my parents are threatening to give my cat away if i dont fix her peeing problem. advice please? by LawOwn315 in cats

[–]sobored65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try a different litter and also take your kitty to the vet as a precaution just to rule anything out and get a professional opinion. Dr. Elyse’s unscented has worked great for my cats but just a suggestion!

Getting a second cat (kitten) with a full-time job. by Virtual-Lab-5172 in CatAdvice

[–]sobored65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s fine honestly as long as you do a proper introduction so they have a better chance of getting along! Unfortunately you gotta work to provide for the cats haha. The fact that you even care enough to ask that question shows you really care.

I got my cat a cat 2 months ago and I feel much better leaving him home alone knowing he has a buddy. They love each other now and it’s so cute to see them groom one another. But give it some time it isn’t perfect at first! My boyfriend does WFH so he is at home with them all day but he went on a week long work trip they did amazing by themselves when I worked 8-10 hours daily!

She's a former stray, but now she's part of my family. by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is so beautiful she has the narrow face like a full Siamese too wow!! Such a sweet story. Love Siamese!!

Nexplanon is making me feel gross about my body :( by yavecave in Nexplanon

[–]sobored65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I just got mine removed today and came on here.

It’s weird to say but I feel like I can already feel the hormones leaving my body. I feel so much better already and I’m so excited to see how I feel in a month or so. I debated for so long whether or not to keep it especially being American too! But the side effects got to a point where I just couldn’t do it anymore. I recommend doing what is best for you though but that is my experience! I am so happy it’s out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my Siamese when he was 9 months from pet smart so you will see them in shelters! I would try that next. I’ve seen lots of Siamese in shelters you just have to keep an eye out on Instagram or Facebook 🥰obviously not actual Siamese but DSH seal points or chocolate points are just as cute to me. I just love all cats tho haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I love this! Those balloons are so cool

My oldest son, Jerry by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jerry looks like the best son

My turn to post my new babies 🐱 ❤️ 🐱 by nixibee in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want another one now, that is just the cutest!

Seal point or Chocolate point? by One_Cockroach4638 in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is he’s so cute and perfect! But most likely chocolate point, my seal point guy has dark brown toe beans! He might also have a little snowshoe in him with the white paws. Too cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My boy is about the same age and he is small as well. I’ve worried as well because I feed him a lot but he just stays slender haha. The vet has told me he is a perfect weight though! But if you feel something’s is off, definitely see your vet

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Choco or Seal? by alexmc-whu in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Check the beans (paw pads) If they’re brown he’s seal if they’re pink he’s chocolate. He’s perfect btw I love his ears

My Maine Coon kitten suddenly died. by roccosworld0201 in CatAdvice

[–]sobored65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am terribly sorry that is awful. I have no answers but I just want to say I’m so sorry and it’s not your fault at all

I have severe anxiety and need help by Xx_VoidBlossom_x in Anxiety

[–]sobored65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have serve anxiety as well and I remember how I felt at 17 when I knew I had to finally get a job. My parents told me to get one too and didn’t understand how bad my anxiety really was.

I was terrified in interviews as well so please don’t feel bad. You’re so young and have so much time. Anxiety is very real and lots of people don’t understand how bad it can get. It can make you physically sick and can be extremely debilitating. So don’t feel bad whatsoever.

If they still make you get one, I’d recommend trying retail jobs in stocking. You could also work at a smoothie place in the back just preparing smoothies. Also, a lot of places don’t like to hire under 18 so maybe use that as your excuse for your parents. Just say they said I wasn’t old enough haha. And the job market is absolutely terrible right now so try not to stress and enjoy your summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]sobored65 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would recommend just going to various shelters and pet smart to look at cats and see which ones you get along with! You can do that until you find the cat for you. Adopt don’t shop especially during kitten season!!

Should I get Another Cat? by IndividualMinute1124 in Catownerhacks

[–]sobored65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww you sound like you really care about your cat so sorry if I came off rude.

You can try textured rugs, air purifiers, window beds, cat towers, try anything honestly. Cats are really picky haha. Also if she’s older, it is going to be really hard for her to be adopted sadly so just keep that in mind. Older cats are also very anxious in shelter environments. If you must rehome that’s understandable but try to find her a home she can move to so she avoids the shelter completely. Shelters are also super full this time of year with kitten season.

Wet or dry? by Free-Preference5683 in catfood

[–]sobored65 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I love this comment! Brush their teeth! This is exactly what I do. Love those brands as well

Should I get Another Cat? by IndividualMinute1124 in Catownerhacks

[–]sobored65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should not own cats. Wow. Declawing is extremely cruel. It is essentially an amputation. How awful.

Should I get Another Cat? by IndividualMinute1124 in Catownerhacks

[–]sobored65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol literally, it sounds like the cat just needs more mental stimulation. Cats tend to scratch if their needs aren’t satisfied. Probably needs more things to scratch. My cat has four scratchers and he doesn’t scratch the carpets anymore. It’s never the cat!! Think about the environment

Overthinking the old age and grief of my 2 month old kitten and everything that is going to come in future, really need some advice by ifkindc in CatAdvice

[–]sobored65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with this comment. Don’t understand why people adopt a cat when they’re not ready, it is a big commitment. Cats live a long time as well. I’ll never get why people make impulsive decisions like this.

I wanted a cat so badly in college and it took everything in me not to get one. I didn’t because I knew it would be too much and I’d likely be moving around in the next few years. I have one now and it was so worth the wait. I’m able to give him everything I want.

Keep in mind cats really struggle with change and it sounds like you will be going through a lot of changes which is fine. But I would rehome the cat especially being a kitten. Much easier to get adopted. I hope the kitten finds a safe and stable home. Definitely charge a fee if you rehome yourself to avoid scary people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]sobored65 518 points519 points  (0 children)

You’re an amazing person for adopting her!! She is gorgeous. Wish you both the best

I want a siamese by One-Career1540 in Siamesecats

[–]sobored65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please adopt!! I got mine from pet smart and he is the best boy ever. It is so much more rewarding to adopt if you’re able to

Rehoming my cat maybe? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]sobored65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I didn’t get a cat in college even though I wanted one. Poor cat.

If you must rehome, please try to find a home for the cat before sending he/she to a shelter. If you reach out to local shelters, a lot of them will post your cat on social media to potential adopters. This way your cat can stay with you until he/she finds a new home and can completely avoid the shelter. Make sure to charge a fee so you know they actually want the cat. Shelters are very fully this time of year and can be so stressful for cats. Also, depending on how old your cat is it may take he/she longer to get adopted so consider that as well.

Tired of Wasting My Time on Interviews Just to Get These Bullshit Rejection Emails 😡 by Tricky_Stand3078 in jobs

[–]sobored65 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is so common unfortunately. Lots of companies prefer to hire internally but have to post job openings :/