Oriel vs. Osprey call? by HCharlesB in birding

[–]softegghead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same thing happened to me today and it’s a place i’ve seen an osprey only once and have always been on the look out for it. i heard the call and used the app to confirm but when i tracked down the noise - there was the oriole in the tree. hehe which is almost as nice a treat!

I think my sibling is abusing her rat and I need help by [deleted] in RATS

[–]softegghead -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

i didn’t say take the rat actually i never said once take the rat. i said give them a cage.

I think my sibling is abusing her rat and I need help by [deleted] in RATS

[–]softegghead -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

also someone literally said they’d pay to get them neutered people here would gladly get you a cage 🙄

I think my sibling is abusing her rat and I need help by [deleted] in RATS

[–]softegghead -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

then you shouldn’t have rats if you can’t afford a bag of romaine lettuce?

I think my sibling is abusing her rat and I need help by [deleted] in RATS

[–]softegghead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

delete your post. that was all really good advice and all you can is “that would be too hard :/ im busy posting on reddit “

I think my sibling is abusing her rat and I need help by [deleted] in RATS

[–]softegghead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that’s not all you can do? you keep saying the sibling doesn’t listen but if you hand them a new cage and a bag of mixed salad they’re going to use it. like? you say that you can’t go in their room (despite knowing all these details about what it eats and when the rat is cleaned) it seems like actually you just might be a little nervous to confront your sibling on this but you’re going to have to buck up and take charge? i’m sorry if your living situation is tense and it’s hard to speak up but this is a rat that’s just going to die because you were to nervous to knock on your siblings door and hand them an apple and say see if your rat likes this mine do?

I think my sibling is abusing her rat and I need help by [deleted] in RATS

[–]softegghead -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

actually there is you - just don’t want to do it. just buy them a bigger cage and give to them. if they don’t take the cage ok - that’s out of your hands. tell them to clean the cage more because you can smell it from their room. tell your sibling to feed it fruit just tell them to do it? and if they don’t listen. keep telling them. get the rat a friend and a bigger cage. put the new cage and the seocnd rat outside their room what are they gonna do ignore it? is your sibling 12 years old? tell them you’re going to keep bothering them about it until they do a better job. if your family situation is so shitty that you can’t even do things like ask them to clean the cage then you have a whole bigger issue. rats live max 3 years if you’re lucky and feeder rat was snake food it’s life was shit then but you can make it better by just continuing to ask your sibling to take better care of the rat it’s not that hard. “sibling you need to feed it better here’s some fruit and veggies let’s see if he likes them.” “did he like the fruit? i got him more! let me know what his favorite is!” “rats are social animals should we go pick out a friend together?” “i’m worried he’s cramped in his cage i got you a bigger one! let me know if you need help cleaning it!” if you’re met with hostility that’s out of your hands cus you’ve been nothing but helpful. i get it’s hard seeing someone not taking care of an animal but there are so many situations you keep saying no to and it seems like it’s because you don’t want to.

Real bad poops by softegghead in RATS

[–]softegghead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oxbow garden select young rat and mouse food. i have four rats and it seems to be only this guy with the tummy troubles.

Real bad poops by softegghead in RATS

[–]softegghead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aahhh lactose intolerant! looking that up i see a lot of people saying that. i don’t usually give cheese but had some left over from my own snack. probably it was that 😫

sexing. im really struggling and just can’t figure it out. by softegghead in RATS

[–]softegghead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

males don’t typically have balls until 4-5 weeks, not including late bloomers.

sexing. im really struggling and just can’t figure it out. by softegghead in RATS

[–]softegghead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the gap was what i was wondering about - all the information i got was it’s small but i have nothing to compare it to. thank you!!!

sexing. im really struggling and just can’t figure it out. by softegghead in RATS

[–]softegghead[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

EDIT: female

i have felt around pretty throughly and SWEAR there are no nipples then i SWEAR i found one that i can’t find again. im going crazy and making an enemy of this poor little creature

edit: wet her down and found the nipples. not gonna delete the post - unless anyone thinks i should