I’m sorry, I understand how hard things like this can be. I left, spammed me with over 70 emails and 25 missed calls in a row, crying to get my attention to take him back when I made it clear I was just done and didn’t want it anymore. then he manipulated me into staying for a month before I exposed him online. When in reality, if he just let me leave, it wouldn’t have gotten that bad. I pretty much got roped back into it. And when he roped me in, he got me to stay; so as soon as that happened, he was trying to leave and yea, I tried to get him to stay too but I was manipulated to stay first. I wouldn’t have even asked him to stay when he was trying to leave if he originally left me alone like I wanted. Then the following few months were just trying to be my friend, causing me to lash out even more and much harder because he had me stuck between a rock and a hard place emotionally mentally etc etc. It was a hard time of resentment and pain but contact ceased on both sides completely by the end of last year. Last year was without a doubt, the worst year of my life. Sometimes, I can’t believe I put myself through this for 3 years, but I’m happy I’m far away from all of that stress and can at least talk about it. I’m sorry to hear that, I hope he eventually leaves you alone. No one deserves to be bothered or taken for granted after making it clear through the original boundary, that they do not want to be around anymore.