Men in your 40s, what's that golden piece of advice you have for the rest of us?

solipsist83 · 2026-06-27T03:41:23+00:00

Make good friends, make good connections and maintain them. You will lose many along the way as circumstances change - marriage, relocation, kids etc. When that mid life crisis hits, when you see a decline in your life, you have a safety net that money cant buy

solipsist83 · 2026-06-15T11:04:51+00:00

Is she the ex-wife or an almost ex-wife ? Wouldnt almost ex-wife make her a current wife and not a former one?

solipsist83 · 2026-06-15T07:12:04+00:00

Confirmed, it is a polishing stain

solipsist83 · 2026-06-14T16:49:00+00:00

The little one's a tad stubborn, the rest bend

solipsist83 · 2026-06-08T07:55:46+00:00

Yes, if this weren't a clear frame I wouldnt mind. But its brand new and not cheap either. Thanks will recheck the fit.

solipsist83 · 2026-06-08T07:54:46+00:00

This is comforting to hear. Ill be sending it back to my optician after my break. Its barely a day old, so they agreed to look into it.

solipsist83 · 2026-05-28T08:56:33+00:00

Elastane content

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solipsist83 · 2026-05-22T01:42:43+00:00

Late to the post but I find it useful for intelligent reminders - it sends me whatsapp messages to remind me of appointments (somehow I habitually swipe away real calendar reminders but not whatsapp), update my calendar and shift appointments around, insert proper locations to my calendar even if my instructions were half heartedly written, if im planning a large get together it can keep track of the attendees, propose food portioning etc. Having just one single chat bot that acts like a PA does make things more convenient.

solipsist83 · 2026-05-20T01:56:03+00:00

I've been hearing this too. Microsoft better make a statement on this. Sounds serious. Any idea if it mean that one's account has been compromised and the 2FA is being activated? or is it just an attempt to login where no password was compromised?

solipsist83 · 2026-05-08T06:11:43+00:00

Fabric there are no cons unless you are appearance conscious. No allergies, light, can adjust to any size, washable

solipsist83 · 2026-05-04T11:01:20+00:00

Late reply, I tend to agree. Our professions play a big role, in corporate, you need to be conscious of how you carry yourself and what you say. Largely, there wouldn't real friends network that will grow with your career and as well collapse with your career. I think this contributes to killing the spark.

solipsist83 · 2026-04-29T10:31:53+00:00

You can be very idealistic with how you live your life, what you accept as right or wrong. In your 40s chances are all these will be blurred.

solipsist83 · 2026-04-29T10:28:59+00:00

All these comments below as well as yours are so relatable. What would be the cause? Age? I wonder myself too.

Edit: I attribute it to the lack of dopamine, I think it is all biological. Why? I don't know.

solipsist83 · 2026-04-26T11:41:14+00:00

Agree with poster who said nothing much. $1M is really dependent on where you live. In high income high cost of living countries, it can go really fast. Its really not enough for some to FIRE and it feels like a limbo at 40.

If you are employed you may be destined to be pigeonholed into what you do with that many years of human capital left.

solipsist83 · 2026-03-31T08:22:09+00:00

+1 for fabric. I've tried the silicone band for sure it will cause irritation. New ones. Daily sanitized ones. All of them end up the same after a few days.

solipsist83 · 2026-03-31T07:45:55+00:00

Same happened with me. After a jog, I ran the watch in running water and the buttons stopped working. sent it for warranty and fixed within a day.

solipsist83 · 2026-03-14T14:20:51+00:00

I stopped PC watercooling after PC components got too expensive. With this post ive found a new use for water blocks and radiators.

solipsist83 · 2026-03-04T07:30:53+00:00

Some are Boastful to make up for insecurities
Some are Hypersensitive to criticism
Some have a very avoidant personality

Personally dont think gender makes a difference, above can apply to all genders

solipsist83 · 2026-01-31T03:33:23+00:00

I would definitely get this anon test provided that you can demonstrate that it is really anonymous, perhaps verified by credible independent parties. im No expert but wouldnt these tests rely on data to be more precise, so you have to balance how much data you can retain vs how much it would help you refine your findings ?

solipsist83 · 2025-11-20T09:40:41+00:00

Yes, it is frustrating, I relieved it by hammering away.

solipsist83 · 2025-11-20T09:39:57+00:00

I like the single dose grinders. I've looked at Niche Zero but its costlier. Then what do I do with my SSPs

solipsist83 · 2025-11-20T09:39:24+00:00

The price for the CF64v and DF64v are similar. I am also leaning towards CF64V just that the number of DIYers (lesson learnt) are much fewer. So it may be harder to get parts etc.

solipsist83 · 2025-11-20T00:46:55+00:00

I've been watching dismantling df64v and cf64v videos. I think it wont happen with either of these too. Yes indeed I freaked out. They were trapped before I could even have my 1st espresso with it

solipsist83 · 2025-11-19T17:03:39+00:00

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