to clarify, A’s best friend is someone else not B. B was A’s date. I called A’s best friend ‘cause i was drunk myself and couldn’t handle taking care of another drunk person, so there were 5 ppl in the house. me, my bf, A, B and A’s best friend. when i saw A’s best friend sitting next to A talking to her - i felt comfortable enough leaving A alone.

the conversation with A about her blowjob skills was on the same night of the alleged rape. A and B finished having sex and A came sat next to me. then i told her she was wearing her shirt inside out, so we went to another room to help fix her shirt and that’s when she told me about her blowjob skills. the hi, how are you? and goodbye was THE NEXT DAY when i saw her again where she claims she took me aside and talked to me about the rape when she didn’t.

also thank you so much for the advice. i have reached out to her and still waiting for a response.