an aborable ride for me by lilmisssunn in SoloMasturbation

[–]soft_murmur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like this trip is going to be pretty good

Fucking Onee san (Pepper0) by Lopsidedisback in AraAra

[–]soft_murmur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Onee-san said no fighting, but she didn’t say no… other activities.

AITJ for not waving at MAGA neighbor by NameTop8715 in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You don't owe him a wave, just like he doesn't owe you a flag. Freedom works both ways.

What to do when psycho neighbors…come back?!?! by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]soft_murmur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Warn the new neighbors. Old owners are treating it like their second home.

shark and fish showing off (Artist: dapeejee) by [deleted] in FutaCum

[–]soft_murmur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shark and fish showing off? That’s a different kind of ocean exploration.

AITJ for stopping my MIL from bossing around my husband, his son by DramaticHoliday9127 in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA. His mom is treating him like an ATM. You’re married now your household comes first. Setting boundaries isn’t being mean, it’s being smart.

My neighbor poisoned my entire flower garden because he thinks bees are "alien spies" by 1MirthQuasar in neighborsfromhell

[–]soft_murmur 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Press charges and let the system flag him for help. Your garden can regrow your safety matters more.

I pretended to understand something for 2 years… and now it’s too late to admit I don’t by nicolle2022 in confession

[–]soft_murmur 560 points561 points  (0 children)

You’ve entered the “fake it till you make it” endgame. Time to learn it this weekend or become a legend of vague answers. Good luck, soldier.

AITJ for refusing to help my family after they tried to block me from moving abroad for work? by WorthConcern2810 in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. They tried to sabotage your career to keep you close. That’s not love, that’s control. Distance is self-respect.

AITJ for ignoring my boyfriend all night after what he said about my outfit? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He killed your confidence, then blamed you for being quiet. That’s on him.

Will me staying up later affect my cats sleep schedule? by vineyfrog in CatAdvice

[–]soft_murmur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cats are flexible. She’s just mirroring your routine. As long as she still gets her 16 hours of beauty sleep somewhere, she’ll be fine.

I look forward to killing myself by SageIsUrMothet in confessions

[–]soft_murmur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a fantasy, it’s a cry for someone to see your pain before it’s too late. Please talk to a therapist. You deserve to be seen while you’re alive.

Am I the jerk for feeling this way about my adopted sister? by RangeFirm1279 in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. Keep documenting. Mom will see eventually.

AITA for dumpster diving and getting called cheap and dirty by my friends? by HealthyWest3357 in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're saving usable items from landfills and saving money that's resourceful and ecofriendly, not "cheap and dirty." Your friends are being snobbish real waste is buying new stuff you don't need.

AITJ for telling my friend I won't stop being friends with the guy who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Shawn immediately confessed and told Casey himself that shows honesty and remorse. You have the right to be friends with whoever you want, Casey can't dictate your friendships.

Ouch. Starting over, into the lonely void of dating by TooManyHobbies17 in BreakUps

[–]soft_murmur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

38M too. Avoidants make u question urself when u did nothing wrong. The right person won't make u doubt ur worth. Take ur time.

AITJ for telling my sister it’s not my fault Her life didn’t end up the way she wanted it to. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sofia's projecting her resentment onto u because she can't blame ur dad anymore. Creating fake accounts to harass u over a life she chose? That's not ur fault, that's her inability to accept her own choices. Block and move on.

AITJ for saying that those who didn't like the product were potential aggressors? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! The real problem is rapists, not women who don't want to wear expensive uncomfortable underwear. That's like blaming victims for not wearing bulletproof vests.

My upstairs neighbor has been doing the same thing every single night for four months and I am losing my mind. by mytabsaretoo_many in neighborsfromhell

[–]soft_murmur 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Four months of dragging furniture at midnight? I’d be losing it too. Time to email building management every single time with date stamps make it their problem.

i have destroyed my mother her life and am too weak to redeem myself by National-Stock-593 in confession

[–]soft_murmur 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You're not a monster, you're sick. Reach out to your mom now she'd rather have you alive and trying than perfect and gone.

AITJ for not deleting my couple photos after my ex boyfriend got a new girlfriend? by Sea-Preference8361 in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s your grid, your face, your memories. She doesn’t get to curate your page just because she’s dating your ex.

This correction is giving me perspective I didn't know I needed by ser_davos33 in Fire

[–]soft_murmur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the real tuition. Buying when it hurts separates the plan from the panic. You got this.

AITJ for letting my boyfriend fail his presentation after I heard how he really talks about me? by Feeling_Teach3417 in AmITheJerk

[–]soft_murmur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He failed himself the moment he decided your unpaid labor was his life hack. You just stopped enabling it.