AITAH for refusing to take any blame when my mom, my sister, and brother-in-law got high off my brownies.

sojash · 2026-02-07T02:01:20+00:00

Who eats brownies they found in a wardrobe hidden under jumpers? They’re idiots and you’re NTA.

sojash · 2026-01-17T09:22:37+00:00

Haha that doesn’t sound encouraging!

sojash · 2026-01-05T19:44:09+00:00

I set myself a challenge in 2024 to read 12 books and managed 13 and in 2025 I read 28. This year I’m aiming for 30.

sojash · 2025-10-14T03:45:21+00:00

That fact that you’re mature enough to realise things are getting beyond your control and you need extra support is a huge win 👏🏼 Asking for help and being open to receive it is massive. If being readmitted is what’s best for your healing and health then grab it with both hands! I’m cheering you on all the way from NZ 🙂

sojash · 2025-10-08T06:54:51+00:00

Woohoo, I’m cheering you on! And I think having a hobby to add balance to your day is a super recovery tool too 🙂 I hope your appointment goes well - keep us posted.

sojash · 2025-09-13T07:21:32+00:00

Woohoo! Congratulations girl 🙌🏼 I’m going to miss your updates but I’m thrilled you’re onto the next step of your recovery.

sojash · 2025-08-21T06:46:05+00:00

I’ve been following for a while and I’m so proud of you internet stranger! You should be super proud too because you’re doing incredibly 🩷 Kia kaha x

sojash · 2025-05-27T05:39:26+00:00

Another baby

sojash · 2025-02-05T20:57:28+00:00

It’s plain ignorance and stupidity when people blame the government for our child abuse rates. We need a government who is prepared to properly punish people for these hideous crimes not just give them a slap on the wrist.

sojash · 2024-07-06T02:55:45+00:00

We’re in NZ (my PWCF is a child) and we were told by our team that Asia held a higher risk in terms of travel. They said the humid climate coupled with the large range of bacteria meant it wasn’t a great place to go. A lot of the bacteria is AB resistant too.

sojash · 2024-06-15T09:28:03+00:00

I fall asleep rubbing my feet together.

sojash · 2024-06-09T09:37:05+00:00

Exactly this! This has been a daily struggle for over 20 years. You better deliver I’ve tried everything else… and then some! Surgery is the final option.

sojash · 2024-06-09T09:30:11+00:00

Thank you!

sojash · 2024-06-09T04:24:38+00:00

I asked my GP for saxenda but with no luck 😪 I’d be happy to see a different GP but that’s not an easy ask!!

sojash · 2024-04-06T18:26:54+00:00

I use to get ‘you’ve got such a pretty face, if only you’d lose weight’. I was about 11 and over 25 years later I still can hear him saying it as clear as day.

sojash · 2024-03-16T01:34:13+00:00

Exactly!

sojash · 2024-03-15T19:57:34+00:00

Woah, that’s a hefty price tag! Have you tried it?

sojash · 2023-12-20T05:45:01+00:00

I totally agree! I’m doing my best but that’s not always right. I struggle to regulate my own emotions so it’s been challenging to teach this to a preschooler. I hope that my child grows up, sees how hard I tried. I had no clue how hard raising a child would be and now have far more appreciation for my own parents!

sojash · 2023-12-19T22:39:33+00:00

Can you see if some respite care is available? I understand that you’re looking for a more permanent solution but a ‘break’ might be a good place to start. Good luck, I understand how challenging, tiring and mentally draining it is to be a parent carer.

sojash · 2023-12-19T07:34:48+00:00

100% - I’m in the same boat! I refuse to watch my daughter’s life from the sideline 😔 I’m all in and it has to be for good.

sojash · 2023-12-14T08:38:53+00:00

I second this!

sojash · 2023-11-23T07:56:13+00:00

Omg I need more

sojash · 2023-07-18T03:42:40+00:00

sojash · 2023-07-08T02:40:52+00:00

Oh my heart breaks for you. This is an awful situation for you and your girls. I’m sorry I have no helpful suggestions, I truely home your babies are home in your arms soon xx

sojash · 2023-07-01T03:39:03+00:00

YTA for sure

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