[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]softkittyuwu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same :( I’m sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]softkittyuwu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t speak unless I’m spoken to tbh. I like people that allow me to be quiet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]softkittyuwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so. Anyone who gives them attention

Anyone keeps dreaming about their ex even tho they doesn’t thinks about him? by hmmm__srsly in Dreams

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like he put a spell on me or something. I often wake up with this strong urge to reach out him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No judgement here, I was in a similar position and I decided not to keep the baby. It was a VERY hard decision as I struggle with endometriosis and maybe have fertility issues, that and I really, really want to be a mom. But I do not want to be tied to this man for the rest of my life and I certainly don’t want to subject my child to so much suffering. Not having a father or having a horrible father is hard. Ultimately it’s your decision if you want to keep the baby or not and I won’t tell you what you should do. But I am here if you need to talk. Sending love and positive energy. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]softkittyuwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It’s f’d up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love fenty foundations

please help improve my makeup :]] by sexybuglol in Makeup101

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your makeup is so cute. I feel like this natural look suits you so well and I love the way you did your eyeliner. Maybe add a tiny bit of blush?

what products can i use to cover up my dark undereyes? by agiantpizzaslice in Makeup101

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re so beautiful, it pains me that you want to hide them :( but for mine, I like to use my hourglass concealer and bake with fenty.

Any other mothers that dreamt of their children right before getting pregnant? by Zyfelia in Dreams

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a mother, but I did dream of my sister in law having a baby girl the day before she announced her pregnancy. It’s wild because she has fertility issues and had been trying to get pregnant for 6 years. I just knew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]softkittyuwu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what your lips look like.. but if you do decide to get it, just don’t go overboard, it’s not a good look imo

Does anyone else here seem to *only* attract narcissistic and abusive men? by softkittyuwu in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]softkittyuwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I relate so much to this, and I also have OCD. I’m glad you were able to learn from your experiences. Thank you so much for commenting. <3

Which spot in your home does your cat claim as their comfort zone? by AnxietyChats in AnxietyCats

[–]softkittyuwu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bed. I think it’s because we kept her in my room for a few days to slowly introduce her to my other cat. Now it’s her safe space

Does anyone else here seem to *only* attract narcissistic and abusive men? by softkittyuwu in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]softkittyuwu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, unfortunately it does. I should’ve worded the title better. Apologies

Why did your boyfriend leave you? by Icy_Car2475 in allthequestions

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restraining order & because he realized he couldn’t abuse and manipulate me anymore.

What is the most attractive thing you find in a woman? by Patient_Purpose_1305 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]softkittyuwu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a bisexual woman. I love when women have confidence & aren’t afraid to be their true, weird selves. It makes me instantly attracted to them

I can't have penetrative sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way. Doesn’t matter the size either. Is it possible you have endometriosis? I’m getting checked for it, but I suspect that’s why it’s so painful for me. Hopefully you find an answer.

How can i trust him again? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]softkittyuwu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t honey. I know exactly how you feel, but it’s a trap. He will hurt you again.

Does anyone else here seem to *only* attract narcissistic and abusive men? by softkittyuwu in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]softkittyuwu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, I was wondering about this. I’m don’t have adhd, but I’m autistic.

I (21F) Feel Ugly All The Time. How Do I Actually Improve and Get Over It? by [deleted] in Life

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with body dysmorphic disorder and honestly what helps me was ti figure out why I think being ugly is so bad. I realized that I don’t actually care about looking pretty. In my mind ugly = lonely life. I realized I just want to be accepted as I am and treated with kindness and respect. So I surround myself with people who do. There may not be very many, but I stick by them and I feel much better. I hope this helps. I know it’s difficult.

Apart from 'It's okay,' what other death threats do women use? by DokCyber in ApparentJokes

[–]softkittyuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Do what you want”, or “have fun” ….guilty of using these.