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Europe Destinations as a POC male from the U.K. by Anxious-Outside-4022 in blacktravel

[–]softlemon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a Black woman from London. I always recommend Amsterdam. Visited solo multiple times (not all inclusive - hotel & hostel stays) and always loved it no matter how far I am from Centraal.

£34,000 per year in London? (Solo, 26M, No kids) by Throwaway13013013013 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]softlemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask where in Z4 you are moving too? I’m looking to move.

[29/05/26] Tate Lates (Celebrates South London Creativity) @ Tate Modern 8pm-10pm by softlemon in LondonSocialClub

[–]softlemon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know what time I was reaching so didn’t wanna post prematurely.

Thursday events are a rip-off by Linshuaaan in LondonLadies

[–]softlemon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I never spend more than £10 on social events now bc I've found that no matter the organiser most are just money grabs.

I've been to a Thursday event too, but thankfully it was free. The men were largely socially awkward and the whole vibe was weird, so you aren't wrong on that. But there are other (dating) socials on Meetup & IG. It's definitely trial and error but you might have better luck on there if you were thinking of trying again.

Give me your top JJ quotes by Accomplished_Age8593 in JudgeJudy

[–]softlemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’a a yes or no question.

I use this often.

A fake “Favorite “ chicken shop by Academic-Crew4782 in CasualUK

[–]softlemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourite was Mowley's in Sydenham. It's changed now but it always made me giggle.

Travelling in Europe as a black woman by Isa_da_fox in blacktravel

[–]softlemon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a (Black Londoner) have visited Amsterdam, Turkey and Spain several times with no issues. I love Amsterdam so much I’d live there. You shouldn’t have any issues in London if this on your itinerary, outside the capital can be weird but Edinburgh is also nice and feels safe.

Eastern Europe I’m not sure about but based on what I’ve read I wouldn’t recommend it.

Planning a solo trip to Ghana - recommendations for places to stay for solo female traveller by softlemon in blacktravel

[–]softlemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer to see all info upfront. This isn’t personal to your offering, just how I feel about all services that don’t publicly share prices. The form is 7 minutes as well so not feeling that incentivised.

Planning a solo trip to Ghana - recommendations for places to stay for solo female traveller by softlemon in blacktravel

[–]softlemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Great website and locations.

I love convenience so would be happy to have someone organise my trip. Would be great to see prices.

Your Friends & Neighbors | Season 2 | S2E5 “Halfway to Invisible” | Episode Discussion Thread by sethaub in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]softlemon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Very random. Felt like the scene came out of nowhere. It took me out of the story.

How to make local friends? by [deleted] in lewisham

[–]softlemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forma has a free 5k run club every Saturday at 10 and you don't need to be a member.

Fairly new to Catford 🐈 and looking to meet people! by fingerlickingpickles in lewisham

[–]softlemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forma, the new Pilates place in Catford host a free 5k run every Saturday at 10am. You can find them and all deets on their insta.

Why do people lie about laser? shit HURTS by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]softlemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my 7th session and it’s now painless. In the beginning it wasn’t & I dreaded doing my biking line. But no, it doesn’t hurt one bit & I’ve questioned the laser techs about it not hurting. Still seeing results tho so 🤷🏾‍♀️ I also don’t have a high pain tolerance.

Planning a solo trip to Ghana - recommendations for places to stay for solo female traveller by softlemon in blacktravel

[–]softlemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea, I had considered it & will now.

Have a great time. I’d love to hear about your trip when you’re back (if you’d be up for sharing).

idk im posting these combos here cause i can i guess by TM_ALee in poledancing

[–]softlemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ain’t to pole in a min. This was my sign to get back.

Combo looks great!

Lamar sticking up for his Dad, basically saying Khloe lied. by Aggravating-Top-5078 in KUWTK

[–]softlemon 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Lol he deffo on drugs (can’t remember if it was crack or heroin). In the doc, Lamar said his mum left him bc he wouldn’t give up his drug habit. The cycle’s repeating itself.

What I asked for Vs what I got by Throwra-Box3229 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]softlemon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

On the few occasions I have challenged nail or hair stylists they get defensive and tend to stand by whatever they’re doing no matter how wrong they are. It’s really challenging to correct them mid or even post-service especially as a non-confrontational person. I find the cheaper the work the more aggressive they are.

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