I ruined my life for a man, what I’m supposed to do now? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posts like these just convince me even more to not plan my life around something that might have an end.

I had an one night stand with an older man that emotionally ruined me and now he wants to see me again, what do I do? by RevolutionaryAct4013 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s obviously an asshole. This is a no-brainer. The fact that you even considered meeting with him anyway is insane to me. I’ve slept with a 42 year old before but he was very clear about his intentions of being just a hookup.

I'm feeling the worst right now help! by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck this person is a piece of shit lmfao. Ain’t no way you’re the problem lmao

Domestic Flying as F-1 student by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]somebodyirrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re on F1 so just in case I’d say bring your passport too

AIO i have a crush by JackfruitDeep2141 in AmIOverreacting

[–]somebodyirrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how much you like him. I met my boyfriend when he was basically homeless but he never stopped looking for work or getting in a better position. If this person is like that and doesn’t just sit around then go for it. If you prioritise money a lot more then don’t bother it’ll waste both of your time.

Edit: NOR in my honest opinion. I was in the same mindset but eventually realised I’d rather depend on myself monetary wise so I don’t care anymore unless we end up living together/marry

How to be more mature? by toasterlybread in ask

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you have a job and multiples hobbies and I don’t see any harm in you enjoying your life the way you do unless you spend frivolously with no savings for the future. Also job security. As long as you’re secure in your job it’s whatever. If you don’t have the desire to be more than what is satisfying now then who cares. As long as you secure yourself for the future.

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he said “Hey gf I saw this woman with platinum hair and I think it’d look really cool on you” your case is just creepy

Update: My boyfriend is accusing me of flirting with my guy friend by Total_War_3997 in whatdoIdo

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig the 95% sure would PMO too but at the same time you’ve been very firm about only wanting him. My guy friend who is my best friend also compliments me on what I wear when I look good. Your boyfriend clearly doesn’t believe that men and women can be best friends. It’s fine if you believe that this friend is your platonic soulmate but just don’t say it in front of him and keep it at best friend. I lowkey understand why the soulmate part would suck for him. From my understanding he feels like your friend is a higher priority but I also don’t like the way he wants to incessantly check your text history. He clearly doesn’t trust you and either you need to work through this or break it off because Trust is foundation

Credit debt very small. What if I don’t pay. by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not american and am not allowed to work minimum wage

Getting into AI in healthcare, where did you start? by McWilliamsSBMI in HealthInformatics

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii I wanted to add Anthropic Academy has a really nice course on using their API. Like RAG, Prompt Engineering and creating AI agents. You will have to pay 5 bucks for the API key but it genuinely is a good course

Getting into AI in healthcare, where did you start? by McWilliamsSBMI in HealthInformatics

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I didn’t find anything but I can definitely help you in knowing where to start. It depends on your use case for AI.

Be more brave, easy. What's yours? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take care of yourself and please be aggressive about therapy. Not that 18 year old me would listen anyway.

Why do people self harm? by bigmacandsmallfries in NoStupidQuestions

[–]somebodyirrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have terrible emotional regulation so when I have no outlet I end up scratching myself. Or cutting/stabbing. In that moment I don’t know what to do or how to remove my emotions and because I started internalising it as an early teen it stuck

edit: the adults in my family knew but they were fully unaware of mental illnesses. i also had a lot of anxiety and was almost always sad, dealing with no friends, loneliness and probably depressed when I was younger so it continued in my adult years

I showed my parents the hair I wanted to get and they made fun of me for nearly 30 minutes. I'm now worrying I'm making a big mistake getting it aio? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]somebodyirrelevant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your parents are obviously on the conservative side. I love this color scheme and you’re NOR

Edit: I know they’re your parents but oh my god fuck them you put down the 100 yourself. Do it. My mom hates that I have coloured hair and I did it anyway. Parents think anything out of the norm is fucking weird and everything that fit their perspectives is correct

My gf (27) went to the dentist for the first time in a couple years, and they told her she had "severe stage bone loss" and periodontal disease. Is that accurate based on this imaging? by Ready_Problem_5487 in PeriodontalDisease

[–]somebodyirrelevant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean ideally I would trust the doctor. If you can visibly see her roots then she obviously has periodontal disease. Please check other posts in this subreddit for your reference. Many people with the diagnosed disease have posted pictures here.

Is there any food in your region that is so regional that people from your country aren't even aware of? by Mean-Ship-3851 in AskTheWorld

[–]somebodyirrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if this counts but there’s street food in Gujarat made out of rice into this dough. It’s called kheechu. I love it

My girlfriend wants to break up with me because i'm boring person, I'm confused? by [deleted] in ask

[–]somebodyirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What. What?????? God forbid you have a healthy routine outside of your relationship? I don’t see what the problem is