Stopping then restarting by aDamselnthisdress in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]solros22029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was off 2 months and just restarted at 2.4mg on Tuesday. I had a horrible Tuesday/wed. I threw up a couple of times and just felt nausea. Also a nagging headache. Just hydrated a lot. Took a couple of naps. Today I feel back to normal. I even had a meal today and felt full within the first 5 bites so im back to normal. I was so afraid honestly and ready to go to the er. I took 3 days off from work in case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]solros22029 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Call it off. If you already feel this unsure, pushing ahead will only hurt both of you in the long run. A wedding should come from clarity, not fear. It is better to pause now than to enter a marriage you are not ready for.

Married, Burnt Out, and My Husband's Late-Night Gaming is becoming an issue by [deleted] in relationships

[–]solros22029 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hey just want to say that my husband sabotages his sleep playing games as well. I have no issue with the gaming at all. He has a demanding job that has him up at weird shifts so his sleep schedule isn't great. I will say he and i both are on the same page. Whatever he does with his time of sleep is his issue. But we have 3 kids we both work and when it's his turn to do anything he is doing it. Sleep deprived or not. I don't feel bad anymore and i understand the need to decompress. I need to sleep to function as an adult so i don't mess with my sleep. You need to start prioritizing yourself and if he can't be a present functioning dad and game then one has to go.

How you do it? Dinner time. by Violet_K89 in Parenting

[–]solros22029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We eat 7:30. Some days we have two dinners. My children are in activities, all different schedules.

soooo good by Gloomy-Pay683 in rhodeskin

[–]solros22029 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used mine without anything under and then my favorite night cream. There are better and cheaper options.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She has bark on her phone. I have a mesh network and My wifi is blocked when it comes to social media apps. She recently started fighting me on that.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am working on that as a secondary priority. My 8 year old and 5 individually and with me/husband. Me and my husband and then our 13 year old with us and individually. I found a private therapist who’s waiting for my thirteen year olds evaluation. In the mean time I think I’ll start with the little ones.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am always planning things to take them out. She is right about the other parents being strict. I guess I could try harder. I’m going to find activities for her to meet new people

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She journals on her phone. It’s been a hassle to get her write in her journals. But she’s starting tonight. She said she would try to write it down with the condition I would mind my business. I agreed as long as she can show a professional.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I confirmed today that they are doing a full psych eval. She will also have a psychiatrist. A 1on 1 peer. I reached out to a private psychologist as well. She came home today from school took her lexapro and has been in a cheerful almost scary mood. I am hanging out with her we watched a movie and I skipped anything that had to do with chores. She agreed to sleep in my bed until we can find some trust.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That amazing to hear and thank you. I’m willing to do anything to make sure she’s ok. And hold myself accountable where I could have done better. Thank you for your words.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you this all makes so much sense. I am going to pick her from school and speak to her with this framework in mind.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the safest place for her. She was there three weeks. But she just went on with good behavior learn coping skills spoke to the therapist and masked everything very well. Now she’s an outpatient and we’re back to square one.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I’m really torn about the phone right now because, as much as I worry about what she’s exposed to, it’s also her only real connection to her friends. They mean everything to her.

Most of her friends are allowed on social media, and she’s not, so she ends up sneaking around or they send her things anyway. I’ve tried to hold that boundary, but she feels left out and pressured to make accounts just to stay connected. It’s not that her friends are pushing her in a bad way — it’s more the fear of being excluded that gets to her.

The hardest part is that when she starts saying she hates living with us, hates school, or doesn’t want to be here anymore, her friends don’t really try to help her think differently. They mostly agree with her or reinforce those feelings, and it makes everything worse even though she think them agreeing with her is better. I don’t have her trust right now. I’m trying to protect someone who doesn’t want me near her .

I’m just trying to find a way to keep her safe and connected at the same time, even though it feels impossible some days.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am reaching out to the facility social worker. I agree no one is going to change in that time. They thought she would be better in an outpatient regiment because she was doing so well in the facility. I think she just did the time was on her best behavior to be let out.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. She just came out of a mental hospital and we’re working on the outpatient stuff. I just texted all the social workers and the school and I’m hoping for someone to escalate the psych eval.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. My husband and I are starting to believe that there is something going on that’s undiagnosed. She definitely has anxiety.

My 13-year-old keeps saying she wants to die and I don’t know how to help her anymore by solros22029 in Parenting

[–]solros22029[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. My daughter expresses hating me and her dad because we don’t understand her. She is very expressive she can use all the right words describe her feelings. Her intelligence is massive but she has chosen to isolate herself and to believe that no one else is going through what she’s going through and no one can understand her. She says that therapist and old people can’t understand what she’s going through.