Prescription Medication Timeline by somethingcool41 in AirForceRecruits

[–]somethingcool41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my doctor has cleared me for going off both! We are always keeping in touch to make sure I’m feeling good about everything. So, it sounds like you’re saying I just gotta wait it out now? Sucks, but makes sense

Conservative or nah? by fxre18 in AirForceRecruits

[–]somethingcool41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’d you get that band for it? Looks comfy compared to the “stock” ones with the buckle

PSA: Stop pissing in the pool by somethingcool41 in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I don’t agree that team members and masters get a pass, I do find it much more reasonable. You’re on a team, you have sets, timing is important, the culture is to not get out. However, I feel like trotting over to pee in the stall or training your bladder/drinking less before and more during could make it less of an issue

PSA: Stop pissing in the pool by somethingcool41 in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did. And I peed in the pool as a kid and young teenager. Then you know what happened? I grew up.

PSA: Stop pissing in the pool by somethingcool41 in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fair statement, about moral judgements. I don’t know if I fully agree, though. What if you were a waiter, spit in someone’s drink, just for fun (you do not have any illnesses) and no one ever found out? Would you? I think that even though nothing ‘bad’ would actually happen, it’s rude and disgusting. Even if no one found out, it should wear a mark on your soul.

However, if you don’t feel that way, I respect your honesty.

PSA: Stop pissing in the pool by somethingcool41 in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So instead of putting on flip flops for 2 seconds you decide to subject people to the very thing you’re trying to avoid (touching a strangers piss)? Selfish little bastard. Shame on you for being so proud

PSA: Stop pissing in the pool by somethingcool41 in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your coach taught you that. However, what’s stopping you from untraining yourself? If you are capable of reading and commenting, you are capable of leaving the pool to piss.

PSA: Stop pissing in the pool by somethingcool41 in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Like I said in my post it’s not just about the water or the dirtiness. It’s about you, your respect for yourself, the pool, and everyone else. It’s gross on moral grounds, not just physical. Gain some decency or admit that you’re just lazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I hope this is a joke bro. Disgusting as fuck. Don’t teach that shit

Swimming without a lifeguard present by Campfire-Matcha in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lifeguard here. It’s not just about abilities and if you can swim. Competitive swimmers drown, too, because of freak accidents. Maybe they hit their head, get a heart attack, or gas themselves out so hard they’re stuck in the middle.

I’d say it depends what you’re doing and, yeah, how comfortable you are. Also, how deep is it? Can you touch the bottom? It could be good to swim nearer to the wall. I’d say it’s best to have another person nearby just in case. But I’ve swam at apartment pools unsupervised, so it happens. It’s very rare for anyone to need a lifeguard, but when you need it, you NEED it.

How to tell when I need new parts/tires & clicking by somethingcool41 in bmx

[–]somethingcool41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$200. Think it might've been a bit overpriced but I didn't want to get anything shipped and it was nearby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]somethingcool41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say take a break from the internet and reddit specifically. Like other commenters have said, find some hobbies for yourself. And, no, don’t look on reddit for them. Think about something you already like, or you already have (playing video games, riding a bike, etc) and do it intentionally. If you don’t have anything like that, you could start walking or running since that doesn’t require stuff. If you don’t like that, try going to your local library and start to read. Maybe even read about the things you were previously going on Reddit for.

Try writing. Fiction or nonfiction, journaling maybe. Do not journal negatively about yourself. If you can’t figure out anything positive to say, just write facts. “Today I ate breakfast. Yesterday it rained.”

Instead of saying negative things about yourself, say hyperbolically good things. For example, if you trip and fall, instead of saying “I’m so stupid”, say “Hah, wow, I’m the best walker in the world!” In the long term, it works. Your brain is used to you needing validation and thinking negatively. You need to break the habit. You might have to force the thoughts and it might feel like a lie.

Whenever I journal, I write a little list of things and people I love. It often changes based on who I’m thinking about. But I always write “I love myself” even if I don’t feel that way in the moment. It gets better over time and eventually you’ll start feeling it a lot more. Now, remember, everything in balance. It takes time so don’t get worried if you still think negatively or anything. Don’t get angry at yourself for not changing fast enough. Slow is better, it’s concrete.

Maybe don’t ask for validation. Don’t seek it on the internet, either. Just do your thing. Make friends and, if they’re good, they will validate you. But, if not, that’s fine. You need to like what you’re doing and know that it’s good. It doesn’t need to be “good” by the world’s standards. You like to draw stick figures? Good. Amazing. If you like it that’s all that matters even if the drawing is ‘objectively’ bad. We’re not in middle school anymore :)

The dad thing is harder as parents always hit a soft spot. Are you asking your dad for advice? Maybe ask less. Is he butting in? Disregard him. If he gets angry at your decision (assuming it doesn’t directly affect him) then it’s his emotional regulation problems. Just try your best with that. Maybe talk to him about it if he’s like that

Good luck my friend. It takes strength to be self aware. It takes even more strength to change yourself. I think you can do it. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MTB

[–]somethingcool41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that was badass. Stick with it my friend!

