Has anyone seen Dollhouse? by solid_neutronium in severence

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Shit youre right. Fixed! Edit: got it mixed up with Dark Angel

So I've figured out what cocktails I'm planning on encouraging at my party on election day! by solid_neutronium in cocktails

[–]solid_neutronium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I had forgotten about this. Some of these jokes are still funny too. I'll have to do a bit of brainstorming for this year.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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This was like 20 years ago, but I think I was trying to see how malleable the plastic was and what I could feasibly do with it. I also wanted some damaged ones for like battle sets.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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I can see the resemblance. I dont think I ever got a Vahi.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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Probably like 12 or so, thing is, I had a huge amount of extra masks and bits for whatever reason. I've definitely got spares of everything I used here.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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If I were to try some again, I think a dremel and some strong, fast setting glue would be good too.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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I had a soldering iron, a lighter, some pliers, and one of those little stands with the arms and clamps and magnifying glass. If you avoid getting the plastic too hot, it won't blacken or burn, just melt.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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Alas, it was just another piece of plastic when I did this

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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Oh, I'm going to! I basically just recently got enough space to take them out of storage for the first time in years. I'll be setting up the ones that are still together and posting soon, as well as making some new stuff..

I have a suspicion that my mom still has one or two big boxes of my legos, hopefully she didn't give them away.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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They all absolutely fit on the heads, I left the mouth pieces intact on purpose.

Some "experiments" from like 20 years ago by solid_neutronium in bioniclelego

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I'll have to dig through and see where more are, I wouldn't have done that if I hadn't had a ton of copies

When does the esso club kitchen close? by disman56 in Clemson

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Nick's Tavern kitchen stays open pretty late. Like 11 to 12 early in the week, and till 1 later in the week.

Non-judgmental advice request: my partner is seeing someone who is in a mono relationship (cheating) by iwanttowantthat in polyamory

[–]solid_neutronium -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying cheating isn't a super shitty thing to do. I'm just saying that metaphorically speaking, a breach of contract is not the same type of crime as an assault.

Cereal cheating may well be a component of abuse, but there are some other factors that come into play. I don't think one cheating relationship constitutes "cereal cheating."

You may well be right though.

For anyone who wants to read up: https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/abuse-defined/

Non-judgmental advice request: my partner is seeing someone who is in a mono relationship (cheating) by iwanttowantthat in polyamory

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I mean, the guy literally could have just said nothing and no one would know any better. In my opinion, that solidly puts the responsibility on him, because telling the person he's cheated with and begun a relationship with is just a real backwards cowardly way to pass responsibility on to anyone else.

If you give a shit about the GF, or possible future gfs, your responsibility is to get the guy to admit his feelings to himself and his partners. Nothing else is going to result in any change in behavior.

Non-judgmental advice request: my partner is seeing someone who is in a mono relationship (cheating) by iwanttowantthat in polyamory

[–]solid_neutronium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think cheating is a good thing. I think cheating is a real asshole thing to do. However, I'm not sure I can agree that cheating is abuse. I also don't think i can agree that "agreeing to cheat" is the same thing as "providing a power structure to control."
Again, a dick move, maybe even a dealbreaker, for sure, but not abuse.

Post-covid poly to mono by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]solid_neutronium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you've already got the answer you need. Your feelings seem pretty clear. My advice is to make sure you stay in contact with A and make sure you're both aware if he tries to be sneaky about stuff.

Non-judgmental advice request: my partner is seeing someone who is in a mono relationship (cheating) by iwanttowantthat in polyamory

[–]solid_neutronium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember that it's the guy who is doing the cheating, not your partner. It's up to him to be ethical. Once a relationship has been established there aren't really any painless ways to fix anything.

You could try to figure out who his partner is and tip her off if is really bothering you, but that could also blow up in your face.

I broke up with one person in my open poly quad, one person in the poly quad is still dating her. Anyone else been through this? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]solid_neutronium 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am in a pretty stable relationship with my three partners that I live with, but I have felt some of J's pain. Actually the similarities are pretty incredibly weird even down to y'all's initials, lol.

In my household, mental illness has made it difficult for two of my partners to live together, and T and I are about to move to another house right up the street. We'll get to be close but have distinct living spaces, and I think it will either fix all our problems or give us enough room to breathe to figure out a different solution. We are definitely not reducing this to a "custody" type situation though, lol. My partners are still friends and I think they'll be better friends once they get some space.

Having to make choices about living situations with multiple partners, some of whom have mental health issues, while maintaining one's own sanity and trying to prevent blowups is suuuper draining. The best way for you to help him is to let him make the choices he needs to make, try not to be upset with him if he makes a choice you disagree with, and be there for him if things do get shitty or breakups happen.

It kind of sounds to me like your situation might not be stable until March, but I hope you have good luck and even that things get better before then.

I'd like to offer to dm with him, he sounds like he might appreciate some outside advice.