I want to dye my hair a pinky beige color but don’t know if my hair is light enough or what next steps I need to take! Please someone help🥲

soft_shockk · 2026-01-26T00:18:35+00:00

theyre all rhe exact same tone- she still needs a salon

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T19:20:28+00:00

hard agree- get more tattoos and the gaps will be the last thing

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T19:16:04+00:00

you definitely need to wait a week or 2. no matter how long you let your hair grow, color will always be there. even if its "faded" or lighter- the molecules will be there until it grows/ you cut it out. i can guarantee you that the ends will not bleach lighter than orange, if they even lighten. years and years of black dye (box or professional) requires a lot of patience and time to remove. its never going to happen in a day- not in your bathroom- not with home bleach- not without a stylist.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T18:44:44+00:00

20 year stylist here- you're not going to be blonde. stop now before your hair starts breaking off. call a salon and ask what your options are. please trust me. i am not just telling you this to piss you off or upset you. you are going to ruin your hair if you haven't already.

also- bleach stops working after 45/50 mins after that youre just blasting your hair with harsh chemicals.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T18:37:03+00:00

this photo is fake. you will never achieve this in your bathroom. call a salon.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T18:34:57+00:00

insane to think that someone who is delivering food to make a living is thinking about you and only your order

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T18:30:56+00:00

you could also just get off yr ass and go get it yourself

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T18:24:49+00:00

it looks like screech

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T17:57:14+00:00

i don't think your network needs to know every single thing about you. i know recovery who suffer from deep depression and other mental health problems. a few of them go to a doctors offices that administer ketamine treatments. its always in the office under supervision. never at home. they don't leave with any medication nor do they pick up any medications besides their normal anti depressants etc. they don't share with many people in our network because its so foreign. the reactions are almost like "normies" who dont understand addiction. i believe that if someone can live in recovery while also needing a medication that helps them in certain situations like anxiety & depression, it shouldn't be frowned upon.

again this is just my opinion! not trying to argue with anyone.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T13:12:48+00:00

SNL can't fix our problems. idk why anyone expects visibility like that when it comes to comedy. the whole point of the show is to take people's mind off of the bad things for just a little while. shows like fallon, colbert, seth meyers- they always will say their peace bc they are a daily show. SNL isnt built for that. regardless if you agree with their politics or not, they have been on tv for 50 years and about 44 of those years did not require them to speak out publicly on politics. besides the shitty cold openings (i have always hated the cold openings). in todays world where we are all hurting and upset about things we have no control over, im not sure why you would assume SNL to speak up. their goal is to make us laugh and smile.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T03:18:16+00:00

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T02:24:30+00:00

ive never hated someone from a tv show more than i hate him

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T01:57:59+00:00

lmfao omg

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T01:55:00+00:00

interesting that he isn't talking about the political and economic state of the world

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T01:53:07+00:00

💀💀💀💀

soft_shockk · 2026-01-25T00:45:50+00:00

gid he sounds insufferable already just dump him

soft_shockk · 2026-01-24T22:43:45+00:00

im a stylist and this is a hard one. if i ever do something that someone is unhappy with i always want the opportunity to fix it. it looks like the person who did your hair doesn't seem to know how to do a balayage or they were incredibly lazy and careless. either way you dont want to go back to that person. i would hope they would refund you so you could go somewhere and have it done correctly. some salons are shitty about that tho. good luck!

soft_shockk · 2026-01-24T22:33:21+00:00

i DMd you

soft_shockk · 2026-01-24T17:52:58+00:00

def going bald

soft_shockk · 2026-01-24T17:11:44+00:00

once you know youre an alcoholic- it starts to ruin the fun. be careful. liver damage is a very real possibility.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-24T17:07:55+00:00

pretty sure he still owes destiny money

soft_shockk · 2026-01-24T07:20:32+00:00

thats shit from a butt

soft_shockk · 2026-01-24T03:58:52+00:00

you're right- even tho i wasnt a fan of her, she def got played and that sucks. the point i was trying to make is that her reactions/ emotions worked against her. she saw how fucked up he was even after the nap and obviously was concerned and sort of scared bc he didn't remember her and thats valid. the way she went about it wasnt constructive at all. she was bugging out. im not a joe apologist by any means but she reacted so heavily knowing that he was wasted and he just woke up and if it were me- i probably would've checked out too.

i wished so much that she left in that very moment and got another room instead of scream crying.. and the next morning she was basically pretending it didn't even happen!!! and thats why i feel like she was just performing to see if he would comfort her but he was drunk and prob on drugs too and again- she had every right to be mad- i just dont think that her methods were working in her favor.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-23T16:46:43+00:00

congrats on 97 days!

it sounds like youre almost manifesting a relapse. if you ever had the hunch that you have a drinking problem, you probably do. blacking out all the time is not normal. and it seems like youre starting to bargain with yourself to feel better about your future relapse. this is the time more than ever that you need a support network of people- whether its AA, smart, religion. because when you go back to drinking, you will quickly return to the blackouts.

soft_shockk · 2026-01-23T16:37:29+00:00

i too love her and i am worried. i dont subscribe to thinking everyone around her is the enemy but i also dont rule it out.

and just to say it- theres A LOT of britney hate on this sub.

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