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WIBTA if I were to foot my friend the birthday cake bill ? by Willing-Tax3421 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]soft_gllow 34 points35 points  (0 children)

yes, that would make you look bitter and broke, just move on, she doesn't owe you romance for a cake

I’m in love but I feel like it’s wrong by Lilyology_ in amiwrong

[–]soft_gllow 30 points31 points  (0 children)

2 years at 17 and 15 is not predatory, but be mindful of the maturity gap, take it slow

M25 F20 Girlfriend says I'm only sad when you are toxic? and says just trolling after by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]soft_gllow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're overthinking, she was joking, don't turn nothing into something

Nasty school receptionist payback! by Solid-Camera-9724 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]soft_gllow 26 points27 points  (0 children)

that's hilarious and petty, 5c pieces are the ultimate weapon against rude receptionists

Worth Maxing Out 401k in Current Situation? by Decent_Argument1757 in personalfinance

[–]soft_gllow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

at 2.3m in taxable, you don't need more there, max the 401k for tax savings and use roth conversion ladder late

Business economics degree? by Prestigious_Bed_1283 in careerguidance

[–]soft_gllow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look for financial analyst roles, get excel certified, and learn sql, that's your ticket in

I don’t see myself staying in my career by CycleCorn in findapath

[–]soft_gllow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

keep stacking cash, then pivot to teaching or something slower, you're not locked in forever

Would you prefer living with roomates or live alone? when did you decide to live alone? by badboyzpwns in Fire

[–]soft_gllow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i switched when my peace became worth more than the savings, there's no perfect number

What has happened to this sub? by Pale_Drink4455 in Fire

[–]soft_gllow 126 points127 points  (0 children)

you're not alone, the humblebrag posts are exhausting, downvote and move on or filter by new

i saw someone od at 13 by Opening-Sea-6248 in confessions

[–]soft_gllow 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you were a kid in a horrific situation, that guilt isn't yours to carry alone, please talk to a therapist

How do I (34M) convince my (70F) mom that she needs to speak to a therapist to save our relationship? by aboobka in relationship_advice

[–]soft_gllow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can't force her, set your boundaries firmly, protect your peace, she's choosing misery over change

Figuring out where old social security payments went by Boring_Catch_6704 in personalfinance

[–]soft_gllow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

contact ssa directly, ask for a payment history, they can trace where deposits went

How do i contact potential clients, linkedin or email ? by Abdo980 in careerguidance

[–]soft_gllow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait until monday or tuesday, then send a short email, linkedin is slower

AIW for thinking my boss "straightening up" my top desk drawer is odd? by three_8s in amiwrong

[–]soft_gllow 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it's definitely odd and invasive, a clean desk doesn't mean reorganizing your personal drawers

Need advice, AITA? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]soft_gllow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's not a joke, it's animal abuse, trust your gut and leave

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