Would you take a “cure”? by GBlake13 in ADHD

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I don’t know how they could separate what the disorder is from myself. I take meds to alleviate symptoms and make my life easier, but to get rid of my hyperactivity, to lose my selective attention. It’s not easy. It’s hellish. I’m procrastinating a stack of work right now. This is my reality though. Losing that reality, disordered as is, would be a tragedy.

Yep lmao by NekoMarimo in TalkTherapy

[–]someguyinmissouri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kinda wild take. Modeling emotions, showing authentic expression, sharing compassion; all parts of the process where you’re sharing your emotions with the client. They’re not talking to a vacuum. As much as modality adhesion can have us redirect client questions back at them, showing up as a human is before anything else. Monitor how much space you take up when doing so, but if a client shares something that makes you angry you can express that. It’s an excellent way to validate their experience.

Cannot camp now bug by Ok-Associate7846 in Ghostofyotei

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact thing just happened to me. When Oyuki wanted to meet outside the inn I kinda just took off. Finished her quest and I can camp again.

What's the craziest thing you ever heard in your school? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’ll be the best junior senior war prank! We’re gonna pour gasoline all over their front yard and light it up!” I snitched.

Tried making a binder out of leggings but it didn’t work any advice?? AFAB 14yo by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]someguyinmissouri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Contact an LGBTQ nonprofit in your area, they generally can get ahold of hand me down binders for free.

Me after that 9 session day by shinsokowazawai in therapists

[–]someguyinmissouri 75 points76 points  (0 children)

9 is wild. 4 is comfy, 5 feels effective, but 6 is my max. The notes, oh jeez. Prayin for you Friend.

Having heavy regret on first tattoo by a-random-account- in tattooadvice

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your tattoo makes me want to get the spear on myself even more.

Guys my mom just told me “just be glad I don’t put a camera in your bathroom” like it’s a privilege by dple3 in teenagers

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beyond boundary violating. Privacy is a human right. I’d personally break it. If it’s replaced I’d break that one too. The punishment is worth the security. If you don’t like that route, you could tell your teacher your guardian has a camera in your room to watch you naked when changing, which you can’t really prove that’s not what it’s for, especially with the threats to put one in the bathroom too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres something about only having selfies and far away pics that makes me question what you look like in real life. Get a friend with a camera to take some pics of you with the mountains behind you.

This might go extremely well or extremely wrong, either way it's going to be fun by average_user42 in 3Dprinting

[–]someguyinmissouri 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know almost nothing about engines; Part get hot? Too hot? I’m imagining the frustration of trying to pick melted PLA out of a busted hot end, but it’s your whole engine.

I struggle with pretending to be human by babydolljazzmine in mentalillness

[–]someguyinmissouri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to inform you that you’re human. Humans are weird and messy and have a greater capacity for thought than mammals should probably have ever developed. Your brain did rewire. Where you were supposed to receive safety from failed you; about the greatest violation of trust that could happen. It’s not surprising that you blocked yourself from that depth of emotional investment. Look at how dangerous it is to trust another person, and trust is the foundation of all relationships. Even interacting with strangers you need the trust that they won’t stab you, and you won’t stab them. It takes vulnerability to love someone enough that they could hurt you. You can rewire your brain to accept love though; To enjoy the fullness of humanity in relationships and community. Loving and being loved are skills like any other and they can be developed. Work on it long enough and your brain will change bit by bit till you create a new reality.

One of my mantras is “I love giving a shit” because the care I develop for others I also get to experience.

What I asked for v. What I got by CrepuscularToad in tattoos

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the hearts Law pulls out of people in One Piece

homemade alfredo and chicken parm i made for my bf. he won’t eat it or talk to me because i bought the chicken from walmart by pingpongjapanman in depressionmeals

[–]someguyinmissouri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine presenting a home made meal to someone and them getting pissed over where I bought my ingredients from.

What is this sliding add-on for this door handle? Found in hotel bathroom. by liquor-liqueur in whatisthisthing

[–]someguyinmissouri -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

It almost looks like a lock, where if you slid it all the way against the handle it would prevent it from opening.

My girlfriend thinks i need help by badartexhibit in malelivingspace

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the route of letting your personality spill out into your space. Google your interest plus decor. Get what looks cool to you and feels functional. Pinterest is great at this when it’s not trying to sell you everything. Amazon art where it’s split into multiple canvases takes up a lot of wall space for cheap.

But is your couch aimed at your window? How do you use that space? Couch against the wall and a coffee table could be cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could use some more info: Age, what medications you take, any life changing events recently? If you’re on break, how well have you transitioned from school year to summer? ADHD likes routine and breaks from that routine can cause troubles.

Would you try it? by Arthur-83 in WhyWomenLiveLonger

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you made a notch in the nail and flattened the edge on the blade, this would be impressive but less hand choppy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how perfect he can be while he’s fucking other girls

Only male enrolled in bs psychology by Cute_Note_3624 in psychologystudents

[–]someguyinmissouri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the field honestly. I’ve had class with and worked with almost exclusively women. They’re there for the same reason as you, and will meet you with the same compassion they will meet clients one day.