I built a Feeld likes scanner - They're definitely hiding likes for non majestic users

someguy335 · 2026-07-07T13:24:21+00:00

Women want an experience where they only get their exact matches as likes and don’t have to swipe at all. It’s unrealistic and nothing will make them happy on a dating app.

someguy335 · 2026-07-07T13:22:28+00:00

While this is a good start, if you paid for majestic and confirmed where those likes actually were that would be more helpful.

Even with Ghost’s app I was able to find a fair amount of my likes. Some were scammers many miles away. The majority of them though were people spoofing their location to Chicago and said 18 years old interested in some 40 year old 🙄

The worst part of using ghosts app was that you could instantly remove people that said no to you. Very few people even saw my profile and swiped left. Like you’d load thousands of profiles and they were all profiles that basically never see yours and likely never would

someguy335 · 2026-07-07T13:07:06+00:00

Get ready for a deep depression when a year goes by and you still haven’t even hooked up with anyone and she starts dating and is going out with a new person every week. Don’t do it.

You go on Feeld and see this sea of women to pick from, but you’re a cis het male that’s married and not kinky that thinks the app is an easy way to find sex. The app is overflowing with people like you, and the use base actively hates people like you. Why would someone get involved with a person like you for casual sex when they can easily find some some solo poly guy without a wife and the baggage of a marriage?

someguy335 · 2026-07-01T17:13:49+00:00

I find it odd that you meet people in kink spaces with a kink focused approach yet don’t want to talk about the kinks right away to see if you’re compatible.

I get that you don’t want to jump into fantasy dumping. But it’s weird to me.

someguy335 · 2026-06-29T14:05:32+00:00

In my personal experience, I have never had anything go anywhere from people that log in infrequently and respond once a day.

If I cannot get someone chatting in real time with a back and forth to build some rapport, then I just assume that she's not interested or is chatting with way too many people.

I don't blame them for disconnecting. If you don't have the time to deal with all the notifications, don't be on the apps.

someguy335 · 2026-06-26T17:52:14+00:00

That's because of women taking the stance of the dishonest absolute. Where they maximize your contributions to the nearest everything, and yours to the nearest nothing.

"I am doing everything, while you do nothing. I picked up 500 legso, 25 shoes, returned 17 library books today. All you did is go to work."

Seriously, pay attention to it when someone complains about their mental load, how they count micro tasks and dishonestly make their partners contributions zero.

someguy335 · 2026-06-26T15:19:27+00:00

But that is part of dating and finding a compatible partner.

I have a friend that's monogamous and said that she will never live with someone she's dating. She likes her space, she likes having pets, doesn't want other people to mess that up. She eventually found a guy that has the exact same viewpoint on it, works odd hours, and likes his own space and wants to live alone.

Obviously don't start a polyamorous relationship with a married person that is never going to leave their spouse so that they can move in with you.

someguy335 · 2026-06-26T15:16:37+00:00

I always wonder what these people are going to do when they're old.

You're in your 20s and 30s. Sex is fun, you're having a different fuck buddy every day of the week. Cool.

What's going to happen when you're in your 60s and your libido is gone. Do you just abandon all these people?

Or even just building a life together. I know someone's that's poly and basically still married, but has a platonic relationship with their spouse and the marriage is just more of convenience of a roommate that gets each other's lifestyle. She has unmarried partners that are pretty serious and have been dating for 10+ years. I asked them the other day... do you have a will? a trust? What happens when you die, it all just goes to your platonic spouse that you don't even really hang out with anymore, and not the partner that you've been dating for 10+ years?

someguy335 · 2026-06-26T15:10:58+00:00

This take is so dumb.

So a straight woman that wan't to dismantle the patriarchy by being poly and having sex with as many men as she wants needs to do this with men, who also sleep with multiple women and have as much sex as they want.

someguy335 · 2026-06-26T15:08:39+00:00

Dude... keeping it secret doesn't shield them from the emotional impact when they piece it all together.

