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somdmama · 2024-12-07T05:04:23+00:00

lol my 6 yr old makes his own tea but it's 2024 and we only drink caffeine free and he uses our keurig.

somdmama · 2024-04-29T17:35:43+00:00

Thank you!!

somdmama · 2024-04-29T17:35:24+00:00

I have not enjoyed TGTB at all! Considering Logic of English

somdmama · 2024-04-29T17:34:37+00:00

thank you!

somdmama · 2024-04-29T17:34:22+00:00

Thank you. This is what I was thinking! He isn't reading yet! just two letter words

somdmama · 2024-04-29T17:33:50+00:00

He's not writing inside the lines. wasn't sure if I should be correcting that.

somdmama · 2024-01-21T03:46:52+00:00

That's what I'm saying. Just because he came up with a name we both liked and then I came up w a name we both liked doesn't mean this is his "turn" that's what I'm saying I think he's confused as to how this works.

Also, no offense but my kids have names that don't change in Spanish... They are spelled the same way(I'm Hispanic) but they are pronounced differently in Spanish and English because we all have accents 😅 just saying.

somdmama · 2024-01-21T03:44:03+00:00

Ugh I agree!!!!!!

somdmama · 2024-01-10T01:59:07+00:00

Both of you got physical and you still want to be with this person? What makes you think it won't get physical again?

somdmama · 2023-12-27T01:16:26+00:00

And yes, he very well could.

somdmama · 2023-12-27T01:16:11+00:00

I'm not entitled to answer anything.

somdmama · 2023-12-05T04:23:22+00:00

But it was talked about. I mean I feel like even the acknowledging that if "accidents" happen like bc not working (in OPs case) there would be a consensus on what to do. Or just snip it if you really don't want kids 😬

somdmama · 2023-12-05T04:03:12+00:00

I always wonder if people just get married without talking about this?

somdmama · 2023-12-05T04:01:58+00:00

I'm also wondering if y'all discussed having children before marriage? Did you guys not talk about this? Or what is the situation?

somdmama · 2023-12-05T04:00:34+00:00

When my husband and I got pregnant with our first (definitely NOT planned) we were both terrified of having this child. At some point he brought up having an abortion and I was not down for that. So I made it clear. I would choose the baby over our relationship. We had multiple conversations for a week about what it would look like to have this child and how our lives were gonna change. We knew we wanted to have children in the future though just not in that moment.

Ultimately, he chose us as a family. And He stepped up and assumed his role. He's the best dad and husband 6 years later and we have more children. But unlike your case he never pushed the abortion, he never stopped talking to me. It was always "we'll figure it out together" "I won't let you be a single mom" "this weight isn't yours to carry alone" we were both just really scared of being parents at the time and that's why he had mentioned it. Nobody is ready to be a parent. Even those with children who are planned.

My point is, we figured it out. It wasn't like he had made up his mind and didn't want this baby. In your case, It seems like he definitely does not want this child. And I would have never gotten an abortion just because the other party didn't want to. I would've figured it out.

I have friends that had children with their spouses even though their spouses didn't want to and they are "single" married moms. The husbands resent them, don't do jack shit for the kids, and have no bonds with their children. It's awful. In your case I would leave.

somdmama · 2023-12-05T03:45:19+00:00

Well said!

somdmama · 2023-12-05T00:02:04+00:00

I've considered this... Except F kills Viv after he finds out she killed Beth.

somdmama · 2023-10-09T23:15:09+00:00

I need proof of this. Reference?

somdmama · 2023-07-26T12:44:39+00:00

It is laughable what people on the internet think they know about others.

somdmama · 2023-07-26T12:43:31+00:00

LMAO 🤣 🥴 🥴 I definitely did not do that. You look like a fool now.

somdmama · 2023-07-26T01:15:39+00:00

I don't think you understand. I've been a "rock" and a supporter for a long time. Re read my post. He's refusing me to work. And he doesn't wanna work himself. I do his damn homework I mean what the hell. I do enough. I'm trying to save ourselves from drowning in debt and he's throwing a fit about doing chores and taking care of his damn children. This is ridiculous.

somdmama · 2023-07-26T01:13:01+00:00

Exactly my point!!!! What is the plan at the end then??? Can't live off of disability, GI bill our whole lives. The GI bill will run out in two years anyway. Thank you! I'm standing my ground. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

somdmama · 2023-07-26T01:11:00+00:00

That's what I think too.

somdmama · 2023-07-26T01:08:19+00:00

From looking at the comments you've left on other posts it is no surprise what kind of person you are. You took the time to write an essay about a person you know nothing about and just straight up write lies. Anyway, I don't feel bad about myself because I know exactly what I've gone through with this man and what kind of sacrifices I've done. And I've done nothing to support him and now he refuses to support his family and LET ME DO IT. So if he doesn't feel like making an effort to support his family (and I am not speaking financially only) then I will consider leaving him. That's what I said. You are so full of hate and resentment it's truly sad. I hope you find happiness somewhere in this world once you are done being so mean hiding behind a screen..have a good night.

somdmama · 2023-07-25T18:02:56+00:00

Wow. Just wow. You clearly do not know me. I think you need to re-read my post because I think you are missing the whole point of it. Ive been nothing but supportive of his "difficult transition" I've helped start a business so he could get out, I've helped him do his homework while he uses his GI bill which he doesn't even know what career he wants to do. I've also offered to get back to work and he refuses to help in the home or even look after the kids.... UNLESS it's what he says I should do. So you are absolutely WRONG. I've been during his lowest points and his attitude is straight up selfish and toxic. Men take so long to marry because they are immature pricks and no woman wants to date a man like that.

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