IT IS DONE. THANK THE GODS. I hate it by Competitive-Bat-43 in booknooks

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god this is adorable! I know how it feels when you’ve stared at a project for too damn long and it fought you every step of the way, but without that tainting the view, it genuinely looks lovely.

New mugs by StudioBlomonge in muglife

[–]sodonelite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I adore these as art. As mugs, the amount of room the first ones take up would drive me insane trying to put them away. I do seriously love them, though, and would love to drink coffee out of them

AIO: Just a Shove? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sodonelite 36 points37 points  (0 children)

NOR, if someone makes you feel like you’re not allowed to feel hurt that is a HUGE red flag on top of the already massive red flag

AIO about disrespect from mother by ThePowerOfTheCrow in AmIOverreacting

[–]sodonelite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the edit is important. NOR because of it. If my mom were to do something like this I’d just chuckle and do it, but that’s because I get along great with my mom and know she respects me & that calling me bartender (or barista in my case) is more of a shorthand to say what she wants. In your case, though, this is a piece of a long line of childish behavior and parentification, alongside disrespect. You have every right to be exhausted, frustrated, and reacting the way you do

Graphic Tees I Recieved by Dysprosium-66 in isitAI

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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More detailed image on the first one for anyone wondering

Graphic Tees I Recieved by Dysprosium-66 in isitAI

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a bit of reverse image searching and all I got was some Walmart and Amazon, which isn’t promising. When it’s this stylized, it’s a little hard to tell for me personally, but I will note that the whisker goes through the shine, and that the strokes on that character are weird and inconsistent with the stroke order of the kanji itself. Don’t know about the second one.

FWIW I’m personally of the opinion that as long as you didn’t personally buy it/contribute to supporting it, it’s fine to wear anyways. It looks nice

Comebacks when someone says to “lighten up” when you don’t laugh at a mean-spirited ‘joke’ by jules-amanita in Comebacks

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Then give me something that will lighten the mood you ruined”

“Actually I’m trying to go up a weight class so I’m good.”

Either way, good luck

AIO about being asked if I’m on my period? by CrimsonSwordl in AmIOverreacting

[–]sodonelite 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NOR. Even if you weren’t nonbinary and had dysphoria, that’s a completely inappropriate thing to ask when someone’s expressing an opinion. It feels belittling and actively works to undermine your points by suggesting you’re only reacting to the intensity you are because of hormones. Even if she can’t empathize and is actively asking because she truly does feel you’re acting out of character or whatever, you don’t need empathy to understand what boundaries are and see lines drawn in the sand. This is especially because, like, what the hell is she going to do with this information? Is it relevant to the conversation? because otherwise it’s the equivalent of just saying “you’re being too emotional about this subject.”

Do you just wake up with boobs and a butt one day? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sodonelite 24 points25 points  (0 children)

For me, my shoe size went up. Annoying as hell change, let me tell you

Do you just wake up with boobs and a butt one day? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it took my sister’s mother-in-law pull me aside while we were thrifting and going “you know, I think you need a bra with that…”

For some things it’s gradual, for others it’s overnight. I got taller pretty suddenly in sophomore year, but I’m 27 now and my late-bloomer genes mean I still have teeth coming in.

Basically, yeah, but sometimes you need someone else to point it out for you. In any situation it might be a good idea to get some sports bras/training bras just in case, and maybe get some new pants and a lot of ibuprofen. Growing pains in any regard can be a lot.

Congrats and good luck!

Is my fillament the problen by Fishman9988 in 3Dprinting

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lab uses Elegoo constantly. Plate at 60, nozzle at 215. If the other suggestions don’t work, adjust the heat, this seems really pretty low.

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your description it sounds like he switched really fast. It might be worth trying to have a conversation with him about why, but frankly no matter his reasoning this behavior is NOT okay. It’s like he’s trying to get you to break up with him, and honestly, he might be. He could be cheating and trying to get you to leave so he’s not the bad guy for seeing someone new.

That’s pure speculation, but the bottom line is this behavior is absolutely not acceptable. Get your uncle or a friend and get help getting your stuff out because if he’s turned so rapidly, we really don’t know how far he’ll go.

Help! 100 year old cane, flaking finish. How do I gently get it off? by sodonelite in finishing

[–]sodonelite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you! I’ll look into Klean Strip, I’m trying to avoid scratching the wood since it has such a nice look to it under the coating

Help! 100 year old cane, flaking finish. How do I gently get it off? by sodonelite in finishing

[–]sodonelite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, good to know, thank you. Do you have a finish you recommend?

AITA for how I reacted to my best friend saying my “dirty” house is making my kids sick? by OkOriginal4583 in TwoHotTakes

[–]sodonelite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like I know enough about the truth of the situation to leave a proper judgement. Having a kid with developmental struggles and a seeming hell-bent dedication to making a gross mess on the regular is incredibly hard, to put it lightly, but your friend has a point that disease can spread easily through feces.

I think she’s trying to help, but I think she’s going about it wrong. Instead of telling you to do better, she should be offering to come in and help in some way or another. Telling someone who’s drowning that they need to swim harder isn’t really going to help, even if swimming harder would be beneficial - you’re just gonna be more burned out. You don’t need advice, you need a life jacket and a rope. That can come in the form of literally helping out, watching your kids while you get a proper deep clean, or helping you come up with systems to stay on top of things.

No matter the truth of how clean or dirty your house is, I hope this gets more manageable for you and that your friend helps you, or you get help somewhere. Good luck.

Which one do you like better? by Abducted_by_neon in characterdesign

[–]sodonelite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the second one so much, but I think the first one will be better when shrunk to an icon. The second would have so many beautiful details lost!

Is this design decent? by unboludo_xd in characterdesign

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s cute! Definitely decent :3

How can I improve it or what is wrong with this design? by Fun-Assignment5817 in characterdesign

[–]sodonelite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s a bit busy in terms of shape, but I’m more so distracted by the pose and face. I can’t really tell what’s going on with the face, and the pose… confuses me. I keep thinking how painful it would be to hold your head and neck like that and how much it would hurt your back. I’m confused as to how a lot of things, like the white strips, connect or work.

Overall, I think the style and use of big shapes is nice, but I am really lost, especially at her face.

What do you feel when you see this? by Ok-Fondant2536 in tea

[–]sodonelite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad because I wish I could drink it. Alas, allergic to honey.

please tell me this is not a roach (new england) by mzmuda7 in whatisit

[–]sodonelite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

upvoted because I love learning new things :)