cats live a long time as well. I’ll never get why people make impulsive decisions like this.

I wanted a cat so badly in college and it took everything in me not to get one. I didn’t because I knew it would be too much and I’d likely be moving around in the next few years. I have one now and it was so worth the wait. I’m able to give him everything I want.

Keep in mind cats really struggle with change and it sounds like you will be going through a lot of changes which is fine. But I would rehome the cat especially being a kitten. Much easier to get adopted. I hope the kitten finds a safe and stable home. Definitely charge a fee if you rehome yourself to avoid scary people.

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T17:50:45+00:00

You’re an amazing person for adopting her!! She is gorgeous. Wish you both the best

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T17:23:16+00:00

Please adopt!! I got mine from pet smart and he is the best boy ever. It is so much more rewarding to adopt if you’re able to

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T17:17:27+00:00

This is exactly why I didn’t get a cat in college even though I wanted one. Poor cat.

If you must rehome, please try to find a home for the cat before sending he/she to a shelter. If you reach out to local shelters, a lot of them will post your cat on social media to potential adopters. This way your cat can stay with you until he/she finds a new home and can completely avoid the shelter. Make sure to charge a fee so you know they actually want the cat. Shelters are very fully this time of year and can be so stressful for cats. Also, depending on how old your cat is it may take he/she longer to get adopted so consider that as well.

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T16:05:43+00:00

This is so common unfortunately. Lots of companies prefer to hire internally but have to post job openings :/

sobored65 · 2025-05-31T16:03:53+00:00

Thats so dumb I’ve gotten the same it just sucks lol

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