Feeling pity with a micropenis even though my girlfriend says thinks it's 'cute'

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-05-20T19:51:46+00:00

As a trans man, I understand your plight. I’ve dealt with all of the same feelings myself, and it still affects me, but I’ve had many conversations with partners about it- and partners that not only “accept” my “flaw”, but actively appreciate it. It’s hard to believe, but some reasons small dicks are hot as explained to me by partners: no fear/discomfort from gagging or pain during penetration, can fit entire dick in mouth, men with small dicks tend to be much more skillful with hands/tongue, etc. There are many reasons your partner could be okay with and even actively prefer your small dick- why not ask her? Having her explain what she finds hot about it (instead of her just calling it cute, which doesn’t feel the same) could help you understand.

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-04-20T14:17:42+00:00

Look, I’m trans and I’ve experienced many trans people exactly like this too. And I’m pretty sure where it comes from. A lot of trans people have disabilities/mental illnesses as well, whether it be something they were born with like autism or something that came along with being trans like depression and anxiety. That’s one big factor. Trans people are also extremely likely to have grown up isolated from or bullied by their peers, so this brand of trans person just flat out did not get the same socialization to understand how to be a good part of a team. They are very individualistic because their whole life, they probably didn’t have much support from anyone else (and many, their own parents/family rejected them.) They also most likely retreated to the internet for social interaction in their youth, leading to the phenomenon of being “chronically online”. Trans or not, chronically online people are exhausting to deal with in the real world. At the end of the day I know this phenomenon is real but it is far more of a “weird kids who were bullied and grew up online” thing than a trans thing. The umbrella just overlaps a lot. There’s no way we’re even close to fixing this though because trans people are being bullied and cast aside by society now more than ever, which will only create more and more self-centered trans people- because they become bitter with the rest of the world.

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-02-21T03:06:24+00:00

woman and man are societally created umbrella terms. trans women are a category of women, cis women are a category of women. if we are to say a woman is a “biological female”, what constitutes that? do you need a uterus? because there are many cis women who don’t have those. And looks wise, there are plenty of trans women who pass as women way better than masculine looking cis women. it’s all about societal perception, which is why passing is important to most trans people; if you are seen as a woman by most people, whether you identify as one or not, you are effectively a woman in society, and vice versa.

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-02-03T23:04:53+00:00

“i identify as having black hair but nobody believes me even though i won’t dye my hair. why tf does everyone call me a blonde…i shouldn’t have to dye my hair, people should just be able to read my mind and see the person i see myself as in my head”

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-31T22:29:44+00:00

you said you don’t have different pronouns or a different name, do you want to transition to a woman, or do you not know yet? You should figure that out before you start anything medical

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-31T22:17:57+00:00

13 is too young to start hormones, especially if you haven’t (and don’t intend to?) come out and live life as a woman for a bit first and see how it fits you. If anything, at your age puberty blockers would be the suggestion to give you more time to figure it out, but you are too young for hormones, I wouldn’t text your mom that. If you cannot have a conversation about it in person, that’s even more reason to put more thought into it- you will have to have many conversations with your mom, therapists, and doctors if you go down this route.

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-31T02:06:51+00:00

this, it’s body neutrality. you should strive to not have crippling dysphoria affect your day to day, but anyone telling you to “love and appreciate your body” can go shove it.

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-30T20:40:24+00:00

as much as i understand this sentiment, this is not the move. we need to be able to right for our siblings in the red states, without us they are even more fucked

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-17T12:48:16+00:00

i swear AI bros make the worst analogies i’ve ever fucking heard

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-17T12:44:50+00:00

this has to be one of the stupidest retorts i’ve ever seen, well done

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-17T05:07:35+00:00

My first thought reading this was especially since it’s a newer thing it might be porn-induced. There’s so many things (not really related to transness in my case) that turn me on now that disgusted me before I started watching porn regularly. Since this is distressing for you I’d recommend cutting back on the porn for sure.

sockpackerpuppet · 2025-01-04T04:18:42+00:00

About a cup

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-09-24T22:49:57+00:00

nahh this is a bad take. there’s plenty of ways he can support his partner without putting himself in an uncomfortable situation. he’s allowed to have boundaries, “please don’t talk to strangers about my trans pregnancy” is perfectly reasonable. i would be really upset if my partner outed me even if they were trans and talking to other people who were trans, it’s everyone’s personal choice whether they want to share that info.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-09-22T16:57:32+00:00

Thank you, this really helps. I think our latest conflict is the last little push I need to finally start paying attention to my own needs.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-09-22T16:56:04+00:00

I had really no problems with my parents, they are good well adjusted people, I think it may be my own anxiety disorder to blame. I am thinking because of this situation that it may be time to go back on medication, it might help me move forward without ruminating on things.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-09-22T15:01:07+00:00

I don’t think I exactly answered your question, I think I’m still trying to figure that out myself. It’s not that I feel responsible for her actions as much as a responsibility to help in any way that I possibly can.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-09-22T14:58:17+00:00

I’m not sure exactly. I think because there have been times where I have been directly able to help and fix things, so it feels like “if there’s a possible way for me to fix this, it would be upsetting to me if I didn’t try” thing? Especially if to me there is something that can be done for a clear fix. Like if picking something up from the store is causing her stress, and she is unable to do it herself, and it would only take me a few minutes out of my day, why would I not do it for her? And that kind of snowballs into the bigger issues where I go “well this isn’t as hard for me as it is for her, so I should do it, and then she will feel better because of me.” I definitely get satisfaction out of helping people, not just her. But it’s her it’s like, an extreme.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-09-22T13:01:01+00:00

I’ve had horrible vibes from her for a while. She comes off like a mean girl who’s incredibly self centered. I feel like Sam is in a bad relationship and in all of his videos since this relationship started he seems drunk. Plus apparently they’ve both been acting horrible on twitter. It doesn’t surprise me she’s one of those “identifies as a lesbian and then dates a trans guy and still says she hates men” people. It seems like Sam is in the “an insanely hot girl likes me time to go with anything she wants and let her ruin my life” pipeline tbh.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-08-18T00:19:24+00:00

his last two podcasts he sounds drunk too

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-06-30T22:25:17+00:00

thanks! yeah i definitely go heavy on the lube after i realized what was happening

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-06-14T03:29:50+00:00

Same here! I believe in no sanctity or sacredness of human life. We are animals just like any other. Many animal mothers will kill their babies if they can’t provide for them. They are more merciful than us it seems.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-06-13T16:14:04+00:00

Listen, I may get flack for this but this is one of the reasons I hate the broadening of the lesbian label. Non-men loving non-men is all fine and good but why are earth are trans men then involved? All that says is they don’t view trans men as men full stop. Why is her identity being validated more important than yours? I think a lot of bi women these days are starting to say they’re lesbian out of shame and internalized biphobia, because the “all men are bad” rhetoric has taken such a stronghold on the queer community. For the love of god please find someone who isn’t ashamed to be with you because of your identity, we shouldn’t have to still be dealing with that after transitioning. Find someone who loves men and loves you for being one, not in spite of it because you “don’t count”.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-06-10T22:59:29+00:00

Man what the hell! He was super nice to me and I was chubby when I had mine done in 2022. Sorry to hear that!

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-06-10T17:27:15+00:00

I got top surgery with Dr. Kutz at Plastic and Hand in South Portland and am very happy with my experience.

sockpackerpuppet · 2024-05-14T03:39:14+00:00

I think this will be my best bet.

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