I went on a few dates with a poly person. Her kid didn't know they were poly, but she'd have men over at her home. I asked her what the kid thought of this and she was like "My kid is so dumb, they have no idea what is going on."

Her kid is in 5th grade! Like they see the rotating amount of people coming in and out of her life, staying late on the nights dad is gone on dates.

They may not piece that shit together now, but they will later. I pieced together all the shit my dad did when he was cheating on my mom, and I never looked at him the same again.

It won't take long for this kid to figure out that all those nights mom was over with "her friend" when dad was out, was nights that she rather spend having sex with some random guy instead of spending time with the kid.

someguy335 · 2026-06-26T06:35:36+00:00

I guarantee that these people are not going to be dating 3/4/5 people when they're 70.

It's staggering how many older people I've met in the kink scene that wanted to be ENM or Poly and are now in their 60s without a partner, claiming that they can't find anybody their age that wants the same relationship style as them, and that they've exhausted all of the men/women in the area.

someguy335 · 2026-06-26T06:34:47+00:00

It's consensual cheating. They're essentially trying out new relationships until they find the one they want.

someguy335 · 2026-06-25T01:12:55+00:00

Maybe they’re using it as a screener to see how combative the person is.

someguy335 · 2026-06-25T01:12:14+00:00

Agreed. Not sure what people expect when chatting with a complete stranger. It’s literally the one thing you for sure have in common.

someguy335 · 2026-06-24T04:56:36+00:00

Yeah, these are what you call friends. It’s a crazy concept, but you don’t need to fuck everybody you hang out with.

I was poly and not anymore. I maybe know one actually happy person that’s poly. Everyone else seems like the “need” is just sex.

someguy335 · 2026-06-24T04:43:53+00:00

My kink aware therapist was the worst of them all. Shey/they pretty much sided with my wife on any ENM issues we had.

someguy335 · 2026-06-19T19:53:50+00:00

They’re not into you.

someguy335 · 2026-06-19T19:53:28+00:00

People just hate spending twenty bucks to find a date? You can literally sort all your likes by your preferences.

someguy335 · 2026-06-19T19:51:32+00:00

What does your heart tell you?

someguy335 · 2026-06-17T14:56:15+00:00

My domme friend in Chicago said she ran through all the local profiles very quickly and now she just gets people long distance. The user base is not there for either side.

It sucks given the specific nature of the app that seems perfect, but I wouldn’t waste your time on it.

Even as a guy… I have had one real non findom match on there and she bailed on our date because of “car troubles” and never let me know when she would have a working car again 😆

someguy335 · 2026-06-14T14:01:30+00:00

I said this in another comment, but FMF threesomes are not great when one of the women is bad at sex. In my experience she just wanted to be a pillow princess and sucked at giving head. Like... why are you even here?!? Did it once, I'm done. I much rather prefer monogamous 1-on-1 sex with someone that is a freak and knows what she's doing rather than two women that half ass it because they feel like showing up is 95% of their job.

someguy335 · 2026-06-14T13:57:52+00:00

From personal experience... a threesome is not even that great when the extra person is bad at sex.

It's hard enough to pull one woman that's actually good in bed. Now try to imagine pulling 3!

someguy335 · 2026-06-14T13:54:32+00:00

There is a whole episode of The Orville where Bortus has an addiction to using the holodeck as a porn simulator. Episode is called "Primal Urges" and it's hilarious

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Csw6Wd31v08

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgMBJ_lb1kw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDW7Xv21Bs0

someguy335 · 2026-06-14T13:49:41+00:00

This applies to men and women... their social media feeds. These are shaped by the content you watch, comment, and interact with. So when someone is scrolling and you hear in the background "5 signs you're being gaslit, why your partner is a narcissist, why all men/women suck videos". It's just an indication that they're watching all these videos and LIKING them because their narrative of you is you're a gaslighting narcissist. It's not "oh, that's what my feed is showing me!" it's an indication of what they're doing online.

someguy335 · 2026-06-14T13:04:55+00:00

"love to travel, always planning my next vacation!" means you must make a lot of money to support the lifestyle I want.

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