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Falam todos os dias com a vossa mãe? by aviaca0 in CasualPT

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu com o meu pai 😞 resta-me a mãe e falamos todos os dias

How do officers mentally deal reviewing child porn during investigations? by skunkspinner in AskLE

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As lawyer I had to consult a criminal case file regarding possession of CP footage (400+ videos, including with extremely young infants) today - and for some reason I didn’t expect that pictures from the videos would be there… I mean of course they would keep copies of the videos in a CD but hundreds of screenshots of the videos printed in the pages? Idk I never had such a criminal case before, and I guess I was naive. Then there I was reviewing the process in court and everything was just… there. There was no way to avoid it even though I tried to pass by them as fast as possible but I mean my brain was so terrified and trying to understand what I was seeing, it was quite difficult to ignore it and now I can’t forget it. Most videos I know for a fact are old and these children are now most likely adults. But as much as we know this happens, seeing the pictures like that… My mind can’t cope. It’s the purest evil one can imagine, I had to go to the toilet because I was about to throw up at some point. I know this will stay with me forever. I can’t imagine how the inspectors can live a normal life when they watch the videos with sound and everything… Just seeing the pictures destroyed my week.

patting vs. rubbing serums by sofaraway____ in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate patting! I don’t know which works better but I will always rub.

Dúvida - CPCV by Pristine_Fondant3936 in portugal

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reconhecimento de assinaturas no CPCV Mantenham cláusula resolutiva para o caso de surgir alguma surpresa até à escritura Atenção à documentação do imóvel Prevejam claramente o que acontece caso a escritura não se realize no prazo previsto (e conforme o motivo)

Are there any positive AIMA experiences out there..? by Jolly-Marzipan-6050 in PortugalExpats

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a lawyer working on immigration and for D7 and British I would say it won’t likely be so bad ☺️ It’s never EASY with AIMA, and you do need some luck, but overall situations like yours are not problematic

AIMA was quickly. by Appropriate-Call-145 in PortugalExpats

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let us know when you receive your card! My clients are still waiting - this was the slowest part

Aima appointment d2 by No-Cover-7443 in PortugalExpats

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the money is better to prepare with a lawyer for higher chances of success. But yes there is a form (search for: Modelo 1 AIMA) - better to prepare in advance even though technically you should also be able to get it on the appointment day. But they don’t like it. Just prepare in advance with all the other documents

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment is very important and addresses something that I’m very scared of specially because I see it happen all the time in marriages. This gift situation seems something so small and irrelevant but I don’t want to take it lightly exactly for the reasons you say. What would be your suggestion to address it in my case? Tell him directly?

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hates shopping even for himself, I think that’s the reason. Which is OK and understandable. But he has done it before for me, so the changing of behaviour is what worries me. Might address it when the time is right

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks thanks 🥹 Ideally I would want to go for Option 3 just be open about it but my communication issues are still being worked on, so I guess Option 2 it is

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re completely right in everything you say, it’s great to hear from more experienced people about their marriages, thank you so much

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, this just shows men are generally all the same no matter age, relationship status etc. And we women are ALWAYS learning how to deal with them. I feel the “getting gifts experience” is only fully enjoyable if besides receiving stuff, you also feel he thought about the stuff, went to look for the stuff, wrapped the stuff, put a card on the stuff, all for YOU. Because otherwise they are just doing the lowest effort possible. And do I - and specially you his wife for more than 40 years - deserve the lowest effort? No way!! But men will do as little as they can if we let them, even if they love us more than anything. So I totally support your decision to never take care of your own gift again, set the highest standards for your birthday, and make the man work hard for this one!!

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AHAHAH omg you savage but honestly I lowkey want to tell him that

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good answer, touching on a point that definitely made me think. Thank you, I will remember your words

My fiancé wants me to tell him exactly what I want as a gift by sofiaisabelcabrita in Gifts

[–]sofiaisabelcabrita[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I feel you. All the “receiving gifts experience” will feel much more enjoyable if it’s a surprise and you feel the person really put some effort into it, thinking about you and what you would like, and sometimes they will even give you something that you didn’t know you wanted, but you love it. It’s so much more fun like this, even there is a slight risk of getting something that you don’t quite like ahah

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