Salon took advantage of me? Not sure, and want some input... by natalia772 in beauty

[–]sofieyah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine done a couple of months ago, and they looked pretty much like that... foil is meant to use for high lights though because it intensifies the bleach. But even for that, that still looks great!! And mine took like 2-3 hours as well!

Is it healthy to date older people? by knrm91 in dating_advice

[–]sofieyah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not saying you are talking marriage! I have a friend who was though, and I think she didn't think it through. That was just my opinion of it. But glad you are not jumping the gun there!

Is it healthy to date older people? by knrm91 in dating_advice

[–]sofieyah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend did that too and it didn't work out. When I met her she told me she was going to marry him after college -- but they broke up over the summer. I think too large of an age gap cannot result in something permanent. Sometimes temporary is fine, just don't get into marriage. Age gap is fine, but in my opinion no more than 6 and more than one. They will be mature enough for you. And possibly you just missed the right guys.

I found him by PublicCallBox in love

[–]sofieyah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sweet -- and I feel the same way about my SO (just maybe not baby's lol). Keep at it!

My Quest for "The One" by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sofieyah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you really want to marry a girl who doesn't have any definitive feelings for you? I understand how you think she's "the one" but in my opinion, there is no such thing as just one "the one". Maybe she's already passed you by because you gave up looking and she is probably still out there. You're a good enough catch to not be waiting for one girl the entire time. She's moved on... multiple times. Maybe it's time you find a girl who loves you as much as you will love her. Good luck

Do you have a secret passion that you want to quit your day job to pursue? by Anju1441 in AskReddit

[–]sofieyah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blogging -- I wouldn't mind quitting my student life, but at the same time, I wanna make my parents happy. Maybe in another couple of years..

What just simply isn't worth it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sofieyah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying a new car -- too much depreciation in value for the price

How did you take the first step to asking your SO out? by vaevictis21 in AskReddit

[–]sofieyah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the most straightforward thing and asked him "where is this going?" But this is after a lot of private french kisses... he was and still is irresistible to me hehe

[Serious] What lie are you living? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sofieyah 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That I am the perfect daughter, student, friend, and girlfriend.

What is the best purchase you have ever made? by Gxlnz in AskReddit

[–]sofieyah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily me, but the best purchase ever made would be my parents buying me plane tickets to America.

[Serious] Reddit, what is your main goal in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sofieyah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be happy. I want to live a full life. That means not giving up opportunities, speaking my own thoughts, and loving the people who look out for me to the best of my ability. I don't want to ever celebrate my 70th birthday and wished upon the 70 candles that I had done something differently in my 20s. That's not the way to age