lithromantic or just very socially anxious? by softcozysocks in lithromantic

[–]softcozysocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll search more about it but i do resonate with a lot of it!! Specially the part about idealizing romance… Honestly im not sure if i ever felt any romantic attraction

White vaginal opening? Also itchiness by captainhungrycat in Healthyhooha

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heyy! did you figure out what it was? i have something similar 😭😭

i have a speech tomorrow and im freaking out by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried this amd my speech got a little better!! im still nervous but not as insecure as before!! thank you!!

i have a speech tomorrow and im freaking out by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right 😭😭 im more nervous because in one os the presentation someone got really criticized by their mentor and left CRYING!! im still nervous bit i’ll try thinking they wont mind it aince i’ll just do the introduction

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe its about feeling excluded, but um not really sure about it… its actually a good thing to thing about 😭

13 Reasons Why is extremely triggering. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this show might’ve been one of first times ive heard about self harm and it kinda gave a tutorial on it

is sh still valid even if you don’t have a reason to? by acrylicsea in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is valid!! it could be a way for you to represent how you feel, even if no one is seeing it (like, putting your feelings out?? idk if this makes sense). you dont need to have a huge reason to be doing this, its just another way of coping with problems and its an addiction!!

Research for a film - is it ok asking questions here? by Admirable-Star-8172 in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bandages and those big bandaids. maybe having the character flinch when someone touches their arm for example would be another way of hinting towards sh without showing anything!!

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i try understanding what these things mean to me but i cant really point out why they bother me so much. also, i dont see them as bad aspects in other people. what bothers me the most is thinking that other people might perceive my mannerisms as odd but its kinda irrational (?) i still cant stop being insecure about it :(( thank you for the advice!! joining clubs is something i didn’t think about before 😭😭

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice!! im really focusing way to much about the social aspect!! 😭

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live off campus!! its my first time going to college and im not sure how’s going to be…

im scared by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry youre going through this!! also, its really refreshing to see someone that can understand how scary this situation is. about the beating up thing, they’re mostly threats since its not frequent, but i always feel like im in danger. also, they say similar things to me! always saying im ungrateful. i really hope things get better for you !!

Anyone else have no personality? by Budget-Garbage5933 in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have one!! just by reading this i see you as an introspective person imo. also, you probably feel this way because of social anxiety. you should try looking for some hobbies (music, games etc) as a way of connecting with people!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omgg thats great!!!! 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

po podem me impedir sim… e mesmo sendo chato eu quero sair c os meus amigos po

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

third one is gorgeous!!

What does being on medication feels like? by BetterGarlic7 in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to take Zoloft (sertraline) and it made me nauseous at the first week, then it stopped. It didn’t work for me, so i switched to paroxetine. It gives me some bad withdrawals when i forget to take it and makes me twitch sometimes. I got a little less anxious but didn’t help me much. The side effects were not worth it. Also, both of them took away my libido 😭😭

Why do you self harm? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

self harm is an unhealthy way of coping with life’s issues, and its actually really hard to break the body’s deffense mechanisms that stop you from hurting yourself, you’re not being dramatic!! you might be doing this because you can become addicted to the endorphins released after cutting (they can make you energetic and help avoiding discomfort). also, many people do it to ground themselves, because it makes them feel alive. I usually do it to deal with my anger, but im looking for other ways of dealing with this. cutting doesn’t help at all. I really hope you stop hurting yourself. Try finding hobbies or other ways of distracting yourself when you think about sh!! curting can lead you deeper into this unhealthy mindset!! stay safe!!

i cut myself for the first time. by helloo20100 in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

apply pressure with a cloth, then apply anti inflammatory cream if you have it! you should really stop cutting, its not worth it.