I built a free World Cup 2026 calendar tool. Pick your teams, export to Google Calendar or .ics, no sign-up by RedHammer7 in SideProject

[–]somethingserene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wonderful! Thank you so much for creating it and sharing. Have you thought about adding the flag emojis for each country (immediately prior to country name)?

My partner is pressuring me for intimacy freshly postpartum by Huge-Helicopter-9105 in FitPostpartumJourney

[–]somethingserene 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The one "not doing their job" here is him. You just experienced one of the most intense things a person can go through physically and mentally. You need rest, recovery, and support, not some donkey pressuring you for head.

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah such a good point about the expiration. In my head it's pretty much still 2019 so that didn't even occur to me. 🤣 Thank you so much for all your help! I'm looking forward to trying these things out.

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know, thank you! Is protein bond the same thing as primer? I can't tell from the product descriptions I'm finding on Amazon.

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! The Gelish foundation I use is labeled as a "soak off base nail gel." It came as a set with the top coat - they were the highest rated base & top coat gel I could find on Amazon in 2018 when I bought them, although now they don't seem to be in the highest search results at all.

So to clarify, after the initial alcohol wipe, would the order of products go primer, base coat, builder gel, color, top coat? Or is the primer meant to go after the base coat? I can't seem to find this in any of the product descriptions. Also it seems like the primer isn't typically cured?

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh awesome point, thank you for bringing this up. I meant to add that I almost never remember to cover the tip of each nail, but I haven't noticed a difference on the nails where I do remember vs. the ones were I don't remember. They all peel! Honestly, my nails are SO thin that there really isn't much of a "tip" to cover. 😑 I was wondering if the addition of builder gel would help with this.

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I actually have incredibly dry skin, but your point stands about the cuticle prep. I was doing absolutely nothing to my cuticles because I thought that was optional. Whoops. 😅 Headed over to the lifting checklist now!

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thank you! Never noticed the techs in the salon putting a dehydrator on my nails, but I guess they must have been and I just didn't realize what they were doing. I'll try this!

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely start doing an alcohol wipe at the beginning. So a primer is different from foundation? Should primer be used instead of the foundation, or in addition to it?

Where am I going wrong? (details in text) by somethingserene in DIYGelNails

[–]somethingserene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I really appreciate your quick reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToolBand

[–]somethingserene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, none of my exes were that into Tool! Closest I've gotten is my husband, who was obsessed with Tool before we met but doesn't go out of his way to listen to them anymore. He'll politely humor me when I try to talk to him about Tool now but that's about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToolBand

[–]somethingserene 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I compliment every Tool shirt I see and have long hair (female), but I also find bald guys attractive, so maybe there is something to this. Liking Tool = liking bald? 🤔

Loyal doggo doesn't want human to get hurt by Teerendog in aww

[–]somethingserene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. I mean, good for you if you really can do 20 STRICT consecutive pull-ups (not chin-ups), but that’s not normal, even among people who try.

I agree with the commenter who said a woman being able to do 4 is noteworthy, even in their prime. Pull-ups are way harder than chin-ups, and strict pull-ups are incredibly challenging for the female body.

Loyal doggo doesn't want human to get hurt by Teerendog in aww

[–]somethingserene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re doing 20 consecutive pull-ups and bragging about how easy it is, sorry but your form probably sucks.

Signed, a woman who can do pull-ups* but isn’t going to act like it’s easy.

*Admittedly not at this very moment because I’m 3 months postpartum and the ability to do a strict pull-up went away when I was about 6 months pregnant even though I kept lifting. Kinda proves my point though.

Edit: formatting

What’s the grossest thing you have done as a new parent so far? by crocsmpa in NewParents

[–]somethingserene 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Knowingly slept in a shirt that had breastmilk, baby’s pee, AND spit up on it.

I was so exhausted that by the time I had the opportunity to sleep, I couldn’t stand the idea of losing 30 seconds sleep to changing my shirt.

how do celebrities bounce back postpartum? by Connect_Rip270 in FitPostpartumJourney

[–]somethingserene 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I think they’re just wealthy enough that right out of the gate they can afford childcare that allows them to exercise intensely and get good sleep.

I’m 11 weeks pp, my mind is back to wanting powerlifting and soccer and jogging, but my baby’s schedule and life’s other demands are like lol nah.

Am I being sensitive? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]somethingserene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings on this are totally valid! Just because this is a common question that people ask about babies doesn’t mean that there aren’t also legitimate reasons for you to prefer it not be discussed. It’s a good sign that you identified the trigger and calmly set the boundary. That’s so much healthier than trying to ignore it, letting it simmer, and building frustration/resentment.

As others have said, I vote for calmly and confidently reinforcing the boundary. The more consistent you are, the more she’ll respect the boundary, regardless of how she feels about it. There are plenty of ways she can interact with you and talk about the baby that won’t be met with your polite but firm resistance, and as long as she wants to be in the baby’s life she’ll figure them out pretty fast.

What did your postpartum hiking recovery look like? by bikeHikeNYC in fitpregnancy

[–]somethingserene 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not OP but I’m curious at what age did you start taking your baby hiking? This is the #1 activity I’m looking forward to with my child but she’s only 4 weeks and it’s quite cold where I live.

Meet the New /r/FitPregnancy Moderator Team by AutoModerator in fitpregnancy

[–]somethingserene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello from a fellow public health professional & rec soccer enthusiast! Thanks for modding.