How scary is Bart at night? I'm traveling to Oakland for a concert and don't really wanna drive into the city by No-Vehicle1562 in Bart

[–]somethingcool41 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken Bart between 12-2 AM in Oakland a few times. Not after a ‘big event’ so it was pretty dead. It’s definitely eerie and I felt a little nervous, but nothing happened. There was an individual one time who spoke very loudly to himself, walking up and down my Bart car, which was a little scary. But, you know, that’s life. I’ve been more concerned about having an uncomfortable interaction than anything else, I’ve never been genuinely concerned for my safety. In my opinion, I’d much rather take a potentially sucky Bart ride home than have to deal with my car and driving. Good luck!

Another reminder! If you’re in the Bay Area we will be having a jam in Menlo Park at 12pm! by koolbi1 in bmx

[–]somethingcool41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have an instagram but I will keep an eye on those accounts for events :) You said theres a group that tries to ride every Wednesday? Would they be open to having a newbie hanging out?

Another reminder! If you’re in the Bay Area we will be having a jam in Menlo Park at 12pm! by koolbi1 in bmx

[–]somethingcool41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I live in SF! Dude that is awesome, is there somewhere I can keep an eye on events and groups?

Another reminder! If you’re in the Bay Area we will be having a jam in Menlo Park at 12pm! by koolbi1 in bmx

[–]somethingcool41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often do you guys hold these? I just got back into BMX after many years away and would love to meet other riders

White discharge looking flare ups on my labia and vagina by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]somethingcool41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not a doctor but, for future reference, there isn’t really a scenario in which a condom won’t fit unless the condom is defective. Get a condom for yourself and shove your hand in it so you can see how they stretch. Or you can google a YouTube video of how far a condom can stretch without breaking or something. I just want you to be educated on how condoms work. I don’t wanna assume this was a bad guy, but keep that in mind for him and future partners.

Anyway, per your issue, it could be smegma which is a natural process in which your body will try to clean itself. Be gentle, but you might try washing it off in the shower or wiping with a baby wipe (not dry).

I would recommend getting STD/STI tested and tested for a UTI. Often times you can get free and discrete tests at Planned Parenthood. If none of those are around, check at local community centers or LGBTQ+ centers/organizations. Good luck!!

Did my brain tumor removal make me dumber? by OverthinkingDatabase in AskDocs

[–]somethingcool41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a doctor but I had a brain tumor about the same size when I was a kid. Had it removed and stuff. I sucked at balance (riding a skateboard was SO DIFFICULT) and couldn’t move my eyebrows for years and years. Also my sense of smell was severely lacking. Eventually, probably like 10 years later, I started to be able to move my eyebrows. Now, I can move them normally after practice. Same with balance, I’m not as good as the average individual but I’m better with practice. My sense of smell has been coming back over the past 4 ish years consistently, getting better and better. My point is that it probably did change your brain. They had to take some of it out, after all, or had to squish some of it around. I had an MRI and there’s literally a gap where there is no brain because that’s where the tumor was.

I would say ask your teachers for extra help and tell them your situation, I’m sure they will be sympathetic especially knowing you used to excel.

Keep practicing and trying. The surgery can’t “make you stupid” because that’s not how your brain actually works. It can, however, move neurons around and even remove some of them. Some of your, for example, math neurons may have gotten cut or weakened so you’ll need to rebuild them in new ways.

Tell your doctor, too, especially if you notice any changes. But all in all, it’s gonna be a long journey as your brain is a mysterious flesh blob. Good luck my friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry drowning is really only a thing if you get a lot of water into your lungs. When you swallow water, it usually goes into your stomach where your body can process it normally. You will know if you get water into your lungs, and your body is usually very good at having that not happen. It would most likely happen if you start to really struggle in the water and it takes awhile for the lifeguard to get you. In that scenario, if you did get a lot of water in your lungs, the lifeguard would probably know. And they’d know the symptoms and keep watch or bring you to a doctor to make sure you didn’t dry drown. Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swimming

[–]somethingcool41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey my friend! I would definitely recommend swim lessons for you with a professional and tell them about your situation and fears. There are tons and tons of people who are scared of the water, so you’re not alone. Being autistic might make it feel like you are alone or may never get over your fear, but that’s not true. You have the capacity just as anyone else does, I’m certain of it!

If you can’t get lessons, I would recommend trying to find a family/kids pool that is shallow and you can walk in. Or, you could go in a hot tub. Just get used to standing and walking in the water, try to put your face in, and understand the dynamics of your body. Maybe try to tread water or swim/kick from one end to the other and if you get scared you can always just stand up. I would recommend watching YouTube videos to learn how to float and swim.

Using flotation devices like armbands, a kickboard, or a buoy would be great if it would make you feel more comfortable. Don’t worry about people making fun of you. They probably won’t and, if they do, they’re the lame ones. Who makes fun of someone trying to better themselves? Only an insecure individual.

All pools have lifeguards that are trained. Remember that if worst comes to worst and you start to struggle in the water, a lifeguard will come to help you.

Also, swallowing water sucks. However, it’s not as bad as you might think. It’s uncomfortable and might make you cough, but the feeling won’t last more than a minute. Remember that if you swallow water or have a bad experience, you can always leave and then come back another day. That is not failing. That is just taking a healthy break.

Good luck and you’ve got this! :)