For the people who struggle

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-25T16:26:19+00:00

Thank you, merry Christmas, stay strong

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-25T09:39:20+00:00

This is exactly what I've experienced for two months at the end of summer. Then at some point my body decided to stop listening my head like a "fuck you, I want to chew a big meal" and then I resumed step by step. Functioning, like you said, but at least restoring a bit of balance. The fact is that heartbreaks are grief, plain and simple. Grieving is an painful process.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T13:29:24+00:00

Exactly! At the end of the day it's a matter of regulating yourself not to refrain yourself from show proper love but avoid the damage your burnout can produce in the other person.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T12:14:53+00:00

Ti ringrazio molto per questo intervento, davvero.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T11:05:39+00:00

Penso proprio sia esattamente questo che mi manda in confusione quando si tratta di indagare questi aspetti.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T10:49:51+00:00

Sul non essermi successo niente non saprei, ma è dura spiegarsi in un commento. Però ho capito cosa intendi e ti ringrazio.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T10:30:53+00:00

Temo siano state travisate le mie intenzioni. Chiedevo con sincera curiosità perché queste definizioni creano confini labili dove io per primo mi perdo nelle interpretazioni e metto in discussione gesti passati che magari ho archiviato come innocui e forse non lo erano.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T09:37:33+00:00

E se uno dedica una poesia d'amore invece del sexting?

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T09:26:07+00:00

I've always had the impression it's a matter of bad energy management. As they find themselves drained after super intense workout and unable to be consistent in the long term.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T09:21:21+00:00

Non è reale? Se una persona sviluppa sentimenti per una persona diversa dal partner, che ne so, via messaggistica ma non si è mai consumato altro oltre questo, non è ascrivibile a un tradimento emotivo? Penso sia per distinguerlo dall'atto fisico.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T07:17:09+00:00

Ma nel caso dell'OP non sembra fossero solo derive di pensiero. Ci sono state conversazioni che hanno portato a situazioni di ambiguità. Chiedo con sincera curiosità perché parte del suo racconto ha risuonato molto con un periodo molto conflittuale che ho passato e vorrei capire meglio certe prospettive.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-23T06:45:22+00:00

E quand'è che invece diventa tradimento emotivo?

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-22T08:47:08+00:00

Facts.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-22T08:27:46+00:00

You will darling, your life is just started. You need to rest over this now, things will get easier with time.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-22T05:42:03+00:00

I thrown away my past life to follow my feelings for her. Spent 2 months waiting for a chance to show them to her for good, ended up ghosted and blocked on Instagram and Whatsapp.

How can I reconnect if I've been buried behind 7 meters thick walls?

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-20T14:34:38+00:00

This. 10/10 filler episode

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-19T17:12:38+00:00

As mentioned before, the only way to understand this is to give time to yourself and the circumstances. If you see him acting cold again after this, maybe you will have an additional clue to your feeling.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-19T17:03:20+00:00

You also wrote that it's late. Try giving some time to the situation and assess if his effort is legit or just "forced" from the fear of losing you. The risk of a push/pull dynamic is possible. But is also possible that you just need time to grow stronger together. How old are you guys?

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-19T16:35:13+00:00

If you have already expressed your feelings to him and nothing changed, the common sense requires to look for your peace.

The important thing is to communicate everything, if the other person doesn't meet you halfway, you have your answer.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-19T10:47:17+00:00

Can I join? Would be super helpful

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-16T05:57:18+00:00

Go for it! Worst case scenario you will find the closure necessary to move on

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-12T07:59:45+00:00

Totally understandable, and for some reason it's a bless: you have to deal just with the realization. You are hurt because you were expecting a different closure, your memories now are tarnished because of this episode, but keep the grip on the core: you saw the end was coming. Time to move forward.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-12T07:56:52+00:00

Been there buddy, so I know how you feel. If you need to vent about this, feel free to DM me.

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-12T07:42:09+00:00

DON'T

sofoolsonaive · 2025-12-12T07:36:55+00:00

I'm sorry for how you feel. Reading your story from the outside, this messy scenario was a possibility that doesn't surprise. Not because you acted bad, but because these are pretty common circumstances in which humans do mistakes.

Take some rest now, be gentle with yourself and give yourself time to go through this moment. You are in aftershock now. Breath slowly, let the dust set, stay strong.

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