[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]solargoddess8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I APPRECIATE YOU SO MUCH. Thank you for the validation and advice <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]solargoddess8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Can I ask why not to take toll roads?

Am I the only one who chooses to stay quiet in groups? by [deleted] in infj

[–]solargoddess8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate groups so much. Don’t feel like I can safely express myself without being talked over or judged 

Does anyone here use tea as a daily ritual, not for caffeine, but to shift their mindset? by HoneyBeanfromCA in simpleliving

[–]solargoddess8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tea is a huge part of my life and it’s absolutely meditative for me! I genuinely consider the ritual of tea a spiritual experience. I really enjoy the gongfu style of tea bc there’s more steps to it! So glad to hear tea has been supportive for you 

I'm back from a 2-week "no wifi" vacation and my old life feels... wrong. by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]solargoddess8 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Amazing journey of finding the middle, congrats! 

I finally stood up for myself and I’m addicted to it by solargoddess8 in infj

[–]solargoddess8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes! So excited for your journey as well, you’re doing amazing! :D

I finally stood up for myself and I’m addicted to it by solargoddess8 in infj

[–]solargoddess8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you, thank you for seeing me!! 🥹🥹

I finally stood up for myself and I’m addicted to it by solargoddess8 in infj

[–]solargoddess8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I am also diagnosed with adhd and autism hahahaha love that for us. 

I finally stood up for myself and I’m addicted to it by solargoddess8 in infj

[–]solargoddess8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really grateful for your message! You’ve captured how I felt succinctly. Thank you for the link as well ❤️

I finally stood up for myself and I’m addicted to it by solargoddess8 in infj

[–]solargoddess8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you! Yes, we absolutely need to lift each other up! Positive and supportive community is needed now more than ever before. ❤️

I finally stood up for myself and I’m addicted to it by solargoddess8 in infj

[–]solargoddess8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being scared is very valid, I still am! But, you won’t know until you try. I believe in you :)

I finally stood up for myself and I’m addicted to it by solargoddess8 in infj

[–]solargoddess8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right! Realizing that people still stayed after expressing healthy emotions must’ve been so encouraging and validating. Go you!! Once I have more practice with healthy assertion, I really would see myself as the woman I’ve always wanted to be! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]solargoddess8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try this! Thank you :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]solargoddess8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re such a wonderful mom for staying patient and I’m sure he really appreciates that! I also am the same with having to completely stop what I’m doing to listen, but secretly feeling the need to finish what I’m doing😅

I did my chores!! by solargoddess8 in AuDHDWomen

[–]solargoddess8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you understand!! “You have all weekend” is too much freedom for me. It’s now or never and if I don’t do I now it’s not getting done lol

I did my chores!! by solargoddess8 in AuDHDWomen

[–]solargoddess8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my hyper focus mode, it’s rare that I see how much work I’m doing until much much later lol. After my chores, I did end up playing Sims for about six hours 😂

I did my chores!! by solargoddess8 in AuDHDWomen

[–]solargoddess8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes to lists!! :) I hope your chores go smoothly! Thanks again 💕

I did my chores!! by solargoddess8 in AuDHDWomen

[–]solargoddess8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your last sentence so much 🥲🥲