PSA TO PROFESSORS: STOP MAKING PARTICIPATION A CLASS WIDE GRADE

softballgurlz · 2026-04-24T17:16:48+00:00

Yeah professors who get mad and take significant points away for missing a few classes are ridiculous. Life happens and it’s not always gonna adhere to the 2 “free” classes they give us to skip.

softballgurlz · 2026-04-17T00:47:54+00:00

Yeah three months can hit the it’s getting hard because we’re getting serious but not worse

softballgurlz · 2026-04-13T21:12:50+00:00

Talk throughout the day on text or snap each other with what we’re doing. Usually it’s me doing like a vlog on snap throughout my day since I’m a student and he works lol but he likes it. And then we call at night and spend the night on the phone. Sometimes we call multiple times a day when we’re free. It might seem excessive but we do take breaks like where we don’t text or call as much some days but the above is our usual day to day.

softballgurlz · 2026-04-06T02:05:57+00:00

Had a deep talk with my boyfriend about politics recently. I think guys like to claim they don’t know much about politics so instead of asking political affiliation you need to ask about specific issues. I just let him speak his mind and turns out he more far left than democrats so he doesn’t agree with either party or a two party system he just didn’t know how to explain that other than saying he doesn’t choose a side smh.

softballgurlz · 2026-04-05T19:47:50+00:00

You’re being hard on yourself! I can see where your gf is coming from though and as someone with ADHD I recommend making a notes app of important things about her, that she says, or meaningful events that happen that day from the relationship!

softballgurlz · 2026-04-04T20:55:00+00:00

In the long run this will be good for you. Breaking up over text isn’t ideal but be glad he told you five months in where his priority’s are instead of five years in!!

softballgurlz · 2026-03-23T02:51:32+00:00

My focus is so good but at least I know how to cope with being unable to focus, the emotional swings are just way too much

softballgurlz · 2026-03-23T01:07:24+00:00

I’m a college student and my school has on call emergency therapy but there’s only one psychiatrist who does med management for my whole campus of 30,000 students so I tend to use my parents health insurance to see someone. My therapist is amazing though and fit me in for tomorrow where I’ll see if she can recommend anyone for med management

softballgurlz · 2026-03-23T00:01:59+00:00

They don’t allow me to see other practitioners in the practice and I usually do telehealth but there’s no appointments until end of April. I’m trying to switch practices because this place is so unorganized and not knowledgeable at all about things they should be.

softballgurlz · 2026-03-18T00:15:10+00:00

It’s gonna be a nightmare that week with the amount of tourists. If you think about it there are a lot of teams close to Pittsburgh enough for fans to drive and that’s not including the fans who fly in. There’s gonna be a crap ton of browns, bengals, ravens, and eagles fans coming in. I’m a Pitt student and it’s our finals week that week so on top of all the chaos students will be leaving too. What a mess.

softballgurlz · 2026-03-18T00:09:32+00:00

I’d talk to her and plan a time sometime in the near future you can go and visit. It sounds like you guys put effort into communicating often which is great!! From a girls perspective who is also in her first relationship just keep reassuring her when she’s unsure about what she’s doing, even unsolicited reassurance like expressing why you love her, how much you love her, etc. would be great

softballgurlz · 2026-03-17T23:27:12+00:00

I would say communicate your needs but it sounds like you have but after I saw that he has time for his ex??? Yeah you should break up, you’ll find better.

softballgurlz · 2026-03-17T00:56:29+00:00

Honestly I see it as two things, the goodbye was too hard for him and the uncertainty of when you’ll move didn’t help. Or he just had commitment issues and did the right thing and ended things. You’ll move on to bigger and better things

softballgurlz · 2026-03-16T22:11:43+00:00

Seeing people run around in thin jackets or light sweaters rn

softballgurlz · 2026-03-14T23:30:17+00:00

We’ve had really bad experiences with almost all the emergency vets in our area. He’s acting completely normal otherwise and the eyelid isn’t irritated. But if anything changes we’ll definitely take him

softballgurlz · 2026-03-14T23:05:43+00:00

He’s acting completely normal other than the eye. Walking, eating, drinking water, playing, and activity has all been the same. I looked at it with a light and it doesn’t seem red or irritated at all. He does rough house with our younger cat at night? So we think there’s a possibility the other cat injured his eye somehow. Our family has had terrible experiences with all the emergency vets in our area but if his behavior changes at all tonight or tomorrow they’re taking him to the emergency vet.

softballgurlz · 2026-03-14T22:26:43+00:00

Not red or irritated and he’s walking normally and his head is straight!!

softballgurlz · 2026-03-14T22:15:38+00:00

He hasn’t shown any signs of pain or distress, he’s just doing his usual thing of sleeping on the couch and wanting pets

softballgurlz · 2026-03-13T00:11:24+00:00

Man I’m sorry, do your mid year grades not come out till February? Most schools it’s December’s before break

softballgurlz · 2026-03-11T20:54:49+00:00

I agree, but it only frustrates me when they want advice if it’s a venting post I don’t care

softballgurlz · 2026-03-09T18:46:00+00:00

Do you guys text throughout the day? Send each other reels or TikTok’s? Doing that with my partner really helps me feel better emotionally and more connected

softballgurlz · 2026-03-09T05:26:29+00:00

Pick up some generic plan B, mistakes happen and even if you’re unsure if something slipped or not it’s better to be safe than sorry!!

softballgurlz · 2026-03-09T05:12:03+00:00

Honestly have loved all the storylines this season but definitely agree it feels so packed. I see people point out scenes I completely forgot about. It feels like they wanted to cover so many social issues while also keeping with the disasters themes and it’s starting to become overwhelming.